EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there... to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be... your neighbor, child, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger who, when you lock eyes with them you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential strength, will power or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whether they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere... safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it, with absolutely no regrets. Learn a lesson in life each day you live. And most importantly, if you love someone tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. "Live each day as if it were your last... tomorrow is not promised" (source unknown)

A PLACE FOR ME There is a special place in life, that needs my humble skill, a certain job I'm meant to do, which no one else can fulfill. The time will be demanding, and the pay is not too good, and yet I wouldn't change it for a moment -- even if I could . There is a special place in life, a goal I must attain, a dream that I must follow, because I won't be back again. There is a mark that I must leave, however small it seems to be, a legacy of love for those, who follow after me. There is a special place in life, that only I may share, a little path that bears my name, awaiting me somewhere. There is a hand that I must hold, a word that I must say, a smile that I must give, for there are tears to blow away. There is a special place in life, that I was meant to fill, a sunny spot where flowers grow, upon a windy hill. There's always a tomorrow and the best is yet to be, and somewhere in this world, I know there is a place for me. (source unknown)

                               

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