< My birthday is 10/03/62. I love receiving greeting cards! :-) I am also a nonsmoker, non-drug user. I am 5:11 and 175 pounds. One day, I hope to find my soul mate with whom I can share a monogamous relationship with. I love beauty displayed on the outside as well as the inside. Pretty people with nasty attitudes turn me off. Nastiness is not an attractive attribute. "God don't like ugly, and he ain't particular about pretty either!" Daily, I am working out physically, mentally, and spiritually in order to mirror what I am looking for. I understand that no one is prefect but I firmly believe that some situations are better than others. I am looking for compatibility. Compatibility includes someone I can trust and respect. I don't like unnecessary confusion because equilibrium (being centered) is very important to me. I am a person who is driven on moving forward, and I avoid negative people who have the potential of being a stumbling block in my way. I firmly believe that people can be either part of the solution or part of the problem. I am a spiritual person that follows the passage of casting off any dead weight. I don't like or play games and don't have time for anyone who does. I have no patience for liars or insecure, sneaky, victimized people who lack self-respect and self-motivation. I like people who are "for real" and "bout it." In a world of fakes, it is refreshing to meet someone you can risk getting to know. I firmly believe that "It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you are not!" Respect is a mutual thing. I am a firm believer in self-respect. This is why I firmly believe in keeping the body, spirit, and intellect in good working healthy condition.