As
a heterosexual Christian, I take the Bible's condemnation of homosexuality
in all its divergent forms (lesbianism, bi-sexuality, etc.) seriously.
So
as to avoid confusion, from the outset I will explain that in this
article, I will at times be using the term "homosexuality"
to refer to all these groups, and not only gay males, as is the usual
custom.
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Actress
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What prompts me
to write this article?
While searching
for news about music and movies, I have come across writings by lesbians
on the web, who fret, lament, and disparage that there is supposedly
a conspiracy of sorts among the entertainment world to negatively
characterize homosexuals in film and television.
I have in mind
specifically these pages (though there are other, similar pages out
there):
I have not even
read all the "Lesbian Cliche FAQ" page, and already I have
discovered many problems with its reasonings, so I do not think I
will even address the author's entire list.
Such homosexuals
as those of the web sites linked to here, the ones who cry "discrimination"
in regards to how Hollywood presents homosexuals (and recall, in most
cases, I am using this term to refer to bi-sexuals, lesbians, as well
as male homosexuals), usually claim that the methods employed to make
homosexuals look bad, or to disseminate anti- homosexuality sentiments,
are
- to depict
the homosexual character as being insane or evil; or
- have the homosexual
character killed, particularly after a sex scene
Homosexuality
is Presented in a Positive, Not Negative, Light in the Media
I contend that
the opposite situation is true: homosexuality is presented in various
media (whether fictional or non-fictional) as being laudable (or at
least acceptable), and, to make matters worse, its critics are characterized
as being (pick one or more):
- ignorant, backwards,
"red necks"
- hateful, intolerant
bigots (this is especially so if they are conservative
Christians)
- homophobic
(i.e., one who is afraid of homosexuals)
Frequently, one
will find television shows "sermonizing" on behalf
of the homosexual community, not against.
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The
Entertainment Industry tends to be favorable to homosexuals
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Sometimes in mainstream
movies, this is the case, but usually homosexuals in films are depicted
in an affectionate manner as being either stylish, sophisticated,
eccentric, colorful, or over the top, so that the audience is expected
to find them warm and funny and perhaps exotic.
With the exception
of homosexual characters who happen to also be cast as shady, criminal
types in film, homosexuals seem to be presented as comedy relief rather
than as a form of social commentary, whether for or against their
sexual orientation.
However, the very
fact that the film director, script writer, and producer try to make
the audience approve of and like the homosexual character by making
him or her appealing and lovable is in and of itself a form of Hollywood
promoting homosexuality, even though it may not neccesarily be intentional
or a conscious decision.
Hollywood further
presents a positive picture of female homosexuals by casting thin,
pretty actresses to play the parts of female homosexuals, such as
Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct. I have yet to see a mainstream
film in which the lesbian appears to be grossly unattractive, with
rolls of fat, no fashion sense, and the like.
Too often in television
and film of the last few decades, in which the story involves homosexual
characters being harassed in some fashion, the harasser usually gets
his or her "come upance."
The message from
the "come upance" that is being conveyed to the t.v. viewing
audience is more of a lecture, whether implicit or explicit, about
how we should all be tolerant, loving or accepting of the homosexual
lifestyle.
Double
Standards
Some will no doubt
see the obvious connection to my next point and the debate in the
United States about "hate laws."
I find it odd
that lesbians and other homosexuals are not appalled, or do not reach
the same conclusions, when a heterosexual ("straight") person
is harmed in an entertainment piece as they do when the same happens
to a homosexual character.
At this
stage, I am sure that most of them would claim to care deeply about
the plight of heterosexual characters in
fiction, as well as that of homosexuals, which only makes my point:
One does not
generally find homosexuals at the start and up
front being upset about heterosexuals being
murdered in movies, (unless they are extreme liberals who are very
much against firearms and the NRA). They will wait until after the
criticism is made.
