OVERCOMING GUILT Part 2.
JULY 20, 1997
ALMOST EVERY DISTRUBANCE WITHIN THE HUMAN EXPERIENCE
CAN BE TRACED BACK TO THE FALL OF MAN IN THE GARDEN.
THIS DOCTRINAL TERM, "THE FALL" INDICATES A POSITION
FROM WHICH MAN HAS FALLEN OR LOWERED HIS EXISTENCE.
PRIOR TO THE FALL, ADAM AND EVE HAD UNBROKEN, INTIMATE
FELLOWSHIP AND COMMUNION WITH GOD. THEY WERE CREATED
IN THE IMAGE AND LIKENESS OF GOD WITH THE DESIGN AND
COMPONENTS FOR KNOWING GOD AND RELATING TO HIM IN AN
INTIMATE AND PERSONAL WAY. WHEN MAN SINNED HE CAUSED A
DISTURBANCE WITHIN HIMSELF, KNOWN AS GUILT OR THE
PAINFUL KNOWLEDGE OF PERSONAL EVIL WHICH DISTURBED
EVERY PART OF HIS BEING IN RELATIONSHIP TO GOD AND HIS
ETERNAL PURPOSES IN CREATION. SO I WOULD LIKE TO BEGIN
THIS MORNING BY READING THE GENESIS 3 ACCOUNT:
Gen 3:1 Now the serpent was more subtil than any beast
of the field which the LORD God had made. And
he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye
shall not eat of every tree of the garden?
Gen 3:2 And the woman said unto the serpent, We may eat
of the fruit of the trees of the garden: (KJV)
Gen 3:3 But of the fruit of the tree which is in the
midst of the garden, God hath said, Ye shall
not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest
ye die. (KJV)
Gen 3:4 And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall
not surely die: (KJV)
Gen 3:5 For God doth know that in the day ye eat
thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye
shall be as gods, knowing good and evil. (KJV)
Gen 3:6 And when the woman saw that the tree was good
for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes,
and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she
took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and
gave also unto her husband with her; and he did
eat. (KJV)
Gen 3:7 And the eyes of them both were opened, and they
knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig
leaves together, and made themselves aprons.
THIS IS THE FIRST INTANCE WHERE GUILT MANIFEST-
ED ITSELF IN THE HUMAN EXPERIENCE.
IT WASDIRECTLY RELATED TO PARTAKING OF THE TREE OF
THE KNOWLEDGE OF GOOD AND EVIL. THE MOMENT
ADAM ATE OF THE TREE HE EXPERIENCED GUILT AND
ITS MANIFESTATIONS OF FEAR OF PUNISHMENT, LOW
SELF-ESTEEM OR SHAME, CONDEMNATION AND A FEEL-
ING OF REJECTION. THIS GUILT ALSO PRODUCED
GREAT ANXIETY, DISTRESS AND DEPRESSION IN THEIR
LIVES. THE INTERESTING THING WE NEED TO SEE IS
THAT BY GOD'S PROHIBITATION OF EATING OF THAT
TREE HE NEVER INTENDED FOR MAN TO EXPERIENCE
THE MALADJUSTMENT OF GUILT AND ITS ACCOMPANING
NUREOSES. THE PURPOSE OF THIS STUDY IS TO HELP
YOU INDENTIFY GUILT IN YOUR LIFE AND OVERCOME
IT'S DEBILITATING AFFECTS. LET'S CONTINUE TO
READ IN VERSE 8:
Gen 3:8 And they heard the voice of the LORD God
walking in the garden in the cool of the day:
and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the
presence of the LORD God amongst the trees of
the garden. (KJV)
Gen 3:9 And the LORD God called unto Adam, and said
unto him, Where art thou? (KJV)
Gen 3:10 And he said, I heard thy voice in the garden,
and I was afraid, because I was naked; and I
hid myself. (KJV)
*FEAR IS ONE OF THE PRIMARY MANIFESTATIONS OF
GUILT.*
Gen 3:11 And he said, Who told thee that thou wast
naked? Hast thou eaten of the tree, whereof I
commanded thee that thou shouldest not eat?
