Hi! So I do have some readers. Grrreat. Grrreat, say it like Tony the Tiger. Or say it like an Irish guy. GRRRReat!
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Are you disenchanted? Let's play a game. Deduce how many times I've utilized the word B-I-T-C-H in my journal entries todate. Sometimes I worry wee ones might see all the bad words. Well, they can look it up the dictionary bweheheh!
What have I to talk about?
I've been browsing a bunch of profiles here lately and noticed how some of the members put their 'dislikes' on their profiles. I not only noticed that here in FilCa but in most sites I've frequented to.
I'm guilty of doing such thing in the good old days. So like the hypocrite that I am, I'm bitching about it now.
Really, what's the purpose of putting all those bad traits (backstabbers, hypocrites, gold-diggers, you get the idea) as your dislikes? I mean, who likes those kinds of personalities? NOBODY. Doesn't it go without saying?
What's your intention? So the person reading your profile can think 'Oh, (s)he doesn't like this personality (which I possess), I guess won't bother her/him'. Get real. Who the fuck knows if they're being rude, or if they're backstabbing? Unless it's being done deliberately, no one in their right mind would even think to admit they possess any one of those traits.
Or maybe the reader would think 'Wow, (s)he's so perfect, (s)he dislikes the same things I do!' Isa pa 'yon!
Why am I bitching about this? It has nothing to do with the person(s) I pry. Because that's what I do. I bitch. This brings us to the main topic (see Title). Frankly, I'm tired of bitching. But bitching is what makes me, well...ME. I have a hard time differentiating bitchiness from being observant. In my defense, I still find goodness in most things despite my bitching, after all, my name IS Joy.