Prioress and the Wife
of Bath
They all sat in a great inn in the darkest of nights. The weather outside had grown worse with rain and thunder. Thus the pilgrims decided to stop and wait out the storm before they could continue on their way to Canterbury. Inside, the inn was full of warmth and delight. Most of the pilgrims and other guests were drinking, gossiping, flirting, and in general being merry. While the others were sitting at the table eating and talking softly among themselves. Of the latter were the prioress and the wife of Bath.
They had sat for some time glancing
awkwardly
at each other while eating silently. They had barely spoken to each
other on
this trip. The only exception being when they were telling their
stories to
their fellow companions. The ladies concentrated hard on each other.
Each was
wondering what the other was thinking and why she had chosen the life
that she
lived. Perhaps maybe, this would be the time to find out. But who
should speak
first?
The wife of Bath cleared her throat hard. Madam Eglantyne waited for a respond with
full
attention of the other woman. “Tell me prioress,” the wife began
puzzled. “Why
would a lovely woman like yourself throw away love and marriage for a
life of a
nun?” Eglantyne eyed her hard with surprise. How could she answer this
question, she thought. Well, she would give it a try.
“Because,”
Eglantyne began in her usual ladylike manner of speaking. “I chose to
marry God
because I felt it was my duty and that I owned him my life.” The wife
eyed her
silently. To her, this sounded peculiar because the wife of Bath had
lived a
loose lifestyle with five husbands and numerous affairs in her youth.
So she
felt no such duty. But in an odd sense, her answer seemed clear because
more
women at this time were genteel, elegant, and obedient to their
families, the
church, and society.
“Why
did you choose to be wedded to the flesh of man instead of God?” the
prioress
asked in return. The wife of Bath gathered her confidence to speak. “I
want to
love and to be loved.” she answered wisely. Eglantyne sat still. Like
her
associate, the answer seemed strange to her. The prioress’ reason was
that she
had grown up in an abbey and was taught manners and strict obedience by
the
head nun. Thus her view on love was quite different. But here was a
loose woman
who seemed to enjoy love, desire, and having a merry time over the
strict rules
that society had laid down for women. Yet, the wife’s answer made sense
as well
because it was human nature for one to gain the need to rebel at least
once in
their lifetime. The wife of Bath just happened to be one of those
people who
clearly showed that she danced to the beat of her own loud drum and
didn’t seem
to care what others thought about her.
Both women grew reflective. These were powerful answers they had given each other. In an unconscious sense of mind, the women seemed impressed by each other. Not only by the choices they had made in life, but their own reasons for doing so. It almost made each of them want to leave the world they had so happily lived in and venture into the others for a short time. Yet each knew that they could not do so.