Some homosexuals,
of course, may care, but only if the heterosexual
is not a white, conservative male or female, or if
they are parent of a heterosexual child.
Years ago, as
I was channel surfing, I came across a public (as in PBS) news and
commentary show about homosexuality hosted by homosexuals.
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On the episode
I caught, the black lesbian and white homosexual male were ridiculing
Christians.
I watched this
show long enough to see one of the cast members dressed up as a preacher
and carry around a Bible, all the while banging it and saying all
sorts of hateful things about homosexuals.
This was supposed
to be their parody and idea of stereotypical Christian actions, attitudes,
and beliefs. I take it from that skit, and similiar t.v. routines
and on- line material, that some in the homosexual community
1) think that
respect for, tolerance for, and accuracy in the depiction of groups
in the media should apply only to them (after all, they do not mind
to see Christians lambasted and scorned); and
2) they think
that there is no such thing as Christian homosexuals
-- and there are. And I'm sure plenty of the Christian homosexuals
would have been equally offended by the skit I described.
Couldn't I argue
that a straight person being written in a movie script as getting
murdered or going crazy is an attack on heterosexuality? No, because
it is not.
I am aware that
off screen, in real life, that some individuals may pick another individual
to harm based on one factor, say, for example, the person's skin color
or sexuality, but then, what criminal does not?
For instance,
most male rapists on the streets target women, lesbian women or not;
most of the rapists do not take surveys before choosing a victim:
"Say, what sexual orientation are you?"
Most male rapists
do not choose elderly men, fire hydrants, or poodles to violate.
Bank robbers choose
bank tellers, no matter the skin color or sexual orientation of the
tellers.
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Muggers choose
to mug whomever is handy at the time, or whomever they think can be
easily overpowered and intimidated (in their view, it is probably
the elderly, or non- self- confident- looking people).
All of this
means that it may be a "straight" person who is on the receiving
end of crime, and statistically speaking, since there are
more heterosexuals than homosexuals in American society, crime happens
in reality to a larger percentage of "straight" people and
in entertainment.
Conservative
Christians are Depicted in Media as Narrow Minded, Hate Filled Bumpkins
This point has
been touched on previously, but it needs further examination.
Even people who
do not agree with homosexuality (including Christians such as myself)
do not approve of the murder, harassment (whether workplace or otherwise),
or mistreatment of homosexuals in society in any form. We do exist.
Really.
People such as
myself further believe that anyone who does mistreat a homosexual
person should pay the price -- and that it should be the same price
that would be paid if the victim was heterosexual,
whether that punishment be jail time, a monetary fine, or the death
penalty. Or, in the case of job-related harassment, demotion or dismissal.
Christians such
as myself
recognize that homosexuals are human beings, and as such, Jesus Christ
expects us to treat them with compassion and fairness as we would
any "straight" person.
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However, due partially
to negative media portrayal of conservative Christians, or wilful
ignorance of (and perhaps deliberate censorship by) the homosexual
community, one would think that there is no such thing as a person,
particularly a heterosexual Christian person, who disagrees with homosexuality
but who does not hate homosexuals or wish them ill -
will.
As far as I am
concerned, the young (heterosexual) men who murdered Matthew
Shepard, (who was homosexual), should receive the death penalty:
not because they murdered a gay human being for being gay,
but because they killed a human being.
Murdering people,
no matter what their skin color, religion (or lack thereof), sexual
orientation, or what have you, is not right; there is no need for
false distinctions and categories:
A human being
is a human being.
For the homosexual
community to single out a specific crime because its victim was homosexual
is actually objectifying homosexual individuals and
making them less than human, which is what the murderer of homosexuals
already does, if he or she is doing so based on hatred
of homosexuals / homosexuality.
There are, after
all, other reasons why a straight person may murder a homosexual person
(for the same reasons that a straight person would murder another
straight person), and what does one do in a case of one homosexual
who murders another homosexual?
Is the homosexual
community really sure that objectifying homosexuals is what they want?
