++DESIGNING A NEW GIRLFRIEND++prevention is the best cure++ ++january 28 2005++ I HAVE TO COME UNDERSTAND THAT WHEN ATTEMPTING TO MANIFEST A DESIRED STATE, IT IS BEST TO START WITH A BLANK SLATE -- OR AS BLANK A SLATE AS POSSIBLE. Blank slates lead to the clearest manifested states -- that is the theme of this experiment, which has already borne amazing fruit. It is, for example, much easier to manifest a loving new relationship into your life (with a brand new partner), than it is to improve a non-loving relationship which has been in existence for some time. Such an existing relationship has a momentum (of non-lovingness) and a density and a CERTAINTY which is very tricky to transform by magic alone. The key to this kind of magic is exploiting the Uncertainty Principle, and hence it works best when you know the least about the condition of the manifestation you are working upon. 2+++ I WAS RECENTLY OFFERED THE CHANCE TO MEET A JAPANESE GIRL LOOKING FOR A FOREIGN BOYFRIEND. We arranged to meet -- it was a classic "blind date", and I was excited by the prospect of getting some fresh action. From a Manifestation point of view, it was also a dream opportunity to experiment with my magic techniques. Since I had never met her, I had no idea what she looked like. Hence, stretching the laws of Quantum Mechanics, was in an undefined state -- her potential appearance covered every pole of possibility. Once I had met her for the first time, of course, the wave function would collapse, and her appearance range would reduce to a much smaller spectrum. So, I decided, before I meet her, it would be interesting to try to influence how she looked. I could open a stargate, and migrate to a universe in which I was due to meet a girl who looked just this particular way. That was the parameter of this "Design a Girlfriend" Manifestation Experiment. 3+++ BY CHANCE OR DEEPER DESIGN OUR DATE WAS SCHEDULED TO TAKE PLACE ON A "TAIAN" (大安) DAY, ACCORDING TO THE OLD ROKUYO JAPANESE CALENDAR. A "Taian" day is the luckiest of the old six-day Japanese calendar and it is the one that Japanese people pay big money to get married upon. I figured if it was a good day for weddings, it would also be the perfect day for a date. In fact, some of my most memorable recent dates have taken place on a Taian day. So, there is something to it, and while I am in Japan at least, I try to follow the Rokuyo system as much as possible. A few days before we were due to meet, I copied from a randomly selected blog on the Net this optimistic excerpt written by a guy about his new girlfriend (I wanted to create for myself a new girlfriend who was just like his): "My new girlfriend is so cool, she has bigger boobs than my last girlfriend, she is funny, gets on with my family, and loves me for who I am." These were all the qualities I was selecting to imprint on my newly manifest future girlfriend. This was what I was hoping to create! Actually, I didn't care about the boobs -- I am more of a leg man anyway. But anyway, I printed out the above sentence on a piece of paper, and burnt it. The wish had been issued -- now it was time for the Universe to respond!