June 2006. May on the right does not look too happy does she? That photo was taken several days after they were removed from the apartment I shared with the kids and mother. We were not married {my mistake}. I was sleeping when the mother Nezza took the kids at about 5:30 A.M. A coward by the name of Chuy Deleon was waiting in a taxi. May April and I were very close and I am sure they were wondering where I was? April was more easy going and from what I was told, Nezza just told the kids they will be back with me soon.
This webpage Was originally made many years ago when after my children were abducted from me in the philippines. I finally got reunited with them on the phone and a relationship continued up to the end of 2013. I finally made my way back to the United States from the Philippines to see them and I was just kept away from the kids and saw them just once. They were kind of cold to me although I'm not quite sure why as I spoke to them every week on the phone from about a year after they were abducted until 2013. About seven years altogether. I don't know what happened, but I got to see them one time since I got back and all these years since then. I was so good to them sending them gifts and money when the mother needed it for them. I did the best I could, but I didn't make all that much in the Philippines. Obviously they don't care anything about me or how I raised them even though I went to court and that no good judge actually had the nerve to say I didn't help raise the children which I most certainly did. I lived with them and the mother most of the time since their birth. I'm sure the mother lied about a lot of things to them about me especially one real horrible lie. I don't know what else to say at this point, but I'm so crushed. I have seen my kids two times since they were taken from from me in 2006 even though I spoke to them on the phone everyday for all those years while I was in the Philippines while they were in the United States. It doesn't seem to make too much difference to them. I still love them dearly and that will never stop. Everybody dies someday including myself and I want to leave whatever money I have to you, April and May whether you both care about me or not. I have no way of doing this. I don't know where you are, what your doing or where you live and no way to find you both. I hope some how you find this site. I dont know what else to do and this is the only thing I can think of to let you know about things. Perhaps you dont care either way. I dont know.
Chuy, If you ever get the chance to read this, I want you to know what a no good damn coward you are! Separating a father from his children especially the fact that you know, how close I was to April and May. What makes things even worse is, that you had two daughters of your own. There is no words for somebody like you, who will steal another man's children. Were you there at the hospital Chuy, when they were born, did you pay their hospital bills, their medical bills, their formula, their baby food, their diapers, their crib and clothes those first years of their life? Were you there after dedication to God's ceremony, were you there at their first year of life birthday party? Well you got what you deserved. You intenionally played me down to those kids and pushed me aside in their minds. Your two daughters were not enough for you? You should have been renforcing me to them as their Father. Remember, when Nezza called Lizel in the Philippines about a month after you took my kids to text me and get me to a computer right away to talk to May on Yahoo messenger? I rushed back to the apartment knowing something was wrong. May got on Messenger and she was HYSTERICAL. She was crying and I tried to talk to her but she was crying so much. I kept saying, May, May its Daddy. She was unconsolable. Nezza had to bring her in the Bedroom away from the computer. I did not know what was going on. Neza came back to the computer without May and I asked, what is wrong with May? Nezza said, Oh, she hurt her foot before! NONSENCE! May was hysterical, she wanted her Daddy! You think I did not know what was going on with my little girl? Unforgivable what you and Neza did to that little girl and April because of your own selfish reasons. They were not even 5 years old and she could not understand where I was! Why was it so importand to you to seperate me from my kids in every way, you basterd? I was a good Father and so close to the both of them. As soon as you and the kids with Neza got back to to California, you changed your phone # so I could not contact anyone. You no good S O B! Bernadte told me a lot about you and she was right.
I guess with all that money you spent on Nezza and what she did to you by getting knocked up by the idiotic piece of garbage, Travis. Payback is a bitch, is it not Chuy? Well, as far as I'm concerned, you haven't suffered enough, not even close. I know what kind of lies you told April and May along with Neza about me. You can be sure Chuy, you will be seeing me again and I know what you and Neza did in Manila and in the U. S. with the test results. You're both lucky you didn't go to jail for what you did! No wonder why you hired that corrupt attorney who actually was sentenced to house arrest in her past!
What is written below here was first done around 2007 or 2006 shortly after my kids were first stolen from me.
