Love is friendship that has caught fire.
It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
Love is quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection.
It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you
-- to bolster your beloved.
You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away.
Miles do not separate you.
You have so many wonderful films in your head that you keep replaying.
But near or far, you know he is yours, and you can wait.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away.
I can't risk losing him."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic.
Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement.
Whenever you are
together, you hope it will end in intimacy.
Love is not based on sex.
It is the maturation of friendship that makes sex so much sweeter.
You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence.
Whenever he's away, you wonder if he's being unfaithful.
Sometimes, you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened.
He feels your trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret,
but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up.
It makes you look up. It makes you better than you were before.
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