A little about myself... I am a 30-something California girl thru and thru. I am happily married to my best friend and Master, "Celtic Master".

i finally decided what i want to be when i grow up, so i am currently attending college to learn about Landscape Design, and will eventually earn a degree in Business as well. In my spare time i make hair sticks (kind of like chopsticks for your hair, but nicer) and beaded chokers and earrings that i sell at craft shows. i used to make my own massage oil, which Master expanded to include lotion and body soap in various fragrances and sells to boutiques and at craft shows.

The light of my life is my 9 year old daughter. I will probably never be able to put into words the gratitude and love I have for my little girl. I suppose, or rather I hope that every parent feels the kind of appreciation for their children that I feel for her. Children are truly gifts from the Gods and should never be taken for granted. I learned from an ugly custody battle to cherish every single moment with my little girl. So the next time your patience is running thin and you are ready to knock some little heads together... just imagine what life would be like if the little ones where not there with you, take a deep breath and give them a hug. Then thank what ever God you hold in your heart for the gift bestowed upon you.

Celtic Master came into my life one stormy weekend in San Francisco and swept me off my feet... that is after i knocked His socks off by storming into a restaurant an hour late with my hair wet and curling from the heavy fog (more like rain) yelling "i hate this f*cking city!" Boy did our waiter jump fast to get my drink! LOL Master introduced me to the wonderful D/s way of life, which always seem to resolve any conflict we encounter, even if we are not currently living D/s. i never thought it would be possible to enjoy 'serving' another person, but i have learned that life is 90% attitude and you really can get out of it what you put into it. The Gods have blessed me with the gift of my Master, who has shown me that i am... how did Christopher Robin put it... smarter than i thought, braver than i believe, stronger than a speeding bullet... oops, wrong story. Guess i haven't been paying much attention to the philosophies of Pooh Bear. ggg

i would like to say a little about D/s according to Celtic Master's beliefs. Master was trained in the European tradition of D/s and, although He is highly respected, He gets a fair amount of... shall we say negative attention, from the American style Dom/mes because He believes that a sub has just as many rights as her/his Master/Mistress, if not more. (please pardon me for writting the rest of this entry in a Male/female context) What i have learned is that a Dom's role is to guide and protect His sub and help her grow as a person spiritually, mentally and physically. A submissives role is to take care of her Master in all ways requested of her. This is not to say a sub is the same as a slave. On the contrary. A sub puts all of her trust in her Master that he will make the right choices for her as an individual and T/them as a C/couple. This gift is not to be toyed with, so a Master should never abuse it. If it is abused, the Master is likely to lose His devoted partner very quickly. D/s relationships are built on absolute trust and honesty. This is the foundation for a very strong and loving bond between the C/couple. (*wispering...* and it makes for great sex too *evil grins*) A word of advise to fledgling Dom/mes and subs... start s~l~o~w! Be respectful of T/those in the BDSM/Ds community and ask a lot of questions. Once Y/you feel Y/you have learned a fare amount about the philosophy of this lifestyle Y/you may wish to seek a P/partner. For a relationship to be successful Y/you must communicate! If Y/you lay it all out on the table in the beginning Y/you will have a much smoother road ahead of Y/you. Learn each O/others beliefs, likes and dislikes and limits long before Y/you become commited to each O/other. To wear a Masters collar is a stronger bond than being married to Him and is not to be removed as easily as so very many are. This is all of course i.m.h.o. *soft smiles*

A little more to peak your interest... I am a "solitary eclectic" Witch. Please check out my links on Wicca to learn more about this beautiful, loving, and greatly misunderstood religion. I would like to ask that when insulting an irritating person...just call them a bitch like you mean, and not a witch. Most Witchs are sweet and sensitive and hearing a horrible person being called a witch is like being hit in the stomach. Something I feel is important, for those of you who may want to explore this religion, is to retain what is right for you and forget the rest. Some people can get a bit "out there". I also feel that nothing in this religion is written in stone so don't hold every word you read as gospel. As with anything in life, do what is right for you and screw the rest. And for those of you who claim to be Witch's but practice "black magick", thats plain bullsh*t. Try reading the Wiccan Rede again and learn what it truly means.*sweetest of smiles*

Bide the Wiccan Law ye must,

In perfect love and perfect trust.

Eight words the Wiccan Rede fulfill:

An' ye harm none, do what ye will.

What ye send forth comes back to thee,

So ever mind the law of three.

Follow this with mind and heart,

Merry ye meet, and merry ye part.

Blessed Be.

I'll be updating my page every once in a while...so come back and see whats new.

DON'T FORGET TO SIGN MY GUEST BOOK!!! *begging puppy eyes* It doesn't bite...and i only bite if Master says its ok. *veg* And how am i suppose to know you have been here if you don't at least say HI! *sweetest of smiles*

Last updated November 2003 - my guys seem to think i should be WORKING (??!!) so i'll have to edit more later.

Merry met!

My Favorite Links

What is Wicca (i haven't been here in a long time)
More Wicca info (i haven't been here in a long time)
BDSM and D/s info - Castle Realm.com (really miss this wonderful site)
Save your bookmarks online!! (computers and the internet have really changed since needing this!)