COSMOGIRL! LOVES...
TALK ABOUT A LUCKY BREAK! A FEW MONTHS AGO, EVAN FARMER LANDED THE ROLE OF "TEEN IDOL" IN AN MTV BOY-BAND SPOOF. THEN 2GETHER TURNED OUT TO BE SUCH A HUGE SUCCESS THAT IT BECAME A WEEKLY SERIES. NOW THE "BOY BAND" IS PERFORMING LIVE (THEY'RE TOURING WITH BRITNEY!), AND THEIR SECOND ALBUM IS DUE OUT THIS MONTH. WE GOT A SCOOP ON THE SENSITIVE GUY BEHIND THOSE INSANELY BLUE EYES...
Q:OK, EVAN... CAN YOU TELL US ABOUT YOUR FIRST BIG BREAK?
A: IT WAS AN UNDEROOS AD. I WAS 8. I WAS WEARING SUPERMAN UNDERWEAR AND I HAD TO JUMP THROUGH THESE BARN DOORS AND PRETEND TO FLY. IT WAS A VERY BIG DEAL BACK THEN!
Q: HILARIOUS! SO, SUPERMAN, ANY OTHER FLYING EXPERIENCES?
A: WELL, I DID GO SKYDIVING A COUPLE OF YEARS AGO. WHEN I WAS SITTING IN THE PLANE, WAITING TO JUMP, I WAS SCARED. I ALMOST CHICKENED OUT, BUT THE MENTAL PICTURE OF ME NOT JUMPING-AND HAVING TO LIVE WITH MYSELF AFTERWARD-WAS WAY MORE TERRIFYING. I FIGURED THAT I CONTROLLED MY DESTINY, SO I WENT FOR IT!
Q: DO YOU FOLLOW THE "JUST DO IT" RULE IN EVERYTHING?
A: NO. I'M VERY SHY, SO I TAKE FOREVER TO KISS A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME. I USUALLY CATCH HER IN THE MIDDLE OF SAYING SOMETHING. SHE'LL BE TALKING, AND I WON'T EVEN BE HEARING WHAT SHE'S SAYING BECAUSE ALL I'M THINKING IS "KISS NOW! KISS NOW!" AT THE LAST SECOND, I'LL CONSIDER BAILING, AND THEN I'LL SAY TO MYSELF, "NO WAY! I CAN'T BAIL-I WOULD NEVER FORGIVE MYSELF!" SO I'LL FINALLY DO IT. IT'S CRAZY-I CAN JUMP OUT OF A PLANE, BUT I CAN'T KISS A GIRL!
Q: DO YOU THINK THAT GIRLS ARE HARD TO UNDERSTAND?
A: NOT AT ALL! GUYS FEEL EXACTLY THE SAME THINGS THAT GIRLS DO. ONCE, MY FRIEND WAS HAVING A ROUGH TIME IN A REALTIONSHIP, SO HE CAME TO ME AND, LIKE A COUPLE OF IDIOTS, WE ROLE-PLAYED THE CONVERSATION HE WAS GOING TO HAVE WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND. THIS IS SO CHEESY, AND I CAN'T BELIEVE I'M TELLING YOU, BUT WE LITERALLY HIGHFIVED EACH OTHER WHEN WE WERE DONE. LATER, HE SAID THE CONVERSATION HAS PLAYED OUT EXACTLY AS WE'D PRACTICED!
Q: HAVE YOU EVER HAD A HARD TIME WITH A GIRLFRIEND?
A: ONE OF THE MOST DEVASTATING EXPERIENCES I'VE EVER HAD WAS WHEN MY EX-GIRLFIREND BROKE UP WITH ME IN COLLEGE. AFTERWARD, I JUST WENT NUTS PARTYING, AND I GAINED A LOT OF WEIGHT REALLY FAST-CLOSE TO 40 POUNDS! I DIDN'T REALIZE HOW HEAVY I'D GOTTEN UNTIL I CAME HOME FROM SCHOOL AT THE END OF THE YEAR AND MY SISTER TOOK ONE LOOK AT ME AND SAID, "HEY! YOU FINALLY GREW AN ASS!" IT WAS A WAKE-UP CALL: NONE OF MY FRIENDS HAD SAID ANYTHING ABOUT MY WEIGHT.I WAS SO EMBARRESSED THAT I LITERALLY RAN OUT THE DOOR: I PUT ON MY RUNNING SHOES AND RAN FIVE MILES RIGHT THEN. I KEPT DOING THAT UNTIL I LOST THE EXTRA WEIGHT.
Q: WAS THAT EXPERIENCE THE TOUGHEST YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH?
A: NO. THE WORST WAS WHEN MY MOM WAS DIGANOSED WITH BREAST CANCER DURING MY FRESHMAN YEAR OF COLLEGE. I CAME HOME FROM CLASS AND MY ROOMMATE SAID, "YOUR MOTHER CALLED"-NOTHING MORE, NOTHING LESS-AND EVEN THOUGH SHE CALLED ALL THE TIME. I JUST KNEW SOMETHING WAS WRONG. I SAT ON MY BED AND CRIED. ANYWAY, SHE HAD TO HAVE SURGERY, BUT SHE'S DOING GREAT NOW.
Q: WE CAN'T BELIEVE YOU KNEW BEFORE SHE TOLD YOU! IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU AND YOUR MOM HAVE A PSYCHIC CONNECTION.
A: WE ARE EXTREMELY CLOSE. ABOUT THREE YEARS AGO, I WENT THROUGH A ROUGH TIME-WORRYING ABOUT MY FUTURE, FEELING DEPRESSED-AND SHE CALLED ME WITH INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES EVERY DAY FOR A YEAR. SHE TOLD ME TO PUT THEM ON MY BEDPOST AS A REMINDER THAT I WAS GOING TO BE OKAY. IT WORKED! WHEN YOU WAKE UP AND SAY AN AFFIRMATION TO YOURSELF OVER AND OVER, IT GIVES YOU THE POWER TO BELIEVE IT-AND ONCE YOU BELIEVE IT, YOU CAN MAKE IT HAPPEN.