..this goez out tooh all tha 'fools' in luv..

¤d3viLisH -›|‹- Ång3L¤ It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole. Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get into her pants… ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all. ¤d3viLisH -›|‹- Ång3L¤ "Do you believe in love at first sight? Or should I walk by again?" what can i say "I TRIED" Love is not seeing a cute girl. Love is not ur hormones goin out of control. Love cannot b defined in my opinion but only expressed through the heart. u will never lose by loving, but u will always lose by holding bac. Let ur heart guide u...but listen closely because it whispers. there r somethings that we never want 2 let go of people we never want 2 leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world, but rather a begining of a new life.. NICE AND SIMPLE >> so many times i have fallen over and over agains, but in the end...it's always the one who gives most -that gets hurt...sometymes, it's frustrating knoeing that u do sooo much foe sum1, but in the end, u realize that tha person u love most, the person that u cared for most, didn't gib a shyt bout u from tha start...i think that's jus how lyfe goez. relationships aren't meant to b perfect. i mean, i'm lookin for perfection, but i noe thats nowhere to b found. in the end, someone always gets hurt. it's funnie how most guys takes the stituations so well tho. they start to act all careless n cold hearted- like they dun even noe u noe more. but deep down inside, u noe they care. it's all jus a face. it's just sumthin they call 'man pride'. n becuz of that, so many women are blinded n confused about love. why? - i dunno either. i guess it's jus sumthin we as women, will neva no about guys, n guys, tha assholes, will neva have tha decency to find tha tyme to noe us tha way we wanted tem tooh, expect tem tooh, but neva ask tem tooh. we neva ask for tem to understand us or tell tem, we jus expect it in tha long run. it's sumthin that's suppose to cum naturally i guess. ..ain't it tru? now where can i fynd my nice guy? *wink wink..