Gen 3:12 And the man said, The woman whom thou gavest
to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I
did eat. (KJV)
*
CONDEMNATION WHICH IS SELF BLAME PRODUCESITS FRUIT OF BLAMING AND CONDEMNING OTHERS,
WHICH IS ANOTHER TRAIT OF GUILT.
Gen 3:13 And the LORD God said unto the woman, What is
this that thou hast done? And the woman said,
The serpent beguiled me, and I did eat. (KJV)
Gen 3:14 And the LORD God said unto the serpent,
Because thou hast done this, thou art cursed
above all cattle, and above every beast of the
field; upon thy belly shalt thou go, and dust
shalt thou eat all the days of thy life:
Gen 3:15 And I will put enmity between thee and the
woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it
shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise
his heel. (KJV)
Gen 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly
multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in
sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and
thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he
shall rule over thee. (KJV)
Gen 3:17 And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast
hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast
eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee,
saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is
the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou
eat of it all the days of thy life; (KJV)
Gen 3:18 Thorns also and thistles shall it bring forth
to thee; and thou shalt eat the herb of the
field; (KJV)
Gen 3:19 In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread,
till thou return unto the ground; for out of
it wast thou taken: for dust thou art, and
unto dust shalt thou return. (KJV)
Gen 3:20 And Adam called his wife's name Eve; because
she was the mother of all living. (KJV)
Gen 3:21 Unto Adam also and to his wife did the LORD
God make coats of skins, and clothed them.
THE ORIGIN OF GUILT CAN BE TRACED BACK TO ITS BEGIN-
NING IN GENESIS. GOD HAD A SOLUTION FOR MAN'S FALL
EVEN BEFORE HE FELL. THE BIBLICAL SOLUTION FOR GUILT
IS THE REDEMPTION THAT GOD PROVIDED FOR ADAM AND EVE
TYPIFIED BY THE COATS OF SKINS THAT HE COVERED THEIR
NAKEDNESS WITH. WE READ IN HEB.9:22 THAT WITHOUT THE
SHEDDING OF BLOOD THERE IS NO REMISSION OR REMOVAL OF
SIN AND IT AFFECTS UPON A PERSON'S LIFE. GOD HAS THE
ONLY REMEDY FOR SIN AND GUILT: THE BLOOD OF JESUS
CHRIST, THE WORD OF GOD AND THE WITNESS OF THE HOLY
SPIRIT.
ARE YOU HOUNDED BY NAGGING GUILT? GET RID OF IT THE
MODERN WAY, THE SAME WAY YOU ELIMINATE UNDERARM WET-
NESS, BAD BREATH OR LIMP CURLS. SPRAY IT AWAY WITH
"GUILT AWAY." THAT WAS THE IDEA OF MIKE CORNING AND
CRAIG BERSMA HAD WHEN THEY FORMED A NEW COMPANY,
CORN-BERG LABORTORIES AND SELL 8 OZ. BOTTLES OF ROSE
WATER. YOU JUST SPRAY IT ON AND YOUR GUILT WILL GO
AWAY. GUILT AWAY'S INVENTION REVEALS HOW COMMON GUILT
FEELINGS ARE IN PEOPLE'S LIVES.
AS WE BECOME MORE SENSITIVE TO GUILT FEELINGS WE
WILL SEE THAT "HEALTHY" PEOPLE OCCASIONALLY EXPERIENCE
GUILT OR USE IT TO MOTIVATE OTHERS. WE SAY THINGS
LIKE THIS:
1. WE TELL OUR SPOUSES: YOU NEVER SPEND ANY TIME WITH
THE FAMILY.
2. WE QUESTION OUR FRIENDS: YOU'RE NOT LEAVING ALREADY,
ARE YOU? YOU JUST GOT HERE!
3. OR WE TELL THE WAITER: WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU DON'T
HAVE ANY MORE OF YOU SPECIAL SOUP, WE DROV ALL THE WAY
ACROSS TOWN TO TRY IT.