Another
Look at Willow and Tara on Buffy the Vampire Slayer
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Additionally,
in some cases in which a movie or television show allows a homosexual
character to be murdered, the perpetrator gets punished, such as "Warren"
in the television series Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
Warren accidentally
shoots and kills a lesbian, "Tara," in his attempt to murder
a "straight" character ("Buffy"). "Willow,"
Tara's lover (and also a female), goes on to seek vengeance, and she
gets it: Warren dies at the hand of Willow for Tara's death.
The other characters
on the Buffy show do not rejoice when they discover that
the lesbian character "Tara" has been shot down. None of
the "straight" characters say or hold the attitude, "Oh,
who cares if Tara was killed? She was just a lesbian, so it does not
matter."
On the contrary,
they mourn along with Willow -- maybe not as long or as deep as some
lesbian writers would like (one complained that the other characters
didn't talk enough about Tara's passing), but they do express sorrow
nonetheless.
I
have more to say about Buffy the Vampire Slayer and its treatment
of lesbianism below.
Of course, homosexuals
tend to downplay these aspects and choose to view such scenarios as
"oh no, not another 'lesbian killed and lesbian goes crazy plot.'"
In reality, what
they are getting from these programs is a positive confirmation that
crimes against homosexuals should not be ignored or treated as less
than important than murders of, or crimes against, straight people.
Homosexuals
are not the only group "singled out" for mistreatment in
real life or in the cinema, as all groups, including straight white
people, are victims as well, so why bicker about the fate of homosexuals
on the screen -- death, insanity, or dissolution into an evil serial
killer -- when straight people also suffer these things in real life
and in fictional media?
As far as fictional
characters and situations go, is Darth Vader somehow less of a villain
because he was heterosexual? Or Lex Luther? (And despite what most
"slash" fiction pieces on the web say, no, Lex is not bi-sexual
or homosexual.)
Off the top of
my head, I can say with confidence from memory of past movies viewed,
that most murderers on the screen are straight, white males (just
to name a few):
- The Bone
Collector (Angelina Jolie, I believe, played the Crime Scene
Investigator);
- Kiss the
Girls (actor Cary Elwes as the killer);
- Copycat
(Sigourney Weaver as the target);
- Halloween
(Jamie Lee Curtis as the target);
- Nightmare
on Elm Street (with character Freddy Krueger),
- Psycho
(the Norman Bates character as the violent lunatic)
- The Hitcher
(Thomas Howell as the victim)
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A few films even
feature white, straight, female murderers, such as
- Fatal Attraction
(with the Glenn Close character stalking a male target)
- Niagara
(a 1950s film starring Marilyn Monroe as a cunning, deceitful wife
who is hoping to kill her husband)
- The Hand
that Rocks the Cradle (a straight, white, female nanny goes
psycho and tries to kill an entire family)
- Various
Disney Films (I am assuming that the evil stepmothers, witches,
and so on were straight)
- Swim Fan
(a version of Fatal Attraction for the teeny bopper set)
Most story lines
in film and television fail to make a distinction:
that some who oppose homosexuality do not oppose
homosexuals. Therefore,
many shows and films propagate the idea that anyone who does not approve
of homosexuality must also be a homophobe, and an unloving, close
minded, bigot.
It is not enough
that lesbianism, bi-sexuality, and homosexuality are no longer considered
wrong or taboo by American society (contrary to gay rights groups
who like to shout "discrimination" at every turn), but the
public is exposed to homosexuality these days on a fairly constant
basis on the television, magazines, the web, and in movies.
I certainly do
not see lesbianism or other forms of homosexuality "trashed,"
or demonized in popular entertainment as some homosexuals, bi-sexuals,
and lesbians maintain.
Outside of Christian
(and other religious) broadcasting on radio, television, and a few
web sites here and there, one is hard pressed to find anyone speaking
negatively of homosexuality.
