Sometimes life just seems so much harder than it needs to be.
You try to make someone feel better and you end up feeling like
an idiot.  You try and feel the way you should and it just doesn't
come and you wonder why... and many other things.  but then 
again as the saying goes.  Life can only be understood backwards
but it must be lived forwards.  *sighs*   Sometimes the words just
don't come and you just have to hope against hope that.... they see.