HERE WE ACCUSE OTHERS HOPING TO INSTILL FEELINGS OF
GUILT SO THEY WILL GIVE US WHAT WE WANT OR SUFFER THE
CONSEQUENCES. PARENTS ARE ESPECIALLY GOOD AT THIS:
1. YOU'RE NOT GOING OUT LOOKING LIKE THAT, EVERYBODY
WILL LAUGH AT YOU!
2. NOW I'VE TOLD YOU A THOUSAND TIMES, WHEN ARE YOU
EVER GONNA GET IT.
3. OR WE SAY SOMETHING LIKE: AND AFTER ALL WE'VE DONE
FOR YOU...
4. AND OUR CHILDREN RETURN THE GUILT: WELL, EVERYBODY
ELSE GETS TO STAY OUT LATE, YOU NEVER LET US DO ANY-
THING! ALL THESE STATEMENTS COMMUNICATE THE COMMONALITY
OF GUILT IN OUR EVERY DAY LIVES. YOU SHOULD FEEL BADLY
OR GUILTY FOR NOT DOING IT MY WAY.
NEARLY EVERY AUTHOR DESCRIBES GUILT AS A PAINFUL
INNER FEELING INVOLVING SOME FORM OF SELF-PUNISHMENT,
REJECTION, DISESTEEM, SHAME OR A FEELING OF
INFERIORITY. BRUCE NARRAMORE DEFINES GUILT AS A
COMPLEX COGNITIVE EMOTIONAL REACTION WE EXPERIENCE OVER
THE DISPARITY BETWEEN WHO WE ARE ( OR HOW WE ACT) AND
WHO WE THINNK WE OUGHT TO BE. THIS REACTION MAY
INVOLVE SELF-PUNISHMENT, SELF-REJECTION AND A SENSE OF
SHAME, DISESTEEM OR INFERIORIRTY.
1. IN SELF-INFLICTED PUNISHEMENT WE SAY THINGS LIKE:
I FEEL LIKE I DESREVE TO DIE.
MY MIND HAS A TENDENCY TO KICK ITSELF SEVERAL TIMES
THE CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF SELF-INFLICTED PUNISHMENT IS
SEEN IN JUDAS AFTER HIS ACT OF BETRAYL IN:
Matt 27:3 Then Judas, which had betrayed him, when
he saw that he was condemned, repented
himself, and brought again the thirty
pieces of silver to the chief priests
and elders, (KJV)
Matt 27:4 Saying, I have sinned in that I have
betrayed the innocent blood. And they
said, What is that to us? see thou to
that. (KJV)
Matt 27:5 And he cast down the pieces of silver in
the temple, and departed, and went and
hanged himself. (KJV)
THE BIBLICAL SOLUTION: UNDERSTANDING THE DOCTRINE OF
JUSTIFICATION AND PROPITIATION.
2. IN SHAME OR LOSS OF SELF ESTEEM: WE SAY OR THINK
THINGS LIKE:
I FEEL LIKE A DIRTY PERSON INSIDE.
I HAVE TO BE THE STUPIDEST PERSON AROUND.
I FEEL ROTTEN INSIDE EVEN WORTHLESS.
THESE GUILT FEELINGS OF SHAME COME FROM NOT
LIVING UP TO YOUR'S OR SOMEONE ELSES EX-
PECTATIONS.
THE BIBLICAL SOLUTION: UNDERSTANDING THE DOCTRINE OF
ADOPTION, SONSHIP AND UNION WITH CHRIST.
3. IN FEELINGS OF ISOLATION AND REJECTION: WE SAY
THINGS LIKE:
I FIND IT HARD TO LIKE MYSELF.
I FEEL THAT NOBODY COULD LIKE ME, ESPECIALLY GOD!
I FEEL DEPRESSED AND DIFFERENT FROM OTHERS.
SOME CHRISTIANS THAT SUFFER FROM THIS FORM OF GUILT
FIND THAT CONFESSION OF THIER SINS REINFORCES THEIR
FEELINGS OF INADEQUACY OR FAILURE RATHER THAN PROVIDING
REASSURACNE AND FORGIVENESS.