In this day,
due to political correctness run amok, an over emphasis on "tolerance,"
and an overall moral decay in society, most people are afraid to criticize
any group for any reason.
I cannot count
the number of times I have watched television programs which portray
lesbianism (and other varieties of homosexuality) in a positive light
and those who disagree with this lifestyle as being being narrow minded,
hateful bigots.
We the public
are repeatedly told in interviews with actors, script writers, film
directors, and producers that television shows and films with young
adult or teenage homosexuals in the storylines are made with the express
goal of demonstrating to young homosexuals in the viewing audience
that it's "okay" to be homosexual.
And yes, they
have achieved this goal, with the likes of characters such as "Jack"
on the teenage melodrama Dawson's Creek.
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Even in animated
fare, there is Dale's homosexual, rodeo father on King of the
Hill, Mr. Smithers on The Simpsons, and a homosexual
character on the South Park series.
This phenomenon
of showing no tolerance for those thought of as intolerant toward
homosexuality sometimes even shows up on non-fiction programs, as
in one episode of the talk show "Rikki Lake" in which the
hostess, Rikki Lake, chastises a few in the audience who "boo"
a homosexual for being homosexual. Lake chides them and essentially
tells them, "So what? Get over it."
Far from being
attacked on film and the rest of the media, homosexuality is commended,
defended, promoted, and embraced. A few more examples will demonstrate
this point. Lesbianism
was, at some point in the 1990s, declared "chic" by major
magazines, one of which placed a lesbian couple on their cover.
The television
show "Ellen" starring real-life lesbian Ellen Degeneres,
featured many episodes of the fictional Ellen's "coming out"
and general commentary on lesbianism in the form of plot lines.
There is a Russian
pop singing duo called "Tatu" who, as I write this, currently
have a Top 10 hit in some nations in Europe with one of their singles.
These young ladies are portraying themselves as lesbians (whether
they are in reality, or if it is just a gimmick foisted upon them
by their manager, it is still positive publicity for lesbianism).
Tatu recently
appeared on the mainstream American television show "Mad TV"
as musical guests, where they kissed one another for quite some time,
on stage, mid- song.
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Next, we have
positive portrayals (and condemnations or derision of those who do
not endorse and accept homosexuality) in which the homosexual characters
do not 'turn evil' or die in such fare as The Bird Cage,
starring Robin Williams, in which a homosexual couple raise a son
who tries to win the hand of a woman with conservative parents.
Granted, this
specific example (The Bird Cage) is probably not the best,
as the conservative characters in this film are not as badly maligned
as is the usual practice by Hollywood.
Other examples
of positive portrayal of homosexuals in the media include:
Wil and Grace,
a show in which the main homosexual character, Wil, is charming, intelligent,
supportive and successful; Spin City's suave, stylish, compassionate,
articulate Carter Heywood (played by actor Michael Boatman).
Then there was
the
lesbian relationship on the t.v. show Roseanne, of characters
played by Morgan Fairchild and Sandra Bernhard. If I am remembering
correctly, neither the Morgan Fairchild or Sandra
Bernhard characters went insane, turned evil, or died. (Bernhard,
incidentally, is a lesbian off screen.)
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Mention of this (that
is, of Sandra Bernhard in general and her lesbian relationship on the
show Roseanne), as well as many other television lesbian couples,
is made at the "After Ellen.com" site here.
I would assume that not all characters on After Ellen.com's page went
crazy or evil. Concerning
Bernhard,
those at the After Ellen.com site had this
to say,
"Throw a rock in a crowded
lesbian bar and you're bound to hit someone who's slept with Sandra
Bernhard - at least, that's the perception you get from the media.
. . This is all the
more confusing since in public appearances Sandra Bernhard usually
comes across as bitchy, self-absorbed, and just generally unattractive."
I do not deny that
the media has its biases. However, the American news and entertainment
media typically slant stories in favor of the liberal left (whose members
generally support homosexual causes) and against the conservative right
(whose members generally are not sympathethic to homosexual causes).
