Details:I am requesting Christmas assistance for my 3 children. I have a 2 1/2 year old baby girl, 9 year old son, and a 10 year old daughter.I am asking for help for Christmas presents for my children because of our whole situation we have been going through for the last year. I know I am asking early, but my situation will not change that drastically, that will allow me to do it on my own.I am having such a hard time keeping a roof over our head , let alone Christmas presents.About a year ago we moved from Sarasota, Florida to Gulfport , MS, so I could be by my grandma. We made the move and put all our belongings in storage, and went to stay with my mother.My mother ended up telling us to leave after 3 months with less than 24 hours notice. My husband did have a job at the time but we were in no position to financially be able to afford our own place. As it was, we were paying 170.00 a month to store our stuff. With not knowing what to do, we had to take a room without a kitchen and paid $280.00 a week. We did that for almost 3 months because we could not save up a month for an apartment and we don't have good credit, so we were stuck. It was a very depressing time for us. Anyway, after 3 months we got help from an organization and moved into a Days Inn Condo that was furnished and continued to struggle. That was in July and we had to get on a waiting list to get this place unfurnished so we could have cheaper rent and have our stuff. In Sept, my 2 year old fell from a ladder and was abulanced to an out of state hospital. She had severe orbital fractures and we were there for 4 days. During that time my husband lost income, which hurt us. We also had to buy my son glasses that same month. Last month we found out we could have this place unfurnished and had to come up with the past due amount so we could get our things back. We rented a truck with my birthday money and did get are stuff out. Our rent went down $125.00 and we lost the $170.00 storage payment. We were so happy because we thought things were going to finally get easier while we waited for a housing assistance voucher. Last week my computer crashed on me and I use the computer for work. It is income for us. We thought we were going to have to rent to own one for $200.00 a month, but luckilly my mom fronted me the 480.92 for the E machine that I have to pay back by the 25 th of this month, Plus worry about the $785 rent ( utilities included). More than likely we will have to get fronted $200.00 of December's rent and pay my mom on the first December paycheck. I will not be able to afford Christmas. I had to renew my tags that expired November 3 so that cost me another $90.00.Luckilly modest needs will be helping us with the $125.00 we still owe on our rent, They are the only reason I was able to pull this transition off and still renew my tags. I am very greatful for that. We work really hard. My husband has had the same job since we moved here and I do mystery shopping assignments. With my job I get paid the following month. So all the assignments I did in October, I see the money in November at the earliest. I did over 50 assignments last month that I thought would be for Christmas ( earned aprox. 600.00) but it will all go to my mom ( hopefully it will come before the 25th or the First) and all my husband's income goes to the roof over our head and food. I don't know what to do now. This family has went through so much over the last year and now I have to worry about the disappointment come Christmas. Granted I am very glad I have my things now and I get to see my childrens smile because they have their toys and their own beds. Plus I am not in a small room without a kitchen anymore. I am VERY happy about that but it was a long process. My children have always had a good Christmas and I feel like such a failure that I am in this position. Please help us , even if it's just for the kids. I don't care about my husband and I but my kids are my life. They are the reason I have kept struggling to fix our lives.I love them so much. Please help me
Cheryl Guckian......
Comments:9 yearold son has been sponcered by Giving @Home for Christmas! *sent by rosiegirl99 11/03/03 $170 walmart card for Gas and food.
Details=Money collected to help tide them over with Gas and food.This request has been fully adopted by rosiegirl99, she will adopt the girls for christmas!!
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myfiesta
myfiesta1@alltel.net
Date Submitted: 12/12/2003
Location:sanford NC
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details:girl 13, sz 5 jr pants and small women's shirts. She likes the flare type pants. She has been wanting one of those electric scooters and a game boy advance but I don't see any way of that. The boys just need some gloves and toboggins, shaving stuff, or large mens shirts. Thanks for taking the time to read. Details=My family of 5 only has one income and%2....NOTE 2 school age children.........
Comments:was helped by ACTR in 2002.....*Adopted by AF/ACTR $50.00 gift card sent*
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PrincessKiya
PrincessKiya@aol.com
Date Submitted: 11/14/2003
Location: Aurora IL.
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details:My name is Kiya, and I'm a single college student mom. I'm
currently
working part time and going to school. I barely see my children and I'm
requesting help for Christmas because I can barely make ends meet.
Whatever
donations are given I will be extremely grateful. God Bless you all.
Thanks.......
