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THE TECHNOLOGY OF LOVE

            Absurd as it may seem to you, the title is the most logical thing one can think about nowadays. The more technology we evolve, the faster we bury the noble vocabulary of the human feelings. The most expressive human words of love we used to quiver and shiver whenever we downright them to those we loved in those beautiful sighing letters of love. The words like, adore, admire, and dream are no longer the vogue. Most people now love in terms of "How much?" They almost don't care about the human being as a human being to live with but as a source of extra material profit. Love becomes a sort of merchandise that everybody can bargain upon. When a young man is presented to a girl's family to ask for her hand, they always ask him, "How much do you earn?", "Do you have a bank account?" and so on. They won't accept him if it happens that he is not rich enough to provide a relaxing prosperous life to their daughter. The girl might love him, however the parents won't agree just because he is not of the same social scale or so. The parents may marry their girl to an old man just because he is rich and can offer his wife the necessary and unnecessary things she needs to "show off". The new balance used in weighing new grooms is a golden one. Poor men, on the other hand, have to marry poor girls. Yet, ironically this time, poor girls look for rich grooms who can pull them out of the moors of poverty. It is no longer the same criteria as in the past. Statistics and computing are used as a means to evaluate people. Honest, nice, friendly, courageous, and so on are no more used as currents. Technology becomes the standard measurement medium these days.

            As a matter of fact, the people are seen in terms of analogical or digital levels. If a young man is a "SECAM" system, he has to get married to a compatible "SECAM" system working girl and vice-versa. But if the man is converted into "pal" system, in this case many opportunities are open. Girls on the other hand know exactly when and how to send colour images. They are simply "multi-system". Technology is rigid and because of its rigidity, love takes the concrete conditions first. If one is generous, brave and full of valor is not wanted at all. On the contrary if the man is rascal, crook, dishonest but wealthy, all girls fight for him. Girls, on the other hand become objects and a source of pleasure rather than the emblem of decency and purity. Day after day, their image on the media is drifting towards bestiality and degeneration.

            The materialization of love is the new rage nowadays. Thanks to technology, love becomes a matter of calculations. If you are rich, you can be allowed to love. Strange, isn't it? Nevertheless, some people still stick to the old norms and values despite all. Girls become cheap things everybody can afford as many as one likes provided that he has a little money. If you have a nice car and a little dirty behavior, you can "fish" as many erring girls as you wish. The car is the symbol of your social status; it has to be a new brand not a second hand car. Gifts are ambitious and long for luxurious gadgets. They are brought up to give themselves away to material life. Their bodies have no moral values to keep or fight for. They no longer care about being raped. They even rape themselves by jumping into the jungle of wolves.

            Some of you, readers, side with me because those girls our sisters at the end. I mean that nobody would like to see his sister, daughter, mother, or wife being dragged to the moors of the material life. See that I'm not talking about the sin yet. Besides cars and money, the human wolves use praise and other technical words to cheat the girl into selling her dignity and honor. Words (lies) are used to soft-soap them to trap them. All in all the shadows are different though the source of light is the same. Technology helps at marrying couples through the internet. Not only does technology kill or at least replace noble emotions, but it also contributes in changing the whole range of our social norms and heritage. Technology becomes the law maker and it becomes the taste dictator to eventually become the tester of your aptitude to live in this new free world or not. I think I'll be the first to be discarded and I like that.

            Before I close, I'd like to stress the fact that Technology is innocent because it can do nothing by itself. It is used, directed and manipulated only. The problem is in the human crazy and ill robots that use technology to degenerate us.

Bear these in mind:

  1. Never trust new technology as concerns the way it deals with love. Do it alone and try to keep natural and keen on beauty.
  2. Money is not an end in itself, love is.
  3. True Love can survive all tough conditions.
  4. When poverty enters the house from the door, false love escapes through the window.
  5. The used people, like used cars, are not trustful.
  6. Bargain with your emotions, but keep love in shelter.

Final Advice