However, in light
of the fact that the media (especially entertainment media) are generally
a.) very liberal,
and most liberals support the homosexual platform and
b.) present
homosexuality in a positive light
Perhaps I am mistaken,
but it seems as though
the "After Ellen's" writer, in her article on Sandra Bernhard,
is claiming that the media is responsible for making Bernhard, who
happens to be a lesbian, look bad, and hence, lesbianism
(or all lesbians) look bad.
Assuming that
my understanding the "After Ellen's" author correctly on
this point, my comment is this: the media are not to blame for Sandra
Bernhard looking bad, rather, it is Bernhard herself. "Personal
accountability" and "personal responsibility" seem
to be unfamiliar concepts in today's society.
I find plenty
of stand up routines by "straight" comics to be just as
distasteful, if not more so, than Bernhard's. I do not see anyone
judging the entire straight community by the handful of indecent heterosexual
entertainers.
I think it rather
naive for a lesbian writer to assume that straight people judge the
entire homosexual culture based upon the actions of one lesbian.
We have our reasons
for rejecting homosexuality, and it runs deeper than actress and stand
up comic Bernhard acting obnoxious, telling dirty jokes, or cussing
in HBO specials. Sandra
Bernhard, in turn, brings to mind pop singer Madonna.
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Madonna created
free publicity for herself sometime around the mid or late 1980s when
she presented herself as having a lesbian relationship with Bernhard
(they were even dubbed by the media as "gal pals").
As most are aware,
Madonna is financially successful and extremely famous. She even went
on to publish a book called Sex which contained lesbian,
and other homo-erotic, imagery. Madonna routinely used homosexual
dancers in her concert tours and music videos.
If one believed
all that lesbians say about lesbianism and the media, one would think
that the results of Madonna's publicly dabbling in lesbianism would
be failure and rejection, when clearly that is not what happened.
Lesbian
rock singer Melissa
Etheridge seems to be doing quite well, as is the lesbian duo
Indigo Girls.
Another example
from the world of television of a favorable or neutral treatment of
homosexuals:
On an episode
of the television program Just Shoot Me, we have a male character,
("Dennis," played by David Spade) setting up a lesbian he
knows with one of his heterosexual, female co-workers ("Maya,"
played by Laura San Giacomo), in the hopes that the ladies will "hit
it off."
The worst that
can be said about this Just Shoot Me episode by lesbian media
critics is that it showed a male wanting to watch two women make out,
which is, as we all know, said to be a common heterosexual male fantasy.
However,
lesbianism and the lesbian character in this Just Shoot Me
episode were not shown in a negative light. The lesbian character
did not become insane, evil, nor did she die.
Buffy
the Lesbian Slayer?
From a casual
scanning of some entertainment sites by lesbians, it appears that
most are very unhappy with Buffy the Vampire Slayer's creator
Joss Whedon's
handling of the lesbian relationship of Tara and Williow.
Some homosexuals
complain that Willow "went bad" after losing Tara, by going
on a killing spree.
They conveniently
skip the part that Willow is subdued, calmed down, and pretty much
restored to her former self by her friends Xander, Giles, etc.
In more recent
episodes of Buffy, Willow is shown on the verge of entering
another lesbian relationship with a "potential slayer" named
Kennedy.
I can only surmise
that in the future, there will be more anti- Buffy material on the
web by lesbians because, in a recent episode of Buffy, Kennedy
rejected Willow, and I am sure that these lesbians will not hesitate
to point out that right beforehand, Kennedy witnessed Willow turning
a little evil while casting a magic spell.
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I
make mention of this because (and if I am recalling correctly), no
sex between Kennedy and Willow was shown right before this scene of
Willow's magic spell, so that the so-called "lesbian turning
evil right after sex" cliche, which is thought by lesbians to
be a form of anti- lesbianism, is present.