Comments:Adopted by AF/ACTR!! 3 Children a $75.00 gift card will be sent
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rochdalegirl0
pc1842@hotmail.com
Date Submitted: 12/04/2003
Location: Owasso,OK
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details:I am requesting Chrisrtmas help for my 2 Grandsons. 12 and 81/2 They need toys, also winter coats and shoes. I need help paying my Electric bill of $187.00.
I am 62yrs old and on Social Security Disability. I had an accident over 10 yrs ago and hurt my back and haven't worked since
My daughter , a single mom,lost her job in the Airline Industry over 18mths ago. She was unable to pay her rent or car pmt so needless to say she lost both her home and car within the first 3 mths. They have been living w/me since. I am having a very difficult time financially trying to provide for 4 people on my Soc. Sec. income and I am getting further behind all the time, I am now having difficulty paying my rent and utilities now so I will not be able to give the 2 kiddies Xmas this year. My daughter is so depressed now that she is hardly functioning at this point and has given up all hope of doing Christmas at all. She is having difficulty getting a job without a car as this town we live in has NO public transportation, no buses, no trains, not even a taxi service so you see she is in a Catch 22 situation w/out a car. I pray every day that something w/come up. I came across your website by accident. I hope you can in some small way, help me give the 2 boys Christmas. if not, I fully understand. there are so many people in need this year. If you can help the boys sizes are as follows:::coats size 16 and size 10. Shoes size boys 5 and size boys 2 Thank you and God Bless....
Happy Holiday to you all and your families. It is a wonderful thing you are doing and I know God must have a special place in Heaven, for people who do has you all do for others, again..Thank You
Respectfully... Patricia Connolly ......
Comments:Adopted by AF/ACTR 2 Children $50.00 gift card will be sent
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sahmoof3seller
IceeeeN@aol.com
Date Submitted: 12/13/2003
Location:sanford NC
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details:I am so very late in posting this and am sooo very hopeful something turns out for me and my family!!! I was just sent this link by a friend who listens to me vents about bills and knows what a difficult time we are having. We knew we were putting off paying some bills to buy a few things for Xmas this year, then we just got our water/sewer bill which is $258!! due 6 days after Christmas!!!! I have a 12 year old girl,a 15 month old girl, am expecting my first baby boy in mid-January! I have debated about writing this since I can't believe I am in the situation to, I am hoping my family gets picked for help this year either it be for Christmas help or just some help with getting my new baby some bare basics to come home from the hospital!!! This is the first boy in my family so I have NO hand me downs. I live in New England so i can't even go to yard sales to find anything. Since I have been out of work, 95% of my husbands paycheck goes on the household bills and this is our first Xmas with very limited income and I am afraid of disappointing my kids. Both my Babies will be sharing a very small bedroom, not much room to even walk in there with 2 cribs! We do get a little extra money from can deposits, coupon trading, which is in a water jug and at last count had $38.00 in it which has to go on buying the our new arrivals some diapers, clothes, etc next or Xmas presents, it's terrible to have to pick. I do get help for buying my daughter milk, juice, cheese, etc. through Wic, but can't seem to find anywhere else to turn. Even some suggestions of where to go for help would be appreciated! We just can't get out of the hole we are in now! Thanks for any kind thoughts and prayers, they will be just as appreciated..........
Comments:Adopted by AF/ACTR 3 Children $75.00 gift card sent
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sfstormdragon
amorvee@earthlink.net
Date Submitted: 11/06/2003
Location: Longview WA
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details:I am requesting assistance for Christmas for my family. I have a 7
year old girl and a 15 year old boy with special needs (LD). My husband
has been unemployed since January 2002. He was a contractor at Boeing
and got laid off due to 9.11.01. He is IT and unable to find a job. All
the places around here look at what he made and won't even interview
him because he made so much money. They are afraid he might leave. Right
now he is loosing weight so he can join the Navy. We haven't had any
financial income for almost a year. We just got booted from our home and
we are living in a temporary living arrangement. We just got approved
for Welfare (642.00 a month to live on and pay utilities and rent) and
HUD (we are considered homeless and that is how we got approved for HUD.
We were on the waiting list for almost 4 years), but neither will be in
affect or enough to cover Christmas for my family. I have RSD (reflex
sympathetic dystrophy)in my right hand and arm and it has taken most of
the use of my right hand and arm. I'm on a lot of medications and can't
work. It has been so difficult for the kids, moving and changing
schools again because of lack of funds. We don't have any money for Christmas
gifts or dinner. Our area is full of unemployed and homeless people as
well and not enough aid to go around. We have tried all the available
resources in the area and nothing. Can you please help? I want both kids
to have a nice Christmas and Christmas dinner this year. Last year was
not good either. Both kids sucked it up, but were sad. I am so tired
and embarrassed for asking for assistance to survive, that it has taken
an emotional and physical toll on me and my husband. He is on blood
pressure medication at age 33 because his BP is triple over triple and has
been to the ER three times since July.
