Xander's Love Connections
- Miss Natalie French- Miss French was a substitute teacher at Sunnydale High School, filling in for a biology teacher. All the males in the class had a sudden attraction to her, Xander being one of them. Of course this was all to do with the fact that she was in fact a praying mantis. Xander was asked over to her house to help with a project, but really she was going to mate with him and then eat him. But luckily Buffy, Willow and Giles came in time and killed her.
- Ampatta- A mummy assumed the name of Ampatta to act as Buffy's cultural exchange. Xander instantly had a liking to her, and the feeling was the same from Ampatta. But for Ampatta to live she had to suck the life out of other people when she was reforming to her mummy-self. This was about to happen to Willow, but Xander knew what he had to do. He saved Willow from the mummy, and Ampatta crumbled.
- Cordelia Chase (hate/love relationship)- Xander and Cordelia were enemies, Cordelia made fun of Xander and his misfortunes and Xander did the same to her. While looking for Buffy they go attacked by a killer from the Order of Teraka. They hid out in Buffy's basement where they shared an unexpected kiss. But it wasn't the only one after this time. When Willow found Xander and Cordelia kissing in the library, she was hurt, but then things were out in the open and the whole gang knew about the both of them. However when Cordelia's friends found out about her and Xander she looked down on them, and Xander was dumped on Valentine's day. After Xander tried to do a spell, with the help of Amy, to get Cordelia back which backfired Cordelia realized that her friends were the sheep, just follow what everybody else does, and Cordelia got back together with Xander. Xander and Cordelia got very close, closer than they thought they would. But Xander began falling for Willow. When Cordelia and Oz were out to save Willow and Xander from Spike, she caught them kissing, and lost it. She completely and utterly hated Xander for doing that and could never forgive him. But over time, and under circumstances, they soon had a friendship again.
- Anya Emerson (was engaged)- Anya first met Xander when Willow's doppleganger just happened to drop in, and in order to reverse the spell Anya was needed. Anya grew an attraction towards Xander and asked him out to the Prom. He accepted considering no one else had asked him. After that one time, Anya grew very close to Xander, but Xander didn't reciprocate. When Anya found out that the Mayor was going to ascend during graduation Anya fled and wanting Xander to go with him, but he stayed and helped the gang out. Xander thought he'd never see Anya again, but he was wrong. Soon after Xander had moved into his parent's basement Anya turned up again, and wanting to forget about him she slept with him. But that didn't work and they grew closer. With Xander teaching Anya about the more human ways to tend to her issues. Their relationship grew and Xander asked Anya to marry him, and she happily accepted. But things didn't go to plan and as Xander was shown what his future could be, not what it is going to be and some fears in what he would come out, and he couldn't go through with the wedding, fearing of what he might do to Anya in the future. A while after Anya and Xander both returned, but things still haven't worked out as Anya then slept with Spike, out of drunken madness. Xander found out and now more than ever doesn't ever want to see Anya again.
- Nancy- Nancy first met Xander when she was out walking her dog at night in Sunnydale and her dog got eaten by something from underground. As Nancy was fleeing from the scene she bumped into Xander, and Xander took her to Buffy's to get her all calmed down. Xander then took her home and she hit on him, but as the big demon came into the scene Nancy couldn't handle all the weirdness so left the scene.
- Lissa- Xander first bumped into Lissa at a hardware store and helped her pick out a rope which she needed. He asked her out for coffee and they appeared to be having fun. Lissa recommended somewhere else, but it turned out she too was evil. Bound Xander and attempted to open a seal in Sunnydale High to release a Turok-Han. Her head was chopped off by Buffy.