THE BIBLICAL SOLUTION: UNDERSTANDING THE DOCTRINE OF
CREATION (GOD DOESN'T MAKE ANY JUNK) AND SANCTIFI-
CATION.
NOW BECAUSE GUILT IS SO COMMON TO MANKIND HE HAS
DEVISED HIS OWN REMEDIES AS A KIND OF DEFENSE
MECHANISM. I WANT TO LOOK AT THESE BRIEFLY THIS
MORNING WITHOUT GOING INTO ANY GREAT DETAIL. SEE IF
YOU HAVE ANY OF THESE SELF-EXPRESSED DEFENSE MECHAN-
ISM FOR GUILT IN YOUR LIFE.
THERE ARE FIVE WAYS WE TRY TO
COVER UP GUILT ON OUR OWN:
1. PROJECTION:
IN PROJECTION WE TRY TO REPRESS OUR OWNFEELINGS OF GUILT, SINS, UNACCEPTABLE WISHES AND
DESIRES, AND ATTRIBUTE THEM INSTEAD TO OTHERS.
2. REPRESSION:
IN REPRESSION WE BURY THE GUILT ANDREMOVE IT FROM OUR CONSCIOUS MEMORY. ONE OF THE MAJOR
WAYS OF UTILIZING REPRESSION IS BY YIELDING TO A
RELIGIOUS SPIRIT OF LEGALISM. TO FORGET THE PAST WE
FOCUS ON EXTERNAL ACTIONS, WORK AND EFFORT. THE DANGER
WITH REPRESSION IS THAT STRONG FEELINGS THAT HAVE BEEN
PUSHED FROM AWARENESS CAN BREAK THROUGH UNDER PRESSURE
AT INAPPROPRIATE TIMES.
3. COMPULSIVE ACTIVITY:
IS ANOTHER COMMON MEANS OFHANDLING GUILT. THESE PEOPLE ARE DRIVEN TO BE SUCCESS-
FUL IN WHATEVER THEY DO WITH LITTLE ENJOYMENT OR HAP-
PINESS ONCE THEIR ACHIEVENT HAS BEEN OBTAINED. FEEL-
ING VERY RESPONSIBLE, THEY CARRY OUT THEIR DUTIES AND
ARE SELDOM ABLE TO RELAX. THESE PEOPLE LIVE UNDER THE
"TYRANNY OF THE SHOULD" AND IS ALSO SEEN IN THE WORK-
AHOLIC AND THE PERFECTIONIST.
4. OBSESSIVE THINKING:
AS RELATED TO GUILT WE HAVE THISCONVERSATION WITH OURSELVES.
DID I REMEMBER TO LOCK THE DOOR?
OFCOURSE I DID. I ALWAYS LOCK IT.
BUT MAYBE I DIDN'T THIS TIME.
PERHAPS I'M GUILTY OF FORGETTING.
BUT I ALWAYS LOCK IT.
YES, A SILENT VOICE REPLIES, BUT I'M GONNA KEEP
BUGGING YOU UNTIL YOU GO BACK AND CHECK IT.
HERE WE ARE ACCUSING OURSELVES OF FAILING TO DO THE
RIGHT THING. WE ARE ALSO THREATENING PAINFUL CONSEQ-
UENCES FOR DISOBEDIENCE: SOMEONE MIGHT ENTER THE DOOR
AND ROB US. NOW A LITTLE OF THIS DOUBTING IS NORMAL
BUT FOR SOME PEOPLE IT IS A WAY OF LIFE AND CAN BE
ATTRIBUTED TO GUILT. EVEN AS CHRISTIANS, OBSESSIVE
PEOPLE FIND IT DIFFICULT TO FELL FORGIVEN FOR THEIR
SINS. SINCE OBSESSIVE PEOPLE ARE RARELY ABLE TO
FEEL SATISFIED WITH THEIR PERFORMANCE, EVEN AFTER
CONFESSING THEIR SINS THEY WONDER IF THEY WERE
REALLY SINCERE IN THEIR REPENTANCE.