At the most, either
earlier in the show, or in a previous episode (I do not recall which),
Kennedy and Willow are shown on a date at a bar, and they may have
kissed (again, my memory is hazy on this point).
But the fact remains
that there was no flat-out, over the top, blatant sex scene of Kennedy
and Willow "doing the nasty." They did not even disrobe
or "neck."
Does it not occur
to the lesbians who critique such shows that maybe, just maybe, the
writers and producers are actually performing a service to the homosexual
community by showing homosexuals to be three dimensional, normal human
beings like everyone else?
Are we to believe
that homosexuals are without their flaws, that they never murder,
have psychological disorders, lie, cheat or steal? Are such immoral
actions carried out only by heterosexuals?
I think that the
lesbians who disdain the show's "Willow" storylines are
also merely overlooking the obvious: Perhaps
Willow's magic addiction -- which turns her into "bad Willow"
-- is not an anti- lesbian message but a metaphor for the dangers
of becoming too dependent on alcohol or narcotics and what can result
if one does.
This is how I
honestly took the 'Willow- and- magic' storylines. I did not not view
them as a metaphor for lesbian sexual sensations, as one web site
author supposed. Until
I stumbled across some of the lesbian pages about network t.v. and
the like, any other interpretation would not have crossed my mind.
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As even one of
these lesbian web site writers acknowledges, a male heterosexual character,
"Angel," goes insane after having sex with the main (female)
character, Buffy. (Side note: Willow's old boyfriend, Oz, turned into
a werewolf.)
The web site
writer then goes on to commit the logical fallacy of special pleading
(or maybe this is the reverse of special pleading), by brushing aside
the Angel example and making much ado when the same thing happens
to lesbian characters.
One of these lesbian
writers wonders why Buffy was not permanently killed after sex scenes:
I would
say that since the show is called Buffy the Vampire Slayer
and not Tara the Lesbian Sidekick Who Practices Witchcraft,
the obvious answer is that it is because Buffy is the main character
of the series, with Willow being another main player, and Willow was
not taken off the show, either.
Tara was like
Oz, a side character. How
many lesbians are outraged that Oz was written out of the show? Not
only was he written out as a regular character, but upon his return,
he discovers that he has been rejected by Willow for a female, Tara.
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I have no doubt
that had the Willow character been removed from Buffy, along with
the Tara character, that these same disgruntled lesbians would then
claim that the series was trying to 'black list' homosexual story
lines and characters.
Why can't they
be happy that lesbians are at least being glamorized and celebrated
on the tube? I know, homosexuals still want to bring up the "cliches
as discrimination" argument.
However, and using
Buffy the Vampire Slayer's Willow character as an example
again: Willow
is presented to the audience as a human being who has her good qualities
as well as the bad. To make her perfect and without any flaws is to
make her less than human, and a boring, flat character.
Lesbians
Comparing Lesbian Portrayals in Media to Those of Blacks and Native
American Indians
One lesbian author
tried to compare the treatment of lesbians in media to how Native
American Indians and blacks were at first portrayed in films and television.
Certainly
there were many negative depictions of Indians and blacks early on,
but the fact remains that it did not stay that way, Spike Lee to the
contrary (some people just like to complain, and Mr. Lee is that sort).
There are
exceptions: "Tanto,"
the Native American Indian who was the Lone Ranger's side kick, was
a competent and loyal friend. Dances with Wolves, with Kevin
Costner, depicted Indians in a favorable light, as did an episode
or two of the WB network's Smallville.
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There have been
dozens upon dozens of films and t.v. shows picturing Native American
Indians as being intelligent and noble people, while the "white
man" is pictured as being the greedy, heartless bastards who
ruin life for the Indians.
Blacks have also
fared well in entertainment in recent decades: a main character (played
by Christopher Judge) on the television series Stargate
SG-1, "Teal'c," is a black person who is shown
in high regard; so too is Wesley Snipes in movies such as Passenger
57, and Blade, and Blade 2.
