Isn't this good to know ???
Mood:  silly
Topic: House & Garden Philosophy

Finally accepted !!
Mood:  celebratory
Topic: (scary) hospital stories
Geezzz... after so long dragging it around (mostly sitting on the hard disk of my laptop, waiting for some action from either BK or me the darn thing finally got accepted. After BJOG gracefully rejected my submission (even though I entertained them by being a peer reviewer for an interesting article on ECV), The Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology Research (Ranking 2005: 51/57 Impact Factor: 0.685) showed sincere interest in our "penfruit" (or actually mine; I still think it's silly for him wanting to be 1st author). Anyway, not bad at all, and at all means better than the local ANZJOG....

Viagra
Mood:  vegas lucky
Topic: Night life & other action
After a well deserved break for a day (which I spent mostly in Bodegas, trying to catch up with my reading), I eventually set off for my S'pore trip. Unfortunately, we arrived rather late @ KL airport, so the MAS-people wouldn't let me board. Fortunately S'pore airlines came (again) at my rescue... Yes.... this is not the first time, in Bali a few years ago I also had to resort to them in order to get back to the Netherlands.

Arriving in the hotel makes it all worthwhile... My first time in a real 5-star hotel. I really owe the GSK-people for taking such good care of me. This morning I had a really nice breakfast and then the symposium really launched.

An enervating day was concluded by Viagra-sponsored Dr. Rosie King ("Some people believe in Santa Claus, I believe in the G-spot") from Australia. A truly remarkable lady, who together with her fellow speakers introduced us to the ins and outs of sexual revolution, the modern myth of hours-lasting orgasms, panicky vagina's and the fact that enema's should be high-hot & hellavalot. It also seems that modern young male Singaporeans are mostly concerned about their penis-length. Mmhh... although that never really was one of my worries, judging to the amount of daily junkmail I receive there's also a lot of people out there who are apparently concerned about that. Anyway, there's quite a number of weird pubs in S'pore, below the pics of one of them...

Como agua para chocolate...
Mood:  spacey
Topic: Everyday life (weirdness)
Finally I got my hands on what might be one of the last three copies of the book in the whole of KL. Like Water for Chocolate, by Laura Esquivel. After I already got her the Calvin & Hobbes "There's Something drooling under the Bed", this should add up to the drooling, as the central theme of the book is food. Anyone who hasn't seen the movie so far, go for it, and otherwise the book would be a good option.

While looking for it, of course, it turned out to be a dangerous mission. In every book shop I visited, books kept sticking on to my hand as if they were covered with glue. Before I knew it there were one - two - three - four books in my bag already. Kiran Desai, of whom I already read Hullabaloo, some other Indian chap, a cooking book which I probably won't use in the next 2 years (but just in case fate gets me outside Asia and I need to cook all those things myself again) and Amy Tan, well, need I say more ? Almost I ended up with the latest of Salman Rushdie (I love his style), but I managed to restrain myself in the last moment thinking of the-still-to-be-read-pile back home (the German version of The Devil wears Prada and another novel by Paul Theroux). I know that in reality I won't be able to finish even 2 of those in the next 2 years to come, unless I get jobless, thrown out of training, decide to call it quits and set out on a world journey or even all three of the above.

Melancholic feeling suddenly bestowes upon me as I think about the small book pile I used to have on my coffee table back home in my own house, and another small pile on the pretty antique commode next to my own Ikea bed. Sometimes it's difficult, living in a box, even when your box is an established room...

Gorilla's, worms & Big Daddies...
Mood:  blue
Topic: Everyday life (weirdness)

Yes yes... I have to admit it shamefully... I've been a bad boy again. Two months it has been and not a single word... What to say ? True enough no shocking events so far, but on the other hand I could have written tons of stuff about small-small events, outings and so on... I even have picks ?!

Truth is, the minute I came back I was again working my ass off. Night shifts followed by work in the evenings to make an extra buck. More important even since the comfort zone of my juicy stock port folio got whiped away very suddenly and unexpectedly... I'd better buckle up and reconsider my positions I guess, otherwise the Stock-Gorilla in the Berlin Zoo will actually perform better than me over 2007.

Some more there was most likely a worm in my computer. At least I hope that was the cause of my computer being jammed all the time. Email didn't go in or out for a few days and I'll have to throw out the Incredi-mail program.

My research project is getting jammed, being sabotaged by a combination of nurses and colleagues. I'll have to set up a new one...

I'm looking forward to my short Singapore trip in 2 weeks time, sponsored by the friendly chaps @ GSK-Malaysia, thank you - thank you ! My first local financial break in quite a while. It'll give me some time to breath, unwind and recapture myself. After that, only in July there will be another relaxing trip. 3 weeks in Bali, and I hope it'll be wonderful and I'll get to see my little naughty one very often.

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A true Malaysian
Mood:  hungry
Topic: Everyday life (weirdness)
A trip to London, only to get my pic taken in the British General Medical Council. Fortunately everything goes smooth and in no time I’m in the center of London, and not much later already out on the street with my so-important document. Three hours left and what to do ? That’s what I ask the lady at the counter. “How to kill another 3 hours in London ?” I’m advised to find my way to Oxford street. However, on my way to the tube, I get distracted. On the opposite side of the street I see 3 small restaurants, and I proceed to check it out. A Thai eat-all-you-can-lunch-buffet for 5 pound-sterling. Exactly the amount of money that is left. So I sit down and spend the remaining 3 hours in the small restaurant. Have I finally turned Malaysian, spending my entire stay in another country in a restaurant with familiar food ? MMhhh I bet Liza will be proud of me.