5. SUBLIMATION:
IS ANOTHER COMMON DEFENSE FOR GUILT.IN SUBLIMATION WE WORK OUT SOME SOCIALLY UNACCEPTABLE
AND POTENTIALLY GUILT-PRODUCING IMPULSES OR FEELINGS
IN A SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE WAY. ANGER IS ONE OF
THE CLASSIC WAYS THIS IS MANIFESTED. WE ARE REALLY
ANGRY WITH OURSELVES BECAUSE OF OUR PAST AND WE ACT IT
OUT IN A SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE WAY BY OUR INTENSITY
AGAINST ABORTION, EQUAL RIGHTS, OR PORNOGRAPHY ETC.
IN SUBLIMATION THE GUILT AND ITS ACCOMPANY ANGER IS
RELEASED IN A SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE WAY. THE PROBLEM HAS
NOT BEEN DEALT WITH AND WILL EVENTUALLY SURFACE IN AN
UNACCEPTABLE WAY.
AGAIN, I MUST EMPHATICALLY STATE THAT THERE IS ONLY
ONE AFFECTIVE WAY TO OVERCOME GUILT: WE DO IT GOD'S WAY
OR WE SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES. WE MUST APPROPRIATE THE
BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST FOR PERSONAL SIN IN OUR LIFE, WE
APPLY THE WORD OF GOD TO OUR UNRENEWED MIND AND
CONSCIENCE AND WE LISTEN TO AND OBEY THE WITNESS OF THE
HOLY SPIRIT.
1 John 5:7 For there are three that bear record in
heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy
Ghost: and these three are one. (KJV)
1 John 5:8 And there are three that bear witness in
earth, the spirit, and the water, and the
blood: and these three agree in one. (KJV)
RECORD: Strong's # 3140 martureo (mar-too-reh'-o);
from 3144; to be witness, i.e. testify
(literally or figuratively):
KJV-- charge, give [evidence], bear
record, have (obtain, of) good (honest)
report, be well reported of, testify,
give (have) testimony, (be, bear, give,
obtain) witness. (DIC)
Romans 8:15 For ye have not received the spirit of
bondage again to fear; but ye have received
the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry,
Abba, Father. (KJV)
Romans 8:16 The Spirit itself beareth witness with our
spirit, that we are the children of God:
Romans 8:17 And if children, then heirs; heirs of God,
and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that
we suffer with him, that we may be also
glorified together. (KJV)
UNRESOLVED GUILT CAN OBSTRUCT THE CALL OF GOD UPON A
BELIEVER'S LIFE.
THE WAY YOU THINK AND FEEL ABOUTYOURSELF CAN GREATLY HINDER YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THE
LORD AND WHAT HE WANTS TO ACCOMPLISH IN YOUR LIFE,
CALLING AND DESTINY. MANY TIMES GOD OPENS A DOOR OF
OPPORTUNITY FOR US TO WITNESS, LAY HANDS ON THE SICK,
FUNCTION IN ONE OR MORE OF THE NINE GIFTS OF THE SPIRIT
OR TO ACCEPT AN OFFICE OR POSITION AND WE REJECT IT
BECAUSE OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM. A KNOWLEDGE OF OUR SHORT
COMINGS, LIMITATIONS AND SINFULLNESS DISQUALIFIES US,
IN OUR MINDS, FROM ACCEPTING THE CALL OF GOD UPON OUR
LIVES. SO IT'S IMPORTANT TO US AND TO THE ADVANCEMENT
OF THE KINGDOM OF GOD THAT WE OVERCOME GUILT AND ITS
MANIFESTATIONS IN OUR LIVES.