Details=My daughter's main wish item is a Barbie House and any thing
Barbie. She's been wanting a Barbie House for 2 years now and I have no
way of getting her one. She loves Barbie furniture and Barbie anything!
She is in dire need of clothes. We never recieved any assistance from
any place for school clothes and supplies. Most of her clothes are
ripped or don't fit. I'm doing my best to sew and patch things up, but she's
growing so fast. She wears a size 12 top and bottom. My son's wish list
item is a Game Boy thing. I'm not sure what they are called. He has
mental health issues and this would be a wonderful gift for him. He wears
a size 34/29 pants (medical condition causes weight gain)and a size
medium mens shirt. I can send you his measurments if that will help. Any
help or gifts would be appreciated. I've listed their wish list gifts
though. They've had a pretty stressful year and I would like them to have
a nice Christmas.
Thank you for your consideration.
Anna......
Comments:Has had help in the past:Adopted by AF/ACTR 2 children a $50.00 gift card sent
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sgirl68
Autumnpkwy@aol.com
Date Submitted: 12/15/2003
Location:Hayes VA.
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details: I am praying to find some help for Christmas for my 4 children. I have two boys and two girls.I would be thankful just to be able to give them something in their Christmas stockings this year.If I could get any type of help I would be so thankful. I am a mom that is working really hard on trying to raise my children. I am currently on social security disability and am enrolled in school so I can have the opportunity to provide fully for me and my children. I had a late start because I have a 2 and a half year old that is disabled and had the hardest time to get child care to be able to attend college. I am also seeking employment and I am struggling with that mainly because where I live at there are not many jobs that a deaf person can do. I am praying by next year that I will be able to handle everything on my own. The main needs here are clothing and some toys for the baby as we did get so much ruined from the hurricane that devistated this town.
Thank you ........
Comments:Adopted by AF/ACTR $100.00 gift card sent
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SPORTSMOMOF2SEZ
SCOOPS1STBASE1@AOL.COM
Date Submitted: 11/25/2003
Location: CHICAGO IL
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details:OK, I HOPE I'M DOING THIS RIGHT THIS TIME. IN 1995 WE HUSBAND BECAME DISABLED & WHILE WAITING ON APPROVAL FROM SOC.SEC DISABILITY, I HAD TO QUIT WORK TO TAKE CARE OF HIM SO WE NEEDED TO USE HIS PENSION MONEY TO LIVE FROM. NOW THE IRS HAS WAGED HIS CHECK & PUT US IN A DILEMMA OF NOT HAVING ANY MONEY TO GET THE KIDS ANYTHING FOR XMAS, PLUS MY SISTER IS IN THE HOSPITAL INDEFINATELY AND I HAVE HER TWIN BOYS TO TAKE CARE OF. SO, I WAS HOPING THAT I CAN GET SOME XMAS HELP.BOY WHO'S 16TH B-DAY IS DEC.13 ANYTHING BASEBALL RELATED OR T-SHIRTS SZ. LG OR XLG OR SWEATS SZ LR OR XLG OR BOXER SHORTS SZ.32-34. GIRL 14YRS ANYTHING VOLLEYBALL RELATED OR T-SHIRTS SZ LG OR SWEATS SZ LG.OR PANTIES SZ6-7 OR BRA SZ 34B (WIRED PADDED) OR GYM SHOES SZ 7 (NO HIGH TOPS) TWINS BOYS 7YRS ANYTHING SZ 6 OR 7 OR ANY TOY. I DONT WISH TO REQUEST ANYTHING FOR MYSELF, BUT IF SOMEONE CAN HELP MY HUSBAND HE IS A 6X IN T-SHIRTS
THANK YOU,
WENDY ......
Comments:Adopted by AF/ACTR!! 3 Children a $75.00 gift card will be sent
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supermomnz
m0m24guys@aol.com
Date Submitted: 12/03/2003
Location: west springfield Ma.
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details: I am hoping to get help for the Holidays and general items right now. I had planned for Christmas but several unexpected and unfortunate things have happened to demolish what I had worked on. My food stamp benefits had been stopped because there was a misunderstanding with Child Support (which I receive none as of yet) The benefits have been reinstated, or I should say will be at the end of December. My children are in need of warm clothing, sweaters and sweatshirts and good thick socks. We have an old fake tree and decorations.. but little to put under the tree this year. All the extra money we have must go toward food and bills and what second hand clothing I can find for them. They need hats and mittens and scarves. I haven't had the cash to buy milk more then once a week, and it only lasts a day. I'm not sure what else to say here, its extremely difficult to ask for help at all and I do work. Thank you. .........
