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| Dear Jess and Tia
Well, there's this guy I've known since the 3rd grade, (I am now in 7th)
but I never really paid attention to him. I mean, he's popular, fine,
smart, cute, friendly... all the girls liked him. Including my best
friend. I guess that's 1 of the reasons I didn't pay much attention to
him, but another was because I was obsessed w/ HIS best friend. Until his best friend moved that is. Then a few weeks later, I felt myself getting all shy around this guy, and I knew I was starting to like him. It's just that I didn't know how to tell my best friend. Finally I did, after a long delay, and she wasn't mad at all. Except now, one of our close friends, whose very outgoing and not shy like my best friend and I always hangs out w/ the guy my bud and I are obsessing over. There's rumors that this guy likes me, but he never talks to me, and when I make an attempt, he doesn't seem interested. Instead he's always hanging out with the girl that's very outgoing. Everywhere I go, they're always together. With other people, but still TOGETHER. I'm beginning to feel confused... who does he like? What should I do? ~Obsessed |
| Tia Says Obsessed I can't tell you who this guy likes but I will give you some insight on guys! If the guy you liked wanted your outgoing friend they would be together already. Think about it if they get along so great why wouldn' they be going out. The reason he may not talk to you when you approach may be that he is shy It may be easy for him to talk to your outgoing friend because she means nothing to him! Remember guys are shy too. So give him the benefit of the doubt if he's worth it you'll know. Tee ;) | Jessica Says Obsess Okay, Persistence is key! Maybe it's hard for him to talk to you cause he likes you too. Try talking to him and getting to know him better. It seems to me that you've never really had a conversation with him From experiance I can tell you that sometimes when you talk to a guy that you like he can be really stupid and you stop liking him. Jessica ^0^ |
| Dear Jess and Tia
okay, there is this guy in my auto class who is two years older than me. he is really hot, and nice, and funny. it doesn't seem like there is anything wrong with him, but then i found out that he smokes, cigarettes and weed, and drinks. he's been gone the past week because he was caught with weed at school and suspended. on top of that, he doesn't have any common sense or intelligence at all. he is the total opposite of me. i don't drink or smoke, and i get good grades in school. my friends don't really like him either, but i can't stop thinking about him!? what should i do? ~Wrong kid of Girl |
| Tia Says Wrong Kind of Girl I will be completely honest with you! The guy is not worth your time of affection. Even though it's true that opposites attract he is wrong for you. Maybe the reason you like him is cause he seems dangerous and exciting. Examine your feelings closely. I mean have you ever spoken to the guy or is it his air of mystery that attracts you! If I were you I'd try to figure that out. Because let me tell you that a leopard doesn't change his spots. Tee ;) | Jessica Says Wrong Girl Lets be real here. I know a lot of people who smoked or have smoked in high school. The problem is realizing if he is an addict or if he is just a teenager. First off when you see him does he seem dazed and disoriented. Does he always look sleepy. Is he always drinking. On Monday does he come to school looking like death warmed over. If you answered yes to all these questions than he is a druggie and steer clear of him. If you answered no he may just do it to fit in. Some people smoke weed and don't inhale just to fit in. Drinking and Smoking is the same deal High School is a nightmare he may not have a prob at all. Either way his problem is not yours the guy and you don't share any interests. Think about it what would you and he talk about? If you can't answer that question than maybe you should find someone else Jessica ^0^ |
| Dear Jess and Tia
My whole entire story is that during All Reigon
Orchestra I talked to this one girl and guy that I
knew. They both found out who I like, and I don't want
them to tell. They keep teasing me and blackmailing,
and I think the girl told one of the other violinsts I
know. Two of them know who he is. I am not the type to
tell the person who I like, and I am afraid . What canI do? Also, the guy wants the girl's number now. Through me because I go to karate with him, and orchestra with her. I don't like being the middle person at all. Arrrgh! ~Confused Over The Top |
| Tia Says Confused Over The Top Stand up to them! Tell them that you don't care who they tell that you will deny it. Or fight fire with fire. Find the person in school who is the biggest gossip and tell her or make sure she finds out this. Tell her that the guy(we'll call him Matt) who is bothering you has a crush on you and that he won't leave you alone than tell her that the girl who is bothering you likes Matt and that she is bullying you. Than no matter what either of them say no one will believe them! Tee ;) | Jessica Says Confused If I were you I'd just deny that I liked the guy anymore. If they think you don't like him than they can't bother you about it! Jessica ^0^ |