I know it pains
liberals and the Spike Lees of the world, but in none of these cases
do the black people die. Not only do their characters live to the
end, but they are also heroic, courageous, and save lives.
Denzel Washington,
Cuba Gooding Jr., and Morgan Freeman have each played roles as intelligent,
successful professionals, ranging from detectives to military personnel.
"Spawn"
is a comic book super hero who was featured in a movie of the same
name -- and you guessed it, "Spawn" was a black man (at
least in the film version; I am not sure about the printed versions).
And who can forget
one of the highest rated television shows from the 1980s: The
Cosby Show.
Not only was this
show massively popular with whites as well as with blacks, it featured
two highly educated and articulate black characters, one a lawyer, the
other a physician. Talk
show hostess Oprah Winfrey is usually on the Forbes'"Wealthiest
Americans" list, thanks in part to her Oprah talk show.
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Numerous black
rap artists are wealthy and sell many albums. Ice T has a steady role
on NBC's Law and Order as a detective, in addition to having
a recording career. Lil' Kim, Janet Jackson, and Queen Latifah are
a few of the successful female music artists of color.
Hispanics have
also been shown in a positive light in the past few years in various
films and t.v. shows.
I think that
these examples suffice to demonstrate that the entertainment industry
is not as prejudiced as they once were, if they are at all, these
days.
Homosexuality:
Is It Just About the Sex or Not?
I also do not
understand why lesbians would emphasize homosexual sex so much in
their media articles. They say, more often than not, that right after
a homosexual couple has sex, said couple (or at least one individual)
goes six feet under.
This complaint
actually negates other arguments in favor of homosexuality.
Homosexuals, from
what I've seen in television news pieces and a few news articles in
print and on the web, seem to deeply resent it when critics make their
lifestyle out to be about sex.
The homosexuals
I have seen interviewed about this topic generally maintain that being
homosexual is not about a risque life filled with trying to "convert"
heterosexuals; molesting children; casual, sleazy sex: having many
one night stands or "encounters" at highway rest stops,
and so forth.
No, they say.
It is about having a loving, monogamous relationship with someone
to share your life and dreams with, and sex is not always the most
important factor.
If all that is
true, then why do some homosexuals repeatedly make mention of homosexuals
in movies and t.v. who are murdered after a same-gender sex scene?
Should they not
be consistent and get upset when a homosexual character gets murdered
during any part of a program, whether if it is before,
after, or during sex, or even if there is no sex at all?
It could be argued
that there is a Hollywood conspiracy to belittle homosexuals by killing
off homosexual characters altogether -- regardless of the timing of
the character's death (or spiral into insanity) in relation to sex
scenes, or there even may be a lack of sex scenes altogether.
The point being
the the inclusion of any homosexual character in any entertainment
form, whether said character dies or goes insane or not, is actually
a boost for the homosexual community.
The mere fact
that the public is, and has been, exposed to so many homosexual characters
via entertainment makes the public more sensitized to homosexuals
and their clamor for equality, especially since so many of these programs
do show sympathy for the homosexual character and disdain against
characters who harass the homosexual.
If anything, I
would argue that the inclusion of so many homosexual characters in
film and television is an attempt to make homosexuality appear normal
and acceptable to mainstream American society.
If in fact the
"homosexual dying shortly after sexual activity" occurrence
is some sort of hidden, anti- homosexual message from Hollywood, well,
then, "straight" teenagers are subjected to the very same
thing: how
many Friday the 13th sequels did we all have to endure where
the heterosexual couple, while engaged in, or shortly
after, sexual activity, get a knife through the head or chainsaw through
the torso?
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Scare stories
aimed at getting young heterosexuals not to have sex until marriage
go back to the 1950s (and maybe earlier), such as the story of the
heterosexual couple in the car on a date, where they eventually find
the serial killer's hook stuck in the side of the car.
