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=> Welcome
=> Feature Article: "Being Positive Amidst a Negative World"
=> Household Hint: Controlling Mosquitoes
=> Web Pick: Keeping Kids Busy in the Summer
=> Fashion Tips
=> Money Matters: "Load" Funds
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=> Pampering Yourself
=> A Little Laughter
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=> Recipe of the Month: Italian Pasta Salad
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Tired of the 9-to5 rat race, empty promises from corporate America? I was too!
I have my own home business that allows me the flexibility to work when I want and still
receive an income, plus benefits. No selling, delivering or inventory. A simple concept
that works thousands are doing it. No pressure, just the facts.
I love July! For me, more than any other month, it represents Summer. The weather's
heating up, good fruit abounds, it's time for vacations and the kids are out of school.
Well most kids anyway...
Those of you who have been long time subscribers know that I can never resist an
opportunity to help a college student. It's because I believe so passionately in
education! So when I was contacted by a doctoral student from The Ohio State University
asking for help from The Balanced Woman community of course I couldn't say no.
This particular student, Hope, is conducting a web-based women's health survey. If you are
a woman and over the age of 18, she would very much like for you to participate! The
survey itself is completely anonymous. If you choose to take part in it, you will be
eligible to win a prize in the prize drawing (lots of neat stuff!).
After completing the survey, you will be directed to another page where you can enter your
information for the drawing.
The survey should only take about 15 minutes to complete.
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come from them. Thank you for your patience and cooperation in this move.
Finally, don't forget about the FREE full version software we're offering in conjunction
with Planet Lucky. If you have any little ones getting ready for Kindergarten you may want
to look at "Little Bear's Kindergarten Thinking Adventure". With vacations
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PS Don't forget, our site updates and easy recipe of the month are at the end.
PPS On a personal note, I want to thank all of you who sent me information on travelling
to Williamsburg, VA for a vacation this summer. I read each and every tip and plan on
printing them out and taking them with me when I go! Thanks so much for taking the time to
respond. "The Balanced Woman" readers are the best!
Feature Article: "Being Positive Amidst a Negative World"
By: Jacqueline McLaughlin Hale
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Sometimes its hard to be positive when everything around you is going wrong.
It doesnt have to be the big things either. You may wake up in the morning just
feeling plain ole grumpy. Or maybe your spouse woke up on the wrong side of the bed. Or
maybe your coworker or friend is having a bad day. Whatever the situation, people you deal
with everyday can affect how you look at life in that moment.
If those people are important to you or close to you they may alter your perceptions and
feelings during the time you spend with them. You may pick up or catch their bad
mood.
Then again, maybe its not the people around you whove got your down. Maybe
its the weather.
Maybe the sky is cold and damp and grayagainfor the fifth straight day in a
row. Maybe youre stuck in the house with a sick child or a sick you or a sick car.
Maybe all the gloom has made you gloomy.
Maybe its events that have you down. You cant seem to find a babysitter so
that you can go out for a big night on the town. Money is tight and the bill collectors
are calling. Traffic is horrendous and youre stuck right in the middle of it, on
your way to an appointment that you simply cant miss.
Hundreds of little annoying, negative things occurring every single day can wear down even
the greatest resolve to be positive. They make it difficult to keep your perspective and
your chin up.
So what can you do about it? How can you lighten your mood and life your spirit when the
worlds got you down?
Its easy to say, Smell the roses, Look on the bright side
and Count your blessings. Its hard to do. And when its easy to say
and hard to do---thats exactly when its time for faith. Faith is believing
that things will get better, that life isnt so bad, that there are ups as well as
downs. Faith is believing when common sense tells you not to. (from the
film Miracle on 34th Street). It is hope.
Yet, its hard to have faith when everything is going wrong even though thats
exactly when you need it the most. So faith requires trusttrust that things will
turn out all right, maybe not the way YOU want them to, but all right just the same.
If you need to find faith and trust, think back to another difficult time in your life.
Remember the struggle, the anguish and the fight. Remember the uncertainty and possibly
even the isolation you felt. Remember as vividly as you can. Feel your lowest low again.
Now, remember the resolution and how it all worked out in the end. Even if it ended
differently than you had hoped it would, it probably made you better and stronger
nonetheless.
The world never stopped. Life went on and often it went on better and greater than ever
before.
Hold on to those thoughts. Let them bring you faith because if you do, it will bring you
peace. Peace that will allow the struggling and the fighting to stop. Peace that can end
the anguish. Peace that just knows everything will be all right.
Lifting weights strengthens muscles. Living through lifes struggles strengthens
faith and trust. The good times just dont do it. Only the challenges do
Jacqueline McLaughlin Hale is a CPA and the editor of Between Friends: Resources for
Mothers http://www.betweenfriends.org Between Friends contains household hints, time
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In many of the states in Northern America, July means that mosquito season is in full
swing.
To help control mosquitoes around your home:
1. Change standing water in birdbaths and rain barrels at
least once a week.
2. Empty children's pools and store them when they are not
in use.
3. Clean out your rain gutters regularly.
4. Keep your lawn and hedges well trimmed to reduce shady
areas where mosquitoes tend to rest.
5. Use bleach in your family pool to help kill mosquito larvae.
6. Try to pick a breezy location when enjoying the outdoors.
Mosquitoes have a hard time flying even in light wind.
7. Wear light-colored clothing, since mosquitoes are
attracted to dark colors.
8. Avoid using heavily scented shampoos and toiletries.
"Mom, I'm bored..." Sound familiar? Summer is fun but it can also be
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Its a question a lot of people ask themselves during the change of seasons. For as
soon as youre certain the new season has arrived, the old one seems to reappear.
So how should you stock your closet to dress appropriately during the transition? With key
pieces that span the seasons and look right in any kind of weather.
Here are a few suggestions:
*Start with year round fabrics.
These include favorites like jersey, cotton, silk, and denim in weights that are
appropriate for your region.
*Buy in year round colors.
These are the basics in your best colors like black, brown, navy, and gray, as
described in Wardrobe Magic,
in tones that mix and match with other pieces in your wardrobe.
*Keep neutrals handy.
Use your taupes, camels, creams, and beiges generously this time of year. They work well
with both seasons and can make your ensemble appear as one season or another by their
appearance or their absence.
*Layer for maximum versatility.
Always include pieces that you can add or subtract as the days temperatures rise or
fall. Opt for classic styles in neutral colors so you can do a lot with very little.
The key to success is flexibility. While you may be tempted to show off your new season
wardrobe, dont be so quick to jump the gun. Nothing looks sillier than wearing the
wrong seasons clothes, even if its just a few weeks off. Instead, pull out
your transitional fabrics, colors, and seasonless staples to look great no matter what the
weather.
Need some additional tips? Download a copy of Wardrobe Magic to see just how
easy looking great can be,
Diana Pemberton-Sikes is a wardrobe and image consultant and editor of "Fashion
Savvy", a monthly online newsletter dedicated to helping women achieve more success
through dress. You can visit her online at http://www.fashionforrealwomen.com
In the world of investments, you'll often hear mutual funds referred to as front loads,
back loads or no loads. What are these "loaded" funds and what does it all mean?
Mutual Funds that charge a sales commission are called load funds; funds that don't are
called no-load funds.
A front-end load is the sales commission charged at the time of purchase or investment.
A back-end load is the sales commission charged when the fund is sold.
Front-end loads are more common than back-end loads. Back-end loads are sometimes referred
to as contingent deferred sales charges. Loads may vary between 1% to 8 1/2% of the amount
of money invested or withdrawn.
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