The Prophets Guidance on Recovery from the Affliction of Distress and Grief
Mukhtasar Zâd al-Maâd of Ibn al Qayyim al-Jawziyyah
[published by. Nour E-Sham Book Centre] - slightly modified
Ibn Abbâs reported that Allâhs Messenger used to supplicate in times of trouble saying: “There is no god but Allâh, the Great, the Tolerant, there is no god but Allâh, the Lord of the Magnificent Throne; there is no god but Allâh, the Lord of the heaven and the earth, the Lord of Edifying Throne.”
On the authority of at-Tirmidhî, who reported that Allâhs Messenger used to supplicate saying: “Allâh, the Living, the Self-Subsisting and All-Sustaining, I implore Thy mercy.” Whenever afflicted with a grief, the Holy Prophet raised his hands in supplication and said: “Holy is Allâh, the Great,” then he would go on saying “Allâh, the Living, the Self-Subsisting and All-Sustaining.”
Abû Dâwûd reported on the authority of Abû Bakr:
“The distressed could supplicate saying: Allâh, I implore Thee to have mercy on me, do not leave me on my own even for just a blink of an eye; I implore Thee to improve my condition; there is no god but Allâh.” In her turn Asmâ Bint Omais narrated that the Messenger of Allâh addressed her saying: “Shall I teach you some words you would say at the time of distress? Alright, say, There is no god but my Lord, I associate none with Him. ” Another narrator called Ahmed said: “Should a creature be afflicted with a grief, he must supplicate in the following manner: O Allâh, I am your servant and the son of your servant and she-servant; my forelock is in Thy hand. Thou art decisive in Thy judgement, just in Thy trial, I ask Thee by every Name Thou have attached to Thyself, revealed in Thy Book, confided to any of Thy creatures or kept secret in the World of the Unseen, I beseech Thee earnestly to render the Holy Koran the Bloom of my heart, the light of my sight, the obliterator of my grief and remover of my distress.”
Abu Dâwûd reported that the Messenger of Allâh said to Abî Umâmah:
“Shall I teach you words which if you recite, Allâh will blot out your grief and relieve you of your debts?” Abî Umâmah said, “Oh, Yes!” The Holy Prophet then went on saying “Alright, always remember to supplicate in the morning and evening with the following words: O Allâh! I seek refuge with you from (worries) care and grief, from incapacity and laziness, from miserliness and cowardice, from being heavily in debt and from being overpowered by other men.” Abi Umâmah said that he did so and Allâh helped him overcome his grief and relieve him of his debt.
Ibn Abbâs reported that the Noble Prophet said: “Whosoever begs for Allâhs forgiveness, Allâh will relieve him of his grief, give him a way out of his distress and provide for him from whence he expects not.”
Another Prophetic saying that goes to the same purport, goes as follows: “Seek strife in the cause of Allâh, it is a gate conducive to the Garden and will verily ward off your cares and grief.” The Prophet also said: “When cares and grief hunt you, always recite, there is no might and power but that of Allâh. ”
Fifteen sort of remedies could be listed to resort to when afflictions of grief, cares and worries start playing within ones heart:
Belief in One Lord
Belief that there is no god but Allâh
Belief that Allâh is Omniscient
Deanthropomorphism in understanding that Allâh is not liable to wrong His servant, nor does He hold any responsible for anything he has no knowledge of
The servants confession that he is the wrongdoer
Supplication, using the most sacred thing in the Divine perspective, namely His Names and Attributes and the most inclusive ones, in particular: He is the Living (al-Hayy), the Self-Subsisting and All-Sustaining (al-Qayyûm).
Seeking refuge with Allâh, only
The servants recognition that only Allâh is worthy of making supplication to
Effecting complete dependence on Allâh, resignation to Him and acknowledgement of the fact that ones forelock is in Allâhs hand; He is decisive in His judgement and just in His decision
Complete absorption of the luminous words of the Holy Koran that can illuminate the dark areas of obscurities and lust
Seeking Allâhs forgiveness
Repentance
Fight in the way of Allâh
Observance of prayer
Admitting incapacity, and conviction that there is no might and no power but that of Allâh.