Crisis - followed by B-day Zoo & Church
Mood:  don't ask
Topic: Everyday life (weirdness)
Last night there was another crisis. After another one of her futile attempts to mellow me up she broke down and cried. Next thing I know she’s gone down, and a minute later she comes back to the room, turns on the light and stands there with a small knife, the kind you use to peel your apples (or any random similar fruit). She gives me the suicide thingy, asks me to tell her how to slide her wrist, cause she “can’t live without me”. Gita wakes up as well, but fortunately she is still a bit sleepy. I pull wheeping Wiwik out of the bed room, hissing to her to go down the stairs. Then I go back to the bedroom. Don’t worry sweetheart, mommy is crying cause she hurt herself when she just slipped on the stairs, just go and sleep first sweety.Subsequently I go down to deal with matters there. I try to muffle her sobbing so Gita won’t hear, but eventually I put an end to it. Listen, I tell her while I firmly hold her face. Do you realise that just now you were standing there with that knife, claiming you want to kill yourself, in front of a little girl that will turn 6 tomorrow. I point out that she has a major responsibility on her hands. A responsibility that neither ex-hubby or I didn’t want, but rather couldn’t have cause she claimed her rights as a mother. A responsibility where handling knifes and talking suicide don’t fit in. If you ever, ever, cause our child a major trauma by doing similar things, I will never forgive you. And as far as things between us are concerned, let me tell you one more last time that the only connection between us is that you’re the mother of our child, and nothing more than that. That means you don’t need to expect anything from me and you know very well the reason being that half a year ago you blew 6^th chance in line in your traditional cruel ways. Having said all that I manage to settle things down.The next morning, when one child after another appear, the house slowly turns into a zoo. Some parents stay around for the first 30 minutes, and I’m subsequently introduced as either “a friend from Malaysia” or indeed as Gita’s father. MMhhh that’ll raise some confusion. Later that afternoon we leave to attend a service in a kind of an Indonesian church. The people there, I must say, are indeed a truly warm and loving kind of people. The funny thing is that without any prior information, one of the church leaders who comes up to us, directly assumes I’m Gita’s father and his first remark is how remarkably her face resembles mine. My next surprise comes when the service actually starts. Everything is in Indonesian, but I can understand it very well. They speak about going about in life in honesty and sincerity, and I can see how Wiwik is so totally absorbed in the prayers and the songs, up to the point where tears roll down her face. It puzzles me enormously how she can be so devoted, while to me she is, in daily life, still so far away from the true meaning of her religion, in view of her failure to practice things such as honesty and sincerity towards the people who try to be good to her.

crispy winter day
Mood:  cool
Topic: Everyday life (weirdness)
My 1st day in The Netherlands starts with waiting for luggage. Eventually I redistribute some of my things over the bags and I walk towards the customs. After all the extensive safety procedures on boarding every plane, surprisingly now I walk straight through and there isn’t even anyone to ask for my passport.
A fellow Dutch tries to rip me off when buying a card for my handphone and the girls at the foodstall are unwilling to change some of my money into coins for use in a public payphone. Trying to save some time I pop rightaway on a train, but it’s not my lucky day. The delay costs me 1 hour extra and leads me to wait, ironically, in the city where I once used to live for 3 months only, due to the fact that I resigned my job there after 5 weeks. That move (both to and away from the city) might very well be what turned out ot be one of the core decisions leading to me leaving The Netherlands.
But I’m lucky as well; yes, winter it is and I guess the temperature must be somewhere between 5 and 10. but this is one of these days with a crispy, blue-white sky and a low-standing sun, couragously trying to lighten up the spirit of the people in the streets. It is one of those days that you are actually quite happy to go out of the house, catching those few rays of sunlight, even going for a stroll in the forest, though all the trees are bald and leafless…

However, some trees these days are very entertaining...

X-mas in Malaysia
Mood:  special
Topic: Everyday life (weirdness)
Prior to my departure to the cold Netherlands, Liza & I decided we ought to get some pics of how X-mas is celebrated in Malaysia. As could be seen from the pictures I posted last year, it's already quite obvious that this festive season is not forgotten or ignored. One of the nicest pics we took was the one of the gingerbread-woman.

Top Hat Room
Mood:  suave
Topic: Night life & other action
Last month we had the 3-yearly international O&G symposium of FIGO in KL. A chance too good to be true. I presented a poster about a Hodge pessary ending up in the abdomen and I also volunteered to be speaker coordinator, which unfortunately deprived me of the opportunity to visit some of the presentations that interested me most. I happened to meet three of my former consultants. One of them was part of the very beginning of my career in O&G in the very first hospital where I worked as a Medical Officer. Having always been on good terms with him we enjoyed our encounter and decided to have a dinner later on. Due to extreme rain all three of us battled our way through the streets that had turned into floods all over Chinatown. Since all of us had a good time, we decided to have another dinner together with Liza on the last day of the symposium.
That Friday we all gathered and headed for one of the few remaining colonial buildings in KL, the "Top Hat Room". A small, charming colonial villa, almost opposite of KLCC. We enjoyed a nice meal, after which we proceeded to the first floor. In an attic-like setting, the jazz band had already started playing for a while. It’s been another splendid night, and it’s always good to meet up with old friends and acquaintances that have inspired us in the past…