Rather than look
at it like "lesbian dies after lesbian sex, that's clearly homophobic!,"
as so many lesbians do, why not consider that maybe it's along the
same lines as the "straight teens who get sliced and diced after
sex" with the point among all depictions that casual sex by anyone,
regardless of sexual orientation, is risky or immoral?
Xena
the Warrior Princess Bites the Dust
Lesbians
point to Xena's death as yet another instance of "lesbian dying
after developing relationship with other woman" cliche, which
allegedly Makes Homosexuality Look Bad. For
readers who lived under a rock and never caught any episodes of Xena,
the other woman in Xena's life was her sidekick "Gabrielle."
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Argo
the Horse, Xena, and Gabrielle from Xena Warrior Princess |
To be
fully accurate, however, it should be pointed out that the Xena
series always left the status of the Xena and Gabrielle relationship
ambiguous enough so that one could never tell with absolute certainty
if they were supposed to be lesbians / bi-sexuals, of if they simply
had a deep friendship.
At
any rate, for the sake of this article, we will assume that they were
a lesbian couple. I
am once again amazed that some lesbians, to find support for their
case against supposed bias in the media, try to find the dark side
in a show or film and neglect to mention the positive aspects.
They
sometimes neglect the context of the homosexual
character's death or insanity in the storyline to focus only on the
fact that the murder, sickness, or insanity happens to a homosexual.
It
becomes irrelevant to the homosexuals suspicious of the entertainment
industry why the homosexual character in the film
died, (meaning, it may actually be integral to the plot but they refuse
to believe this), so that they they jump to the unfounded conclusion
that it is so because it is a case of anti- homosexuality propaganda.
Yes,
Xena dies in the final show, but of her own will, and for a higher
good: to free the souls of those she had previously condemned to death
by murder.
First
of all, Xena's willing sacrifice of her own life to save others she
was responsible for murdering to begin with would portray a lesbian
/ bi-sexual as being more courageous, giving, selfless, and compassionate
than most straight Christians -- or anyone else, for that matter.
I
also wonder if lesbians, by criticizing the show because its writers
allowed Xena's death, are saying that they should not be held accountable
for their wrong doing?
In
other words, the homosexual view makes it seem as though it is acceptable
for a homosexual (as did Xena) to rule in fear, conquer communities,
murder people, and during that time, not show compassion or remorse
either.
Are
we supposed to think that homosexuals are above judicial and moral
law? Should we not be outraged or upset by the fact that homosexual
Xena at one time murdered people, and then just overlook it? Does
being homosexual excuse all sins?
Secondly,
Gabrielle the sidekick did not die or go insane: she was last seen
on a ship sailing off while carrying Xena's ashes in an urn, presumably
to carry on Xena's legacy of helping others and fighting the good
fight.
Gabrielle
was always shown as being highly intelligent, loyal, and during the
last few seasons, a skilled warrior. I fail to see any anti- homosexual
messages in any of that.
Now
let's consider the character Calisto from the Xena show.
From most indications, Calisto was never represented as being homosexual.
I do not recall any episodes evenhinting or suggesting
that Calisito was homosexual.
This
is quite interesting, because Calisto, at least initially in the Xena
series, is an evil character, but with just cause:
Xena,
before she became champion of the innocent, murdered Calisto's family
when Calisto was a girl. Calisto then spends the rest of her life
filled with hate, hurting others, and trying to kill Xena.
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Calisto
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Why
is it that lesbians don't make something out of this: a straight
woman who is evil? Because,
I think, too many of them are too vested in finding examples of "anti
lesbian" portrayals in the entertainment industry.
Homosexuals
need to take their blinders off and stop assuming that the media is
out to get them, since, in reality, the media support them and their
pro- homosexual agenda.
Or,
perhaps, they still want the public to think of homosexuals as victims
in order to continue gaining support, and so they do their parts to
maintain the illusion.
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