1 Pet 2:9 But ye are a chosen generation, a royal
priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar
people; that ye should shew forth the praises
of him who hath called you out of darkness
into his marvellous light: (KJV)
Isaiah 61:6 But ye shall be named the Priests of the
LORD: men shall call you the Ministers of
our God: ye shall eat the riches of the
Gentiles, and in their glory shall ye boast
yourselves. (KJV)
Exodus 19:5 Now therefore, if ye will obey my voice
indeed, and keep my covenant, then ye shall
be a peculiar treasure unto me above all
people: for all the earth is mine: (KJV)
Exodus 19:6 And ye shall be unto me a kingdom of
priests, and an holy nation. These are the
words which thou shalt speak unto the
children of Israel. (KJV)
BY VIRTUE OF THE NEW BIRTH OR REGENERATION, EVERY
BELIEVER HAS BEEN ADOPTED INTO THE FAMILY OF GOD AS A
SON OR DAUGHTER AND HAS DIRECT ACCESS INTO THE VERY
PRESENCE OF GOD AS A PRIEST AND KING. THE DOCTRINE OF
SONSHIP AND THE PRIESTHOOD OF THE BELIEVER AIDS THE
BELIEVER IN OVERCOMING FEELINGS OF GUILT AND LOW SELF-
ESTEEM. YOU ARE NOT A "NOBODY" IN GOD'S EYES, YOU ARE
SPECIAL TO HIM, CALLED BY HIS (FAMILY) NAME, A CHILD OF
GOD AND A PRIEST UNTO THE LORD. NOW PRIESTS IN THE
O.C. WORE SPECIAL GARMENTS THAT SEPARATED THEM FROM THE
COMMON AND MADE THEM HOLY UNTO THE LORD. EX.28 TELLS
US WHAT THESE GARMENT WERE FOR:
Ex 28:1 And take thou unto thee Aaron thy brother, and
his sons with him, from among the children of
Israel, that he may minister unto me in the
priest's office, even Aaron, Nadab and Abihu,
Eleazar and Ithamar, Aaron's sons. (KJV)
Ex 28:2 And thou shalt make holy garments for Aaron thy
brother for glory and for beauty. (KJV)
DIGNITY: THE QUALITY OF BEING WORTHY OF ESTEEM OR
HONOR, HAVING A SENSE OF WORTHINESS, A
HIGH POSITION, RANK OR TITLE, LOFTINESS
OF APPEARANCE OR MANNER, STATELINESS AND
THEN SELF-RESPECT.
HONOR: HIGH REGARD OR GREAT RESPECT GIVEN, RECEIVED
OR ENJOYED; 2. A KEEN SENSE OF RIGHT AND WRONG
ADHERENCE TO ACTION OR PRINCIPLES CONSIDERED
RIGHT OR WRONG; INTEGRITY, TO CONDUCT ONESELF
WITH HONOR--TO HAVE A GOOD REPUTATION AND AGAIN
A HIGH RANK OR POSITION OR A TITLE OF RESPECT
GIVEN TO CERTIAN OFFICIALS.
WHEN WE PASS THESE PRIESTLY GARMENTS THROUGH THE
HERMENUTICAL FILTER, THE CROSS OF JESUS CHRIST, THESE
GARMENTS SPEAK TO US ABOUT THE ATONEMENT PROVIDED IN
THE N.C. AND THE DEVELOPEMENT OF CHARACTER IN A BELIEVER'S
LIFE.
UNRESOLVED GUILT WILL PRODUCE THESE FOUR THINGS IN OUR LIVES:
LET'S LOOK A LITTLE CLOSER AT EACH OF THESE FOUR FEELINGS, THE FEAR OF PUNISHMENT, THE FEELING OF CONDEMNATION, THE FEELING OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM AND THE FEELINGS OF REJECTION. UNLESS WE FIND AN ANSWER TO THESE FEELINGS WE WILL BE WIDE OPEN AND SUBJECT TO ITS CONFORM- ING PRESSURES IN OUR LIVES AND ON OUR PERSONALITIES.
CONFORMING TO THE PRESSURES OF GUILT:
1. THE FEAR OF PUNISHMENT:
A. THE FEAR OF PUNISHMENT CAN DEVELOPE THE CHARACTER
TRAITS OF ANXIETY, NERVOUSNESS; YOU CAN BECOME A
"WORRY WORT."
B. THE FEAR OF GOD'S WRATH CAN PRODUCE THE
DISPOSITION OF DOUBT, FEAR AND UNBELIEF IN THE
GOODNESS OF GOD.
