My history of progressions and my present progressions are aimed at being a responsible super individual, able to contribute to future we progressions, where the we-life-aims are based on both sets of me-life-aims.      Harv's me-life-aims
   And until a lady connects, I choose to home share because a delimited togetherness life style is better for me than living alone.

Supporting detail for my personal ad with definitions from m-w.com follows.

upbeat  adjective 1947 CHEERFUL, OPTIMISTIC
pro·gres·sive  adjective  circa 1612
1 a : characterized by progress b : making use of new ideas, findings, or opportunities c : emphasis on the individual child, informality of classroom procedure, and encouragement of self-expression
3 : moving forward or onward : ADVANCING      4 a : increasing in extent
SWM single white male
62 years of age     fit   thesaurus  stresses adaptability and sometimes special readiness for use or action.
body  noun before 12th century
2 a : the organized physical substance
2a(1) : the material part or nature of a human being (2) :  b : a human being : PERSON
3 a : a mass of matter distinct from other masses      3c : AGGREGATE, QUANTITY <a body of evidence>
3b : something that embodies or gives concrete reality to a thing; also : a sensible object in physical space
6 a : fullness and richness of flavor (as of wine) b : VISCOSITY, CONSISTENCY
6c : compactness or firmness of texture d : fullness or resonance of a musical tone
dollars    [Harv believes that he has enough money for HIS super health life style. Or HIS PART of a to be defined we life style.]
mind  noun before 12th century
2 a : the element or complex of elements in an individual that feels, perceives, thinks, wills, and especially reasons
3 : INTENTION, DESIRE
4 : the normal or healthy condition of the mental faculties
5 : OPINION, VIEW
6 : DISPOSITION, MOOD
7 a : a person or group embodying mental qualities  b : intellectual ability
8 capitalized, Christian Science : GOD 1b
9 : a conscious substratum or factor in the universe
youthful  adjective 1590
1 : of, relating to, or characteristic of youth
2 : being young and not yet mature
3 : marked by or possessing youth
4 : having the vitality or freshness of youth : VIGOROUS
5 : having accomplished or undergone little erosion
spirit  noun 13th century
1 : an animating or vital principle held to give life to physical organisms
2 : a supernatural being or essence: HOLY SPIRIT b : SOUL 2a
2c : an often malevolent being that is bodiless but can become visible: GHOST 2
2d : a malevolent being that enters and possesses a human being
3 : temper or disposition of mind or outlook especially when vigorous or animated <in high spirits>
4 : the immaterial intelligent or sentient part of a person
5 a : the activating or essential principle influencing a person <acted in a spirit of helpfulness>
5b : an inclination, impulse, or tendency of a specified kind : MOOD
6 a : a special attitude or frame of mind <the money-making spirit was for a time driven back -- J. A. Froude>
6b : the feeling, quality, or disposition characterizing something <undertaken in a spirit of fun>
7 : a lively or brisk quality in a person or a person's actions
8 : a person having a character or disposition of a specified nature
9 : a mental disposition characterized by firmness or assertiveness <denied the charge with spirit>
13 : enthusiastic loyalty <school spirit>
14 capitalized, Christian Science : GOD 1b
synonym see COURAGE
seeks verb before 12th century
transitive senses
1 : to resort to : go to   2 a : to go in search of : look for b : to try to discover
3 : to ask for : REQUEST   4 : to try to acquire or gain : aim at
5 : to make an attempt : TRY -- used with to and an infinitive
intransitive senses
1 : to make a search or inquiry   2 a : to be sought b : to be lacking
ar·rive    intransitive verb   Inflected Form(s): ar·rived; ar·riv·ing    13th century
1 a : to reach a destination b : to make an appearance    2 b : to be near in time : COME    3 : to achieve success
- ar·riv·er noun   - arrive at : to reach by effort or thought
SF single female with her definition of her fitness
for life in concert  noun 1674
1 harmony : CONCORD
2 a : agreement in design or plan : union formed by mutual communication of opinion and views
3 : a public performance (as of music or dancing)
- in concert : TOGETHER

1998. Frequently played social bridge by invitation at this lady's home, we did some walking together, and she also invited me to her daughter's wedding. But not a youthful spirit nor life partner aimful. Her family group was a small church, almost as if a cult.    cult  noun 1617 1 : formal religious veneration : WORSHIP 2 : a system of religious beliefs and ritual; also : its body of adherents 3 : a religion regarded as unorthodox or spurious; also : its body of adherents 4 : a system for the cure of disease based on dogma set forth by its promulgator <health cults> 5 a : great devotion to a person, idea, object, movement, or work (as a film or book); especially : such devotion regarded as a literary or intellectual fad b : a usually small group of people characterized by such devotion
1985-89. Nanette. Close but not entirely comfortable. My daughter's age, I moved out state in 1987 and she married an in state fellow my age, they had one child, hosted a foreign exchange student, and square danced. I finally quit corresponding after years of her complaining that the husband didn't know and understand her as I did.
1995, 1996, 1997. Sue progressed in financial wealth, loathed the day when the bike way would bring people within sight of her back yard, and could have spent time in Florida but chose not to do so. The quality of our selves and our togetherness was not improved by my association. This was another try at unlimited giving depleting my life energies.    Although I did paint her house, dejungled the yard, renailed the house flooring, cleaned years-old flood residue from the basement .... DISCUSSION EASE was not present about similar aims. My assumed life path was to get a job. In hindsight, I avoided that "been there, done that" life style, and I did learn more about home sharing delimitations. My aims (love challenges) were not lucid.