Comments: Adopted by AF/ACTR!! 2 Children a $50.00 gift card will be sent
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sunnymoonx
sunnymoonx@aol.com
Date Submitted: 11/16/2003
Location: West Yarmouth Ma.
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details:I am hoping to find some gifts for my children for christmas. My daughter is 7 1/2. She likes Neopets, drawing, writing, reading, her game boy.
My son is 5 1/2. He likes pokemon, writing, rescue heroes, ninja turtles, transformers.
My youngest son is 4. he loves trains.My husband had surgery 2 weeks ago and we don't have any source of income right now. I have applied for assistance but I am not sure when or if we will receive it. He will be out of work until sometime in January. I am just looking for some way to get a few gifts together for the kids for christmas. Thank you to anyone who reads this.......
Comments:Adopted by AF/ACTR!! 3 Children a $75.00 gift card will be sent
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the_caped_pumpernickle
ruby71975@msn.com
Date Submitted: 12/06/2003
Location: Coos Bay OR
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Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details: I need help with Christmas for my children. My
husband
has been unable to find a job. Our church has paid our rent the last
two
months and we do recieve food stamps. We applied for TANF(cash
assistance)but we were denied because my husband was denied
unemployment. I
have four children, 3 boys ages 7,5,and 2years. And a girl 3mos.
Thank you......
Comments:Adopted by AF/ACTR 4 Children $100.00 gift card will be sent
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threekids1970
Amazedbyu29@aol.com
Date Submitted: 12/06/2003
Location:Tomsriver,NJ
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Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details: Hello, I am not sure how all of this works but I would like to see if it is possible to receive some help for Christmas for my kids. My children are ages girl-14, boy-13,girl-10. I am a single mom and my ex is way behind in child support. I just started working about a month ago, at a retail store that was hiring sesonal employees, I've wanted to work before that but I had a hard time getting a job because I had been a stay at home mom for so long while I was married. right now we are living with my dad thankfully and I just have to buy food and help on utility bills, but making 6.50 an hour I just can't come up with money for x-mas. I know people beg for moneyand things all the time, and don't need it, but I really want to have something for christmas for my kids. If anyone can help, or tell me what I can do. I can verify everything I am saying. My oldest children know I don't have it so really don't ask for much, my youngest, she's begging for one of those bratz limos, but I know they are way too much. well thanks for listening to me.......
Comments:Adopted by AF/ACTR 3 Children $75.00 gift card will be sent
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thedalaimama
thedalaimama@yahoo.com
Date Submitted: 11/16/2003
Location: Sacramento CA.
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details:I need assistance for providing my son with gifts for Christmas
and his 4th birthday on Jan. 4th. He also needs warm clothing for winter.
I am a single mom, full-time student and this year started selling used
books online so we could have some income. The book business is not
panning out. Sales are not coming in. I do not have a job because I cannot
afford daycare for my son. It's everything we can do just to have our
rent paid. He is VERY aware of the toys out in the world that only
people with money can buy. I am very sad that I have not been able to come
full circle yet and take care of the two of us in a way that is sane and
secure. We received some gifts last year by means of this board, and we
are hoping to have some help once again. I imagine when he starts
kindergarten and I can work that I will be able to do this all myself. For
now, we must reach out to you all. I'm not sure what to ask for, as I
have not allowed myself to wish. What I will do is put a "wish !
list" together on Amazon.com under the name "thedalaimama" -- not that
you would have to purchase anything from there, but just to give you an
idea of what Ethan might need. Thank You and Happy Holidays! Kerri and
Ethan Mack thedalaimama@yahoo.com ......
Comments:Was helped with Christmas 2002!! Birthday part of request adopted by the Birthday box project 11/25/03....This request has been fully ADOPTED by Anon
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tina231979
tina231979@aol.com
Date Submitted: 11/16/2003
Location: Newoxford Pa.
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details: I need toys and and clothes for my kids my son is 3 years old and he wears a 4T and my daughter is 2 and she wears a 2T.I hope that someone will be able to help me out........
Comments:Adopted by AF/ACTR!! 2 children a $50.00 gift card will be sent
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utopia71
utopia71@aol.com
Date Submitted: 11/30/2003
Location: Bedford VA.
