Topic: WC - Daily Practice
Wednesday 7:16pm 27Dec06
I was a little bit of lazy today and a little bit of productive. It's my last day and I'm back to work for the next coupla days. I have a date tomorrow night and since I'm still in the mode of waning interest we'll see how that pans out.
My best friend in Montreal called me yesterday and we chatted on the phone for 2.5 hours. Once we get on a roll. Some of the stuff we discussed is still running through my head. I told him about reframing in family therapy when you change the way you see a person or view a situation. It would probably really help with the men in my life. ha ha! But with my need to feel more patient and accepting of others I've been thinking about using it again. Just sitting down and taking one aggravating person at a time and trying to see him or her from a different perspective.
The other big thing we talked about was facing our fears and insecurities. I marveled at how we attract relationships that activate our fears and insecurities. I have to think about my waning interest and know that part of it is because of some not so hidden fear that I'm not admitting to. What can I say? It's time to take a second look at those men and it's really time to take a look at my fears. Write those bad boys down, tear them apart.
There's always something more to look at, in writing and in life.
EY