C. THE FEAR OF PUNISHMENT PRODUCES THE CHARACTER OF
PESSIMISM AND NEGATIVISM IN A PERSON'S LIFE. YOU
OUTLOOK ON LIFE IS DISMAL--YOUR ALWAYS ANTICIPATING
SOMETHING BAD IS GOING TO HAPPEN TO YOU. THERE IS
NO SENSE OF HOPE AND FAITH IN GOD OR FOR THE FUTURE.
D. WHEN SOME FORM OF TROUBLE COMES AND IS WRONGLY
PERCEIVED AS PUNISHMENT A PERSON CAN BECOME
BITTER, ANGY, HATEFUL UNFORGIVING AND RETRIBUTIVE
TOWARDS OTHERS.
2. A FEELING OF CONDEMNATION:
A. THE FEELINGS OF CONDEMNATION CAN DEVELOPE AN
ATTITUDE AND DIPOSITION OF CRITICISM, AND
JUDGEMENTALISM IN A PERSON'S LIFE.
B. THESE FEELINGS OF CONDEMNATION CAN PRODUCE A
SENSE OF INADEQUACY: "I CAN NEVER DO ANYTHING RIGHT"
"EVERYTHING I TRY TO DO FAILS BECAUSE I'M NO GOOD"
THIS CAN PRODUCE FEELINGS OF FRUSTRATION RESULTING
IN APATHY, INDIFFERENCE, COMPLACENCY, LAZINESS AND
PROCRASTINATION.
C. THE FEELINGS OF CONDEMNATION CAN PRODUCE A FALSE
SENSE OF PRIDE AND SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS AS A
COVERING FOR GUILT.
A. FEELINGS OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM CAN PRODUCE THE
CHARACTER OF INFERIORITY IN A PERSONS LIFE.
B. FEELINGS OF DISESTEEM PRODUCE FEELINGS OF SHAME
WHETHER IT IS THE DIRECT RESULT OF MISCONDUCT OR
IMPOSED ON BY OTHERS BECAUSE OF COLOR, RACE, SIZE
OR OUTWARD APPEARANCE.
C. A FEELING OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM CAN MAKE A PERSON FEEL
IN COMPETENT AND THEY MAY APPEAR TO BE LAZY,
INDIFFERENT OR COMPLACENT BUT THEY ARE REALLY IN
BONDAGE TO THE FEAR OF FAILURE THE FEAR OF MAN AND
THE FEAR OF RIDICULE.
D. LOW SELF-ESTEEM CAN PRODUCE A FALSE SENSE OF
HUMILITY AND BROKENESS IN A PERSON'S LIFE.
E. A PERSON THAT IS ALWAYS APOLOGETIC, INSECURE OR
INDICISIVE STRUGGLES WITH SELF-ESTEEM.
4. A FEELING OF REJECTION:
A. FEELINGS OF REJECTION IS A MAJOR CAUSE FOR
DEPRESSION IN PEOPLE'S LIVES. GOD CREATED ALL OF US
WITH THE NEED TO BE LOVED AND ACCEPTED AND THE
ABSENCE OF THIS CAN PRODUCE CHRONIC DEPRESSION.
"NOBODY LIKES ME" NOBODY WANT'S TO BE AROUND ME"
B. FEELINGS OF REJECTION CAN MAKE PEOPLE APPEAR TO BE
COLD, UNFRIENDLY AND EVEN RUDE TOWRDS OTHERS.
C. FEELING OF REJECTION CAN PRODUCE AN ELEMENT OF
SELFISHNESS AND SELF-CENTEREDNESS IN PEOPLE. A
PERSON WHO IS ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT THEMSELVES OR
MAKING REFERENCE TO THEIR ACCOMPLISHMNETS IS
PROBABLY A PERSON THAT IS FEELING REJECTED AND
UNWANTED.
D. A PERSON THAT IS ALWAYS TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYBODY
OR SERVE EVERYBODY THEY ARE AROUND CAN BE TRYING
TO EARN THE RIGHT TO BE ACCEPTED OR RECOGNIZED. IT
CAN PRODUCE A FALSE SENSE OF HUMILITY.