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Guardianship - Is it for your family?

There are several reasons why a family chooses guardianship for their mentally retarded family member. Three of the most important reasons are:
  1. To protect the family member's money.
  2. To preserve the family member's health.
  3. To help the family member with decision-making.

Let's say that there is no chance that your family member, let's call him Joe, will ever have a driver's license. Some unscrupulous person (we know they're out there) convinces Joe to buy a car. Or maybe Joe's still dreaming that he can drive. With guardianship, Joe cannot make any significant purchases like a car, boat, or home, without your signature. Even if Joe signs a contract, it is worthless, the same as if your 4-year-old had signed it.


In the second case, your family member, let's call her Sue, is involved in an accident. She's hurt, but is still alive. If the hospital needs to give her a shot and she says no, the hospital cannot give her the shot, even if it is in her best interest. All of this can happen if you don't have guardianship. Additionally, without guardianship, you will find out about the accident when Sue tells you or when you read about it in the paper.


I already mentioned a situation which deals with the third case. Another possible situation is where your family member, Fred, decides he is going to buy a house and live by himself. If Fred is over 21 (18 in some states) and he has not had a guardian appointed, he can buy a house and live by himself. You can try and talk him out of it, but, unless you have guardianship, there is nothing more you can do. If you try to physically restrain him, he can call the police and have you arrested!


Fred can also stop taking all of his medicine. He can give his money to whomever he wants. Fred can do anything he wants to do, as long as it is not illegal, without guardianship.


Even though it can be costly to get guardianship, over $1000 in some states, it's well worth it. It's worth it for you and for your family member. Illinois offers sliding scale legal fees to those on limited incomes. I'm sure other states do the same. To find out who can help you, look up "attorneys" in your yellow pages.


To find out more about the different types of guardianship, check out the link to the ARC.

The ARC - Guardianship and other important information
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