To me its more important to find a mature and caring person
then to find a person with youth and vitality
I have raised my children and do not need to raise anymore.
In this world we see so many men searching out a woman that
can be their daughter,
they lack self esteem and their ego's
need to feel nurtured.
So they lash out at a mature woman that is less then perfect in their eyes.
We see women searching out the "daddy figure" be it lack of
love from their own fathers
or because they feel a mature man
will want them more.
They lack self esteem and so they look for
daddy to comfort them,
to put them up on the pedestal.
I myself feel that maturity comes from within,
satisfaction
comes from seeing a road well travelled, experience and grace.
The ability to please the other person, not worrying about self
gratification.
The lines, wrinkles, scars, lumps and baggage,
are all a part of that person,
and well received , a history of
the person.
I would prefer that over ever trying to keep up
with the impatience and impertinence of youth,
one that hasnt yet been able to
traverse the world and enjoy it.
Why does a person feel they need that youth,
impertitent, impatient, and lacking the sincerety that maturity can give.
I do not pretend
to know the answer, but I do know, I would rather have a person
love me for who I am,
instead of me being on a pedestal,
or a parent to that person,
give me someone I can share my experiences with,
not someone I have to nurture and raise again.
Someone who wants the same things as me,
not someone who wants me to like what they like.
I want a man who is on my level, not one who seeks out a daughter
to make him feel vital and alive.
I pity that person,,, they will continue to age, and their bodies will continue to give up on them, and what will they be left with....
These are just my thoughts
Natasha
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