Okay, so I was sitting here on my computer chair, glancing over at my half-revealed ass crack in the mirror, when I got the notion of writing in this crap page again. See, this page is worthless,
www.blurty.com/~skynet is where it's at, meaning YOU'LL never see unless you're a "friend." So whatever. I decided I would leave you all with one final update to hopefully aid you in life as the following has certainly aided me.
It has come to my attention that, particularly at the age we are reaching, many of us struggle and continue to grow unhappy with dead-end, harmful relationships. Okay, so it really is None of my damn business, but everyone can see how much you hate your girlfriend / boyfriend OR how much they HURT you. And people are constantly asking for advice, what should I do, should I stay with him / her, should I dump him / her, blah blah blah blah. You know, at first, one might say, look at your options, look at the pros and cons, why should you stay and why shouldn't you. Maybe sit down and think about it real hard you know. But when the same shit just keeps reoccuring, and reoccurring, and you keep asking the same fucking questions, it's time to tell you the goddamned truth: Get the FUCK away from that Loser, NOW. You are wasting both their time and, more importantly, your own. You are putting yourself through totally pointless heartbreak. You are putting effort into something that is already dead and should be left alone. Just stop. Now.
Oh sure, it's real easy to just say "Give up", "Dump them", etc. You probably think that I just say that for no fucking reason, with no real proof behind it. But that's wrong. Here is some damn proof my friend:
-If you find yourself continuously trying to change to please your significant other, you should not be with them. Minor adjustments are fine, because Lord knows we are all stupid in some way ornother and the only person we will listen to is likely the person we love. But drastic personality changes, nah uh. Like Gwen Stefani said, "If I was meant to be your lover, I wouldn't have to". They should love you for who you ARE, not who they WANT you to BE
-If they are physically violent with you, then fucking leave them already. It starts to get to the point where no one has pity for you because you're the idiot who keeps returning to that aggressive SOB
-If they belittle you, tell them to fuck off. Who has the right to say that shit to you? It's disgusting. People will do whatever is in their power to feel as if they can somehow control you. People like control. Controlling someone is NOT love. If you find YOURSELF trying to control them, that's how you KNOW you shouldn't be with them. You aren't a bad person, you just aren't the person for them
-If you don't have 100% trust for them, like real trust, and you will know it when you feel it, or they can never trust you, then end it now instead of dragging it on for eternity. If they can't trust you now, chances are they never will. Same goes for you. Don't force yourself to trust somebody. You can read vibes, you can tell. The reason you don't trust them is because you know, somewhere deep in your heart, that they aren't supposed to be with you, and someday, when that "real" somebody walks into their life, they're gonna take your girl or man away from you. It's the truth. Why the fuck do you think you can't trust them? Stop breaking your heart over it and let them go
-If you feel like you can't be your 110% whole, disgusting, crazy, hyper, lazy, ugly, or whatever Self around them, then why are you still with them? You're yourself around your friends, aren't you? You don't go around faking shit all the itme, do you? And doesn't that feel so much more comfortable? Do you honestly think you can or should spend the rest of your life or even the next few months holding back from being your true self? If they make fun of you for acting like your usual, funny idiotic self, don't you feel stupid? The "one" for you will appreciate it rather than be embarrassed by it or dislike it
-If the sex sucks, ask yourself for a second, What the fuck am I doing? You're young, you're sexxy, what the hell are you doing with this person who doesn't even turn you on? Why is your sex drive totally dead? Why do you feel like you've been married for ten years already when it's been ten months? CUZ THEY AREN'T THE ONE FOR YOU!!! Trust me, the minute you break up, you'll be wanting sex like no fucking tomorrow. Just not from them. And DONT go back to them for it. The dead sex drive is the all-time telltale sign that your relationship should end now. It's not you, you do not have an erectile dysfunction, you do not have a personal problem that is affecting your sex life, other than th efact that it should not be hapening with this specific person
-If you find yourself thinking about other people a lot, meaning both in bed and just in general, or crushing on anyone else hardcore, then obviously your girl / man isn't doing enough to please you and satisfy your being, mind, body and soul. Again, it isn't their fault, they just weren't meant to fulfill this role. Go chase after one of those people in your day dreams. I did, and I caught him, and he was just as great as I dreamt him to be
-If you find yourself talking negatively of your boyfriend or girlfriend to others like exes, comments like, "Yeah me and you had a better relationship than I do now with my current bf / gf" LEAVE THEM!! and stop dreaming about your exes you retard. That's even worse. Remember, move FoRWARD, not BACKWARD! ESPECIALLY if they are taken and HAPPY.. you talk badly for a reaosn, cuz you aren't happy. Why don't you allow yourself to be happy? Why do you do that shit to yourself? Especially so young?
-If you can't go out for a night with the girls or guys without being harrassed and recieivng fifty fucking phone calls, then what the fuck are youy doing!? Leave them! Go have FUN!! I hate being at a jam or friends house and having them on the phone for hours cuz their bitchy ass bf or gf is all "angry", and yes I too have been that angry girlfriend. And if you are, fuckign LEAVE!! Leave if you are on EITHER side of that fence!!
Seriously, why are so many people so dumb? Okay, a few months to a year is forgiveable, but if you're still with someone who makes you feel like shit inside and you don't know why after a year and a half, god you are stupid. No offence. I WAS STUPID. And now, I am the happiest fuckign perosn ever. I will never regret dumping that fag. I recognized that he was NOT the one for me, when will YOU?