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A man marries a woman and takes another mans children while promising the father that he would never do so. This man helps the mother steal this fathers children as he slept and financed it all. The behavior speaks for itself about the children’s plight and the real father, obviously worried sick, compounded by the girls having been stolen from him, waits for attorneys and the legal system to negotiate its way through proper channels until he can reclaim his daughters to a life of normalcy, support, love and safety. The wait, it goes without saying, is in and of itself pure punishment.
The married couple allegedly had the documentation for the migration of the daughters tampered with. The 5-year old twins were especially close to the real Father and yet the couple did not allow them to say good-bye and he is now routinely denied permission to even speak with them. These children are the only family the real Father has and maintaining a day-to-day demeanor of life-goes-on-as-usual is understandably beyond anyone’s fair demands, with his heart subjugated every moment of every day, his thoughts elsewhere. The remainder of his family has all passed away and these children are at the center of his life, love and very essence and he desires to help them in every way. They are the center of what matters to him and he worked incessantly to support them since they were born. He showed his love by ensuring they had a loving Dad with them at all times. He is their Father and the only one they knew since birth. He senses that they call out for him but do not know where he is, given they were simply too young to understand at the time of their theft from him.
The response to his plight from the U.S. Embassy in Manila was not only less than helpful, it was downright and flagrantly shameful. Even after having been apprised of the deplorable progression of events, officials were apathetic and ignored documentation that should have been a red flag that the marriage to the new man was spurious. The Mother only married the Husband to gain U.S. entry which she admitted to and laughed about to many people including the Father of these children. The Father submitted evidence of this sham marriage which the embassy ignored and could care less. The U.S. Embassy proceeded to issue visas for the daughters and the Mother to migrate to the U.S., irrespective of what a sham was being presented right before them.
The girls are half American and half Filipino. Though the real Father did not marry the Mother, he remained in the Philippines for 6 years so the children would know they had a Father in close proximity at all times. Finding it difficult to uncover a reliable income given the Philippines strapped economy, the real Father suffered the resulting pressure, determining not to leave for what might have been a more financially realistic and better situation by going back to the U.S. He would not leave his flesh and blood. He was at the hospital on the day the girls came into the world and would never leave their side, until such was forced upon him without his knowledge when the girls were taken from him. During the past 15 months, the only remnant available to him, under the control of what one would not be overstating to term really the “rule of the Mother and the alarming and questionable actions of the husband, were a precious few phone calls to hear the girls voices - this is all that was afforded him by the couple. The Step Father considers the real Father one of a threat and the Mother, somehow; apparently does not appear to be overly concerned about the girls. “Daddy where are you”, one of the girls pleaded repeatedly during one of these last calls.
The picture and entire situation speaks for itself. It is obvious that the Mother married her husband only to gain access to U.S. residency, when the girls were extracted furtively from the Philippines and their Father, though the husband makes a decided point of refraining from acknowledging or admitting any of this as he is gutless and pathetically desperate for the mother. What makes this man even more sickening is that he has two teenage daughters of his own and never once contacted the real Father as to his daughter’s well-being. Though promised repeatedly that they would never take the girls from the natural Father without his permission, that was a prelude to doing just that --they had in fact conspired for months, premeditating to do just the opposite. The Mother goes along with her husbands wishes so not to lost her chance for American citizenship. The husband has changed his phone number so the real Father cannot contact his two little girls and has hid their location in California from the real Father. They are in the greater San Francisco vicinity, perhaps around San Mateo? This husband has two daughters of his own and without shame of conscience, he steals another mans little girls.
The real Father is petrified for his daughters and simply has no notion where they might be now. He raised them for 5 years. Every parent indeed, any individual with decency can no doubt easily comprehend the degree and depth of the ordeals: the girls and his appeal for help, not to mention the suffering he has undergone, which continues relentlessly. The Mother and husband have not contacted the real Father even once to reassure him of the well-being and safety of the very children they took from him. If anyone knows the whereabouts of or sees these individuals in the San Francisco, San Mateo or elsewhere.
