ABOUT PRO EATING DISIRDERS SITES:

If you have noticed I do have a banner to a Pro-ed page, why? Cause I do believe in free speech and I have seen than those persons get more attention on the sites pro-ed,than in the "recovery" ones...Anyway I was surfing the net,and I was dissapointed to see many sites banned and/or shut down just because of the content!  Let´s think about it. I have seen more than 500 sites with subjects like:Necrophilia,zoophilia,rape,snuff,murderers,accidents, and likewise,so well, I wonder why cant grown people enter these pro-ed sites?People have free will,and with some tips or not, they´re gonna do what they please...Parents worried?? TAKE CARE OF YOUR OWN KIDS if you don´t talk to them,if you dont pay attention to what they do,watch and read, how could you complain later?? Personally I do not have any Eating disorder, besides the fact I eat like every 2 days,once and then I excersice...But I do not want to look like Kate Moss!(In fact such skinny girls are not my style,but I do respect ok?)  But for those who want to, or maybe like Britney, I read an excellent article on this(click on the banner), it´s basically about HIPOCRESY people is around saying" Oh no! young people,do not concern about being fat,what´s important it´s inside" then u will see Britney and likewise girls,if they had a few more pounds,would they sell as many records??NO,NO AND NO! I want to clarify,that what mades a person valuable to me it´s not her/his sizes ok? I do not care about "perfect bodies" cause they´re perfect based on who?!  That´s  so relative!  but her mind, heart and soul.I mean it, but then again how many people do REALLY think like that?not many....So we live in a world of looks, society has made up the standars, then complains about how people tries to reach them! People make some sense!! And this can cover more than just ED, most people gets disturbed with goth lifestyle,what about l-e-s-b-i-a-n  ohh scary word! what about...PAGAN! or even better a goth pagan lesbian??The problem is tolerance!  The lack of it, cause people ,Bulimia or Anorexia is not something you choose,as I have seen it,You dont wake up and out of the blue and  start to behave like anoretic/bulimic, just for the hell of it! Just to finish, let people be, if they want help they´ll look for it,if you have friends, relatives or a loved one who´s Ana or Mia,just try to understand her/him and support her/him ok? if your really a good friend, and if you love her , open your mind....just remind them to take care and some vitamins and stuff. LET PEOPLE LIVE AS THEY WANT!

ADITIONAL NOTE:  Well thinking last night..there are so many things that will kill us /smoking,drinking,drugs,etc../ and most of them if not all we choose to do...the thing is some will kills us faster..that is our reality!

Do you disagree with the role model of skinny girls or maybe the kind that is in the GYM like 4 hours daily? Then dont promove it.....dont buy this or that artist´s  cd´s, movies,etc...Can you do that? Oh no!  the market has won over you! Then do not complain.Try to UNDERSTAND instead.

By Nan C.C.

Want some info. from a gal who knows about it? SPANISH!

NOTE: When visiting this or any Pro-ed page DO NOT INSULT THEM or tell them to go to the SHRINK ok? Leave them alone!! This is informative only.

I wanna thank Barb,the webmistress for providing me with her self-made button! It´s awesome, not as much as she of course. Thank you and you know you mean a lot to me. Ah almost forget,my spanish section,she gave me the last encouragement to do  it.