To be loved,
you have to be willing
to love first

Maybe life is all about
being first after all! Not so fast.
Being first is about consciousness,
not competitiveness, i.e.
as you sow, so shall you reap.

To be loved,
you have to be willing to love first;
to be cherished,
you have to be willing to give respect first;
to be heard,
you have to be willing to listen first;
and to experience forgiveness and freedom,
you have to be willing to forgive first.

I honestly believe that the only way
to get to happiness is to be happy already.
Many people live their life according
to the formula: Do + Have = Be.

They cannot just be happy because
first they have to do “x,”
and then they have to have “y.”
In other words, they have to have a house,
they have to do more,
they have to do even more,
they have to have a partner,
they have to have lots of money,etc.

But why not just be happy?

In the healing process,
people often convince themselves
that they have to get well before
they can choose happiness again.

In my work I encourage my clients
to honor their pain and choose peace,
o feel fear and choose love,
to face the anger and choose forgiveness,
to experience the heartbreak and
choose happiness, and to experience
guilt and choose innocence.

Gandhi once said you have to
be the change you want.

Why?
Because the mirror cannot
change without you.
And the world is only a mirror.
Remember, you see only your thoughts.
When you shift, shift happens.

If you don’t,
you simply experience more of the same.
It is no good saying,
“I’ll be open with you,as soon
as you are open with me.”

Be first.
Be different if you want a different outcome.
Be the goal.

What “to be”
decisions will you make today?
Think of your goals, your challenges,
your relationships, and ask yourself,
“Is how I am being going to bring
me what I really want?”

Be still a moment and reset your intention
to be loving no matter what,
to be kind in spite of everything,
to shine your light come what may.

Your “to be”
decisions are between you and God.
Let nothing steal them away.
Author Unknown

May God Bless You!