IT’S ONLY ABOUT THE MONEY! ! !

If a paternity fraud victim has the audacity to ask for relief from the responsibility for a child that he did not father, the general response from the courts, the mother, and yes, from the bio-dad, is that “it’s only about the money. He (the paternity fraud victim) doesn’t want to pay child support.”

Do any of us want to pay child support? Especially for a child that is not ours? Isn’t that why there is a welfare reform act? So that the general public doesn’t have to support all these children being born to low income mothers.

The issue is definitely about the money. What is wrong with that! Would you want to pay for a car that you cannot drive, but someone else can, at any time, and with impunity? Do you want to buy a house so someone else can live in it? Would you pay for the maintenance of the property, and accept the responsibility that goes with owning property so someone else can live in it? Most people would answer no. Perhaps the person who lives there should pay for his own place?

It is, among other things, about money. The bio-dad does not want to pay for a child that is his. He had his pleasure and enjoyment. Now let some other man take the responsibility and financial liability for this child he created. Let some other man be dragged through the family court system for at least 18 years. Let some other man pay for the bio-dad’s responsibility.

Let some other man have the liability and responsibility foisted upon him, be made a criminal, be vilified in the court, the media, and public perception. Why do we insist on vilifying the cuckolded? He did nothing wrong, except to trust in and believe his lying, cheating wife, the same wife who has to hide a dirty little secret from her husband, her children, her family, and her friends.

We are now creating a society where the women can pick the “best man” for her children after conception and birth. In the animal kingdom, females generally pick out the best prospect before mating, not after!! And the courts and society are allowing the women’s behavior to go unchecked, with no repercussions (except to the paternity fraud victim and the child). How many of us would like to be told “just shut up and pay cause I said so?”