Divorced or Seperated
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Survey for divorced or seperated people

Please take this survey if you are currently divorced or permanently seperated from your spouse.

  1. GENERAL QUESTIONS
    What is your gender?
    male
    female

    		 Are you currently
    divorced
    seperated
    (please complete this survey as though you were divorced)

  2. What is your age? years
    What is your ex-spouse's age? years

  3. How long had you been married?
    How long have you been divorced/seperated?

  4. EDUCATIONAL QUESTIONS
    What is the highest level of education you have completed?
    High school/GED
    Some college
    Associate's Degree
    Bachelor's Degree
    Doctorate
    		 What is the highest level of education your ex-spouse has completed?
    High school/GED
    Some college
    Associate's Degree
    Bachelor's Degree
    Doctorate

  5. Number of children with your ex-spouse:
    Who was granted custody?
    I was
    S/he was
    Joint
    Neither/Still being decided

  6. This was marriage number for me
    This was marriage number for my ex-spouse

  7. Before you met your ex-spouse, what were you looking for in a partner? Check all that apply.
    good conversation
    shared religious beliefs
    shared interests/hobbies
    nonsexual intimacy
    sexual relationship
    other:     		casual relationship
    exclusive relationship
    potential mate
    good looks
    other:
    other:

  8. What did you expect from your spouse? Check all that apply.
    honesty
    trustworthiness
    active sex life
    respect
    love
    validation
    friendship
    equality
    compassion
    understanding
    other:     		commitment
    acceptance of my family
    acceptance of me as I am
    be "head of the household"
    share my interests
    provide financial stability
    prepare my meals
    keep up the house
    take care of the kids
    other:
    other:

  9. What did your spouse expect from you? Check all that apply.
    honesty
    trustworthiness
    active sex life
    respect
    love
    validation
    friendship
    equality
    compassion
    understanding
    other:     		commitment
    acceptance of his/her family
    acceptance of him/her as s/he is
    be "head of the household"
    share his/her interests
    provide financial stability
    prepare his/her meals
    keep up the house
    take care of the kids
    other:
    other:

  10. How many of your expectations did your spouse meet:
    WHEN YOU MET?
    None
    Almost none
    Some
    About half
    Most
    Almost all
    All     		WHEN YOU MARRIED?
    None
    Almost none
    Some
    About half
    Most
    Almost all
    All     		WHEN YOU SEPERATED?
    None
    Almost none
    Some
    About half
    Most
    Almost all
    All

  11. What were the reason(s) for your divorce/seperation?


  12. Before commiting to someone else, I would make sure that:


  13. EFFORT
    Who put the most work into your marriage?
    I did
    My partner did
    We made equal effort

    		 My ex-spouse would say:
    I did
    S/he did
    We made equal effort
    Don't know

  14. Check here if your spouse has taken or will take this survey.

  15. Supplemental Questions
    Did you live with your ex-spouse before marriage?
    yes
    no
    		 What is your definition of marriage?


    THANKS FOR COMPLETING THIS SURVEY!

  16. Please give me any comments you may have, or additions or qualifiers to any of the questions above. Please refer to the question number if you are qualifying an answer.

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