My first old letter to be publ;ished here. More to come soon.
Hi Molly, I am a 25 year old cross dresser, and i was wondering How to shop for cloths. I really want to buy some nice things but I am scared that I will be caught or worse.
I have ordered things online but I hate to wait and returns are a major pain. What do you suggest? signed Scared
DearScared:
This is a common problem in the transgendered community. Many CDer's and TVs face this problem daily. My advice is to shop for cloths during the holidays. This is a time when most men are buying cloths for there wives and girl freinds.
Valintines Day is another great time to buy nice outfits and other things :). You did not mention if you are from a big city or not. If your from a large city like chicago there are many T friendly stores that will even let you try things on.
Even in some smaller cities If you have the nerve you can buy bras and panties, and otherthings. I have never been looked at or asked why I am buying things. It can be very scarrry though and I am still nervous about doing in it. If you need more help try posting on alt.transgendered or alt.support transgendered for help.
Hugs and be safe, Molly
NEW LETTER
Molly, I need help i want to tell my family that i dress in women's clothing but fear i may get rejected i also don't know of my sexual situation i'm attracted to men but i'm also attracted to women what should i do? Bless you,
Hi scarred,
Well first off your not alone and i do care :.) Telling your family is going to be hard hon. I will not lie. It is best that you tell them what you feel comfortable with first. Then build from there give them time to adjust.
You may lose family and freinds or they may accept you, thats what is hard about comming out. I do not think its something that you have to do or even should do unless yoour 100% sure its right for you. As far as your attraction goes you may be bi sexual most "gay" people are. You habve to experament and find out what makes you happy hon and go from there.
I would also check your yellow or white pages for support groups and other helpful organizations for support in this troubleing and scarry time. I know from experiance and wish I had done that. Its scarry to think and feel your all alone and these groups can help.
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