taking a stand against taking stands; art, if done properly, is hurtful to others; what's your screen name; did you really expect me to call you; i never go with my instincts; i constantly relive the past in my head; every woman starts out as a potential sex object. heterosexual male's considerations in order of importance: will she take me? racial preferences? age range appropriate or desirable? body weight and shape acceptable? personality bearable? *common ground helps, but is not required. if the woman is interested at all, the rest of the standards are of minimal importance. if nothing else, at least salvage the sex.