1 White Bride and Groom candle or other
white figural couple candle
1 Pink Bride and Groom candle or other
pink figural couple candle
1 Red Bride and Groom candle or other
red figural couple candle
a nail or needle to carve the
candles
a saucer for the candles
a basin for water
three pieces of paper
a pencil
a black ink pen
a red ink pen
1 bottle herb-based Love-Drawing
Dressing Oil such as Love Me (general
purpose lover's oil)
Follow Me Boy (used especially for
female domination)
Come To Me (to draw someone closer)
Kiss Me Now! (for sex without
partnership commitment)
Attraction (general attraction for love,
money, friendship)
Lavender Love Drops (for gay or lesbian
relationships)
You can also use three different oils
(one for each candle) or make up a
mixture from any or all of
the oils.
Doing the Job:
Before dawn on the first day, bathe in
pure water to which you have added three
drops of one or more of the oils named
above.
Pour the water over your head 9 times as
you say:
Spirit of Love, I do this work for love and love only, that i may be loved by [name] as i myself love [him or her]. Amen.
Rub upward only as you bathe and dry
yourself in the air only. Collect a
basin of the used bath water, which now
has your essence in it.
Dress in fresh clothes, carry the basin
of bath-water to a crossroads and throw
the water over your left shoulder toward
the sunrise. Walk back home and don't
look back.
You are now ready to start the work.
On the 1st day, start at Sun-up. Take the first paper and write on it your full name and the one you Love's full name in pencil, all in one stroke, without lifting the pencil from the paper, so that the two names form a circle and the end is joined to the beginning.
Carve the full name of the person you love on the gender-appropriate side of the White Candle.
Carve your full name on the other side and dress the candle with the love oil.
Next, name the two sides of the candle, saying:
"Spirit of Love, I name this woman [or man] [your full name] and this man [or woman] [name of lover]. As is done to this candle, may it be done to our thoughts."
Place the name-paper under the candle, then dress the candle with your saliva, saying:
"[Name of lover], love me I love you. Desire me as I desire you. Come to me as i come to you. By my loving speech and tongue, be mine as i am yours."
Light both wicks of the candle as you say this prayer:
"Spirit of Pure Love, I burn this candle in pure love's name that I may be loved by [name] as I myself love [him or her] and that [name] will burn for my love as I burn for [his or hers]. Let our thoughts be one. Amen."
Let the candle burn about 1/3 of the way, then pinch it out.
On the 2nd day, again burn the white
candle at Dawn, and say the "Pure Love"
candle-lighting
prayer.
Burn it until it is about 2/3 gone.
On the 3rd day, again light it at Dawn, say the "Pure Love" candle lighting prayer, and let it burn until it goes out, even all the way to burning the paper with your names on it.
On the 4th day, start at Noon. Write
both of your names on the 2nd paper as
before, but this time
use black ink.
Carve and dress the Pink Candle. as
before and name the two sides as before,
saying:
"Spirit of Love, i name this woman [or man] [your full name] and this man [or woman] [name of lover]. As is done to this candle, may it be done to our hearts."
Then place the candle against your bare body, between your breasts if you are a woman, or at heart-level if you are a man, saying:
"[Name of lover], love me as I love you. Desire me as i desire you. Come to me as I come to you. By the link between my heart and yours, be mine as i am yours."
Light both wicks of the candle as you say this prayer:
"Spirit of Romantic Love, I burn this candle in romantic love's name that I may be loved by [name] as I myself love [him or her] and that [name] will burn for my love as I burn for [his or hers]. Let our hearts be one. Amen."
Let the candle burn about 1/3 of the way, then pinch it out.
On the 5th day, again burn the pink candle at Noon, and say the "Romantic Love" candle-lighting prayer . Burn it until it is about 2/3 gone.
On the 6th day, again light it at Noon, say the "Romantic Love" candle-lighting prayer, and let it burn until it goes out, even all the way to burning the paper with your names on it.
On the 7th day, start at Sun-down. Write
both of your names on the 3rd paper as
before, but this
time use red ink.
Dress the Red Candle. with oil as before
and name the two sides, saying:
"Spirit of Love, i name this woman [or man] [your full name] and this man [or woman] [name of lover]. As is done to this candle, may it be done to our bodies."
Then, if you are a woman, dress the candle with menstrual blood or sexual fluid; if a man, dress it with semen, saying:
"[Name of lover], love me as I love you. Desire me as i desire you. Come to me as I come to you. By the nectar of my body, be mine as I am yours."
Light both wicks of the candle as you
say this prayer:
"Spirit of Passionate Love, I burn this candle in passionate love's name that I may be loved by [name] as I myself love [him or her] and that [name] will burn for my love as I burn for [his or hers]. Let our bodies be one. Amen."
On the 8th day, again burn the red candle at Sunset, and say the "Passionate Love" candle-lighting prayer. Burn it until it is about 2/3 gone.
On the 9th day, again light it at Sunset, say the "Passionate Love" candle-lighting prayer, and let it burn until it goes out, even all the way to burning the paper with your names on it.
As the red candle burns to the end,
again bathe in pure water to which you
have added 3 drops of one or
more of the oils named above.
Pour the water over your head 9 times as
you say:
"Spirit of Love, I have done this work for love and love only, that I may be loved by [name] as I myself love [him or her]. My love is mine! Amen!"
Set aside a basin of the bath-water.
The next morning, sprinkle some of the
bath water at your loved one's door step
to mark it and
then sprinkle as you walk to your door
and mark it also.
When you go to see the one you love,
wear one of the love oils.
If you write to him, dress the letter
with love oil.
Cleaning Up:
Wrap up any left-over candle wax in a
red cloth. Secure it with red thread,
tie it, and
bury it in your back yard.