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From our guest writer this month: By Kim Whitaker If we draw our strength and knowledge off of our Core Data Base our Strong Force Data base rather than our DNA Data base we will be more relaxed and confident in our daily lives. This is the challenge getting deeper into our flesh and bones past the DNA Data Base deep into our core existence at our Atomic Self. Here at our Atomic Self is another source of Data/Knowledge to work from. Instincts of Fear and Self Preservation are built into the DNA Knowledge base where the Knowledge Base at the Strong Force Level has no Fear only Love. Here at the Core of everything in the Atomic Universe is where the most PURE Love resides and the Knowledge and the Gravity the makes the Universe we know possible. The most anyone can do to improve the quality of their life is to get deep in their flesh and bones and discover their most potent self, their most refined self. The ‘Strong Force’ the ‘ONE’ thing that makes us ‘ALL ONE WITH EVERYTHING AT THE SAME TIME’ ~ the ‘Strong Force’ the ‘COMMOMN DENOMINATOR’ of everything everywhere in the entire UNIVERSE. How can we ‘DIE” when through the ‘STRONG FORCE’ we are 'ONE WITH EVERYTHING' at the same time? If you have Fear and Anger, if you’re concerned about your longevity, you’re dwelling to much in your DNA DATA BASE. If you want relief from fear and anger, get deeper inside yourself and find the ‘CORE LOVE’ that is waiting for you in your ‘Strong Force Self.’
Dusty’s Sharing – Gift of Love By Dusty Reed Communication with family is one of my highest priorities, as I am sure it is for many. It does not always seem to show as such on the surface but when I sense the overall love our family experiences, I am grateful. I believe my husband’s and my convictions, blended, have provided this influence. This blending has developed over our nearly thirty-four years of marriage. I am an independent in many beliefs, choices and opinions. I am also dependent on my husband for many decisions. If I do have a definite belief or opinion, he seldom challenges it. If I am searching for a solution, he is willing to offer his opinion about it. Many times, he is a good listener and lets me find my preference. There are a few issues where we have not found total alignment. However, we respect one another’s rights to personal beliefs and, in these cases, we each follow our own convictions. Sometimes this becomes an opportunity in avoiding verbal disagreement. In these few areas, we remain strongly convicted to our personal beliefs. I write affirmations, speak them when applicable, journal with possible solutions, avoid complaining and gossip, listen to motivational speakers and study personal development books. These and other favorable practices continue to develop my convictions. Each of these practices strengthens my spiritual faith as well as who I am and who I desire to be. My outlook on life offers assurance of this. Through the years, I have continued to see more expansion of what has always been within. I did not know how to define it but when I see it through another’s writing or conversation, I know it is a part of my beliefs. As it is awakened, I can observe and say, “Aha, this is healthy assurance because I already believe and connect with this.” It offers a communion with the other soul who also believes this. We communicate on a deeper level of understanding. We sense the invisible but ever-present love that is guiding us. Love is an individual thing. It means different things to each person, depending on faith, memory and experience. I have experienced the true meaning of Love through experiencing it with my family. Others learn it through a traumatic experience when they discover on a one-to-one basis that God loves them. Others learn from caring souls who give with compassion. Others learn by giving. Each person has the gift of God's love within. It cannot be defined. There are not the words to do so. There is not a feeling to do so. God's love "is" and it is each person's responsibility to simply accept. Once this truth is accepted, the individual becomes more aware through acknowledgement of willingness to love God, love one's family, love one's self, and the circle goes round and round, expanding, expanding, expanding. How does this happen? Simply by asking God to let it happen and remaining open for it to do so. I think, write and speak that it happens and believe that it does. Therefore, accepted by faith, it is happening. What is an ideal family? One person's picture of an ideal family may be different from what another pictures as an ideal family. Psychologists have reported that eighty-five percent of families are dysfunctional. That is hard to believe! Each family is unique so who is to say what is dysfunctional? To get imagination and thoughts flowing, one can list a few ideas of what the perfect family would indicate. These ideas provide suggestions for what one can do, in addition, to play an important part in the family scene. This does not include harping at other family members, trying to force them into becoming the persons one thinks they should be. It does involve taking action toward bringing one's family into a more loving and communicating circle. How important is a family as a part of one's life? What percent of life receives influence from a family? Is this the influence desired within? If not, what can be done to initiate a change? What change? If one considers his family's influence as just right, what can be done to enrich the family experience even more? What experience? 1. List the members of the family and write all their good qualities as they are seen. If none come to mind, desired qualities can be written for them. I have been writing a frequent "50 words or less" note to my hubby for the past twenty years, thanking him for some of the little things he does that makes our marriage extra special. I also write one as a thank you to our son for different phases of his personality. 2. One can use these qualities when conversing with his family, praising each person, with sincerity, for a trait admired. 3. One can take special time to be alone with each person in the family for a few minutes each day, giving them undivided attention and showing a sincere interest in each one's life. 4. Another way is to write a love note to each member of the family. It is helpful to give at least a half hour to do this. 5. One can write creative ideas of ways to enrich the family experience and strengthen communication. It is important to begin putting these into action today - and this is not tomorrow. Enjoying every moment with one's family is healthy. Whether they are willing to accept these special gifts at the moment, an inheritance with a radiance of love that offers assurance is being extended. The person offering will also be the recipient of the gift of Love. Some sites I recommend: Families First-Keys to Successful Family Functioning: Communication |