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details: I originally came to the giving board site in September, right after I had emergency brain surgery for a tumor that I didn't even know I had until then. Since then I have watched the site, & helped once in a while when it suited. Small, but helpful. Right now I have some auctions running split with GBS, I thought maybe that would help me as well as someone else. The fact is it's not enough. I have 2 boys ages 14 & 13, & a girl 6. It really bothers me to ask for help for Christmas for them, but it's not their fault I got sick. I can't work for atleast a year. I can however sew a bit, not like before, but I can. I'd be willing to help with fundraisers or whatever to help with things if needed. Anything to give the kids something for Christmas presents. I just don't know what else to do. Thank you for anything you can tell me or help me with.........
Comments: Adopted by AF/ACTR!! 3 Children a $75.00 gift card will be sent
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viragobikes
viragobikes@hotmail.com
Date Submitted: 11/24/2003
Location: Saint jo Tx.
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details: any help or prayers for my 17 daughter and her 7 month old baby .she was struck with west nile encephilitis and in the hospital for 11 days(proof available).I have sold alot of things to make ends meet and cover medical exspenses and child care. I also have custody of my 2 yr old grand-daughter. needless to say this year has been tough. but there is little left for the 2 babies to have much of anything under the tree. both children could use a merry christmas. God bless y'all for helping those you can. and Happy Holidays. ........
Comments: Adopted by AF/ACTR 2 Children $50.00 gift card will be sent
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weezy458
shelli458@hotmail.com
Date Submitted: 11/24/2003
Location:Pittsburg
Ks .
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details:I had a house fire in august and Im in dire straights- 4 kids, no
money for presents, utilities, grocerys. Anything would help. God Bless
You. If you need information you can call the fire marshall it will be
easily verified. ........
Comments: Adopted by ACTR!! 3 Children a $75.00 gift card will be sent
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Wizard_Sparkles
wizardbaby_auctions@yahoo.com
Date Submitted: 12/01/2003
Location: Hemet CA
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Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details: Christmas Help. Help to buy my 3 kids Christamas Gifts this year.I have 3 children, ages 9, 5 & 2. Our bills have been so bad, that it was either Sell the house or get foreclosed...we are selling, but no buyer yet. The Bills are getting worse. We are using every penny to pay the bills & buy groceries, and yet we are still almost 2 months behind on everything...Since we have listed the house for sale i had to quit my job, so that I could fix the stuff that needed fixin, like Spackling/paint, gardening etc. We figured losing my income of $35 a day was better than losing my hubbies income. As some of you may know my sister moved in with me in Feb, had a baby, & was denied any State Aid for some odd reasons...still dont know why. But my hubbies income has been supporting our own family of 5 plus her family of 3 to Total 8...that includes mortgage, utilities, Gas & Food...
Before i quit my job i did bid on some auctions, and won one or two, i still owe money on one of them. I did sell a couple items a month ago, and still have not shipped them, have no extra money to ship them.
AnyHow, feel free to email me for Extra details, Proof of anything, or questions. ........
Comments:Adopted by aunt janet:christmas for the 3 kids, light bright, 2 art activity center's, die cast cars, Gap jacket, girls pajamas, jell pens and pad, winniepooh puppet, vanity set, hit clip with radio, mini am-fm boom box, other stuff about 25 lbs. UPS 1z 96e 195 03 1012 824 4
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zweibruecken
germany@pngusa.net
Date Submitted: 11/27/2003
Location: Indianapolis,IN .
Verified Request: verified
Need: Christmas help
Details:Just some small things so my Children will have a little something for Christmas.
I have 6 Children,but i'am only asking for the 3 little ones,the big Girls and my 12 year ols son are very understanding.
Hope is 5 month old,socks,Diapers size 2,wipes are always needed,and she needs Sleepers size 6-9 month.
Kelly,age 5 on january 4th,Socks and Underwear,socks size 9-11 and underwear size 4T,she also is in need of Winter boots,size 11. She loves Dolls, that she can change and give a bottle to.
Linda,also needs Winterboots,size 2 in girls. Linda is 7 years old and loves Barbies,but Underwear,size 6 and socks size 9-11 is needet.
The big girls,Nicole,age 17 and Alexandra age 14,really are ok,if they get anything it would be some Hairassesories,and Ernest,age 12 likes Hotwheels and Wrestling stuff, but i know he is in need of Pants size 12/14 husky.
I want to thank you very much for your help,and so do the Children. I hope you had a great Thanksgivings,and we wish you happy Holidays.
Claudia........
Comments: Adopted by ACTR!! 6 Children, a $100.00 gift card will be sent
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