instructions to join:
1.) Before joining, first read: THE RULES!!! get yourself to know them better. don't worry, they don't bite. ^_^ HOWEVER, read the NOTE first.
2.) secondly, read the mailing list etiquette faq. basically, a guideline to netiquette for mls.
3.) click here. once you get there, click on a link that says "How Many ML Members Does It Take to Change a Light Bulb?" READ IT.
4.) you may then read the suggestions/rules that i will go by before a big flame war starts.
5.) after that, can now join. ^^;;; having been on over six billion mailing lists, trust me: those steps ARE necessary. and yet there'll always be someone to ignore them and then start a flame war or whatnot. ^^;;;;