Have the receiver lie on his back
with pillows under his head
so he can look up at his partner (giver).
Place a pillow, covered with a towel,
under his hips.
His legs are to be spread apart
with the knees slightly bent
(pillows or cushions under the knees will also help)
and his genitals clearly exposed for the massage.
encourage him to breathe deeply
during the orgasm.
It will blow his mind,
especially if he has come close
and held back at least SIX times
before ejaculating.
Holding back six times
charges up the sexual battery
with tremendous energy.
It is then his choice as to where
he wants to send this energy
out with their ejaculate
(the prevailing paradigm)
or inward for other uses
(men who master ejaculation
are able to channel
this energy into other areas
of their being).