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So, after that (....please read my teenage), I organised my life again. I included fewer things in my TTD (Things To Do) list.My family supported me in this. The first major decision was to change my profession. After finishing my one year in Pharmacy, I shifted to Computers. It was the decision of my parents, sister and B-I-L. I was concentrating on my health only. A lot of fruits and raw vegetables (though it was not necessary but I wanted to become more stronger than ever before). I took admission in Computer Engineering. I also joined a martial Arts Club to learn full contact Karate (...hey, I am not saying that I am Mr Bruce Lee Ver 2.0 I just did for the sake of doing something new!!!!). I met another boy in the college and soon we became very good friends. We used to move together. We were so close that we used to do every thing together.

My habit of everyday meditation, helped me to do everything in a much better way ... to the level of perfection. I stood among the toppers in the college and soon became very popular as I was active in sports and curricular activities as well. I won some trophies for my college. I am proud that I won the National Debate Competition Award for my college! The director of my institute was so proud of me not only did I won that award but became a popular guy and the friend of all in Agra. I had no idea that my speach was so good. I won many awards but there was one thing which was different this time. After finishing my speach when I was coming down the stage, public stood up and few people came to congratulate me! That was the first and the last time our college won that award.

We, my friend and myself, used to dream about cool chicks a lot .... after all we were "different" from others. But guys, dreams remain dream. We never met our Sapnoo Ki Raani. We used to goto the market every day to search for something better than what we saw yesturday. All the shopkeeprs and local people liked us as well .... hey man I am not joking. We were the most talented, decent, well mannered boys from very good families. Anyway, we made it a habit to go to the temple of godess Sherto Waali Mata every day. There were two reasons for that. Firstly we were devotees of Mata and secondly the probablity of finding a decent, educated and homely girl from a respectable family was more. We had a crush on some girls one after the other but the "Destiny" played a some very bad jokes with us .... specifically myself. Trust me all the girls we liked in the temple, got married one after the other like any thing. "SELECTIVELY" only those girls we had the crush on, got married on after the other. The equation was like every girl used to get married within two months of the day when we started to think that "Is that the one???". The irony of the situation is that all of them used to distribute sweets outside the temple to all the people who used to queue outside the temple for the evening prayers. Most of them were the poor, hungry people. As a part of the custom there, We had to stand in the same queue and all the girls used to come with their "beloved husbands", offer us the food and say ""BHAIA" AAP BHI LO". "Bhaia"!@#$% Bhai bhaia bhaia!#$$% We used to bang bang bang our heads, ask "Mata" .... maata, yeh kis janam ki sazaa de rahi hai app? Then we used to laugh a lot on such occasions. We literally used to roll on the ground and tease tease each other.

Anyway, we enjoyed the life to the fullest. I finished my engineering with flying colours and topped the college. Towards the end of engineering, just before the final exams, I had some misunderstanding with my friend and we decided to separate. I got a job in Asia's third largest computer education firm. There as well, I gave exceptional performace besides the very high turnover ratio of the employees and difficult work environment. I left the company when I saw that the Regional Manager of the company took all the credit of my hard work and I was cornered in a very shameless manner. I had another job offer from a company who had an eye on me while I was working for my previous company. While working for this company, I was also persuing my dream of going abroad and after the hard work of my father and myself, I made it and moved to Australia. I was really excited because my dream of watching the Olympics was about to realize. I came to Australia for higher education in Computer and specialising in Software development.

Coming to Australia was a cultural shock initially and also the feeling that I am thousands of miles away from my family made the first few months very difficult. After some time I realised that people are same every where, so it doesnt matters where you are living. The main thing is what you are doing at the place you are living and constructively contributing to the society. I finished my studies and again stood among the toppers. After that I got my residency and at the moment I am sitting in my office writing all this.........Many incident during this pahase of my life influenced my thinking pattern. If you want to know about them, please click here. (UNDER DEVELOPMENT)

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