You’d be helping in a real-life rescue and there’d be one very real human being, a loving, worried-sick-beyond-description Father who would be appreciative for it with his very life. He prays for fairness, the girl’s protection and the return of his children but most of all, right now, the help of others to locate them. Rest assured that all information and emails will be kept in the utmost confidence. Thank you for potentially righting a wrong that has rendered these two young and innocent individuals, as well as the Father himself, virtually helpless.
UPDATE
It has been a long time since this page was put up at the end of 2006. I feel I should update it. Since that time I found may daughters and was in steady but limited contact with my kids starting in 2006 with weekly phone calls from the Philippines to them and even saw them once in 2010. I arrived in San Francisco in November to be near my children and be back in their life not being able to stay away from them any longer. Low and behold, the husband is now divorced from the mother because of an affair she had during her marriage, but he is now back on the scene. He is living with of my kids, the mother and the child she had from her affair. I have seem my kids once and only once November 2014. The x husband is obstructing my relationship with my kids and the mother is obeying him. He is paying all the bills and that seems to be the mothers prime interest and going along with all he wants. What does he want? He wants his family back and he considers my kids to be his and wants me to go away.He considers me a threat and I am not. I just love my kids. He has and is destroying my relationship with my daughters. The mother is all to happy to go along with his wishes for monetary gain. Depriving her daughters of their real father. One of the lowest despicable things a parent can do is alienate the other parent from their children and for only selfish reasons such as putting their own gain above the good of their own children and she had called me selfish for pursuing my daughters and not leaving her alone!
I had no choice but to stay in the Philippines after my children were taken, because I had no family alive in the U S or anyone else to help me get settled again. I knew no one in California. Over the years I sent money, and gifts to me children and they call me Daddy. I love them so.
So now I am in pursuit of my children once again. I fly thousands of miles to be with them and I am being denied. The X husband seems not to be able to find or make his own life, but must steal another mans daughters and basically hijack them. This man has two daughters of his own and this, makes his behavior all the more inexcusable.
He is a controller and wants what he wants and his ways to be followed. This is no doubt a reason why this person has been divorced 4 times. He also years back married a women in the Philippines and divorced her in one month after his arrival in San Francisco and left her indigent. I am looking for justice, but mostly not for me, but for my kids. I am also concerned with the X husbands suspicious interest he has displayed with my daughters.
UPDATE-2 The x husband has now moved my children to another apartment so I can not find them. There are no words to describe this person to do justice to what is he done. I have seen my kids one time during the first week of November. This person {I will not call him a man} knows full well how much I love my kids. The fact that I helped support them over the years by sending what money I could from overseas and love my daughters and was totally committed to them means nothing to him or the mother it seems.
I have started a parentage case to establish myself legally as the father.
Some day she will answer to her daughters how she denied their father as their father. Seems she does not care for her daughters as much as her own - self and goes along with Deleon who pays the bills leaving her free to send her salary to her family in the Philippines. Deleon wants his family which includes MY daughters. All I wanted was to be part of my children's life. The X is financing an attorney for his X wife to continue preventing me from seeing my children. He is not a man of decency. He can not find his own life, so he steals part of mine.
All I wanted was peace and to see my kids and not bother anyone. The two of them think they will break me WRONG! It did not have to be this way. I am not trying to take custody or take my children away from the mother, their friends or their school, but just be part of their life. Part of me is in my girls and no one can take that away.
I saved money and hired an attorney and had a trial to be recognized as the presumptive father, but the judge ruled against me and I lost my case in July. I lost because, I could not prove that I had ever had my children in my home {apartment} in the Philippines. California Family code 7011 {d} states that this is a necessary formality to be given presumptive father status. The fact is that I had done this, but I have no witnesses to prove this. I had in fact lived with the mother and my children most of the time in the Philippines. The judge ignored this and outrageously stated in his finding that it was not my home but the mothers even though I paid all expenses. This judge has effectively made me a stranger to my own children and ignored a 13 year active relationship which my attorney had shown. This judges decision was unconscionable. The mothers X husband lied as did the mother in court.
Perhaps my attorney was over confident in court that I would win because of all the documentation we presented in court as was I. So now I have no choice but to appeal.
I wish not to disrupt anyone's life, I just want to be my daughters daddy. I just love them, that's all. This has been a nightmare for me so long now and I am exhausted. I will not give up.
