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| Dear Jess and Tia
I am really confused. I like 2 guys... The first guy is really cute outgoing
and always flirts and dances with me at dances. Matter
of fact while we were dancing one time and in the middle of us dancing he had to
wipe something off of his face (he had camo oil on it for a halloween party)
well I thought we had quit dancing so I was walked away well while I was turning
around he pulled me back and we started dancing again.. Does this mean he likes
me or that he just likes to dance with me. Cause at the beginning of the year I
asked him out and he said no.
On guy #2. Well I don't know him really. He was invited to my friends b-day party and I saw him there.. Well I thought he was really cute so I told my friend (it was her party and he lives right by her). She asked him if he knew me and he described me to see if that was who she was talking about. She said yes then asked him if he thought I looked good. He said yeah she does. Real good. Well ever since then I have had a strong attraction to him. But the thing is. I really wish I knew why I have these feelings. Could you please tell me your theory!thanks a bunch. ~Two Guys |
| Tia Says Two Guys Here's what I see... Guy number one has a definite thing for you. If he didn't care for you than he would have just found someone else to dance with. Maybe in the beginning of the year he didn't fell anything for you but now he does. Maybe you should hint around that you are interested in him. Guy 2. I have a question for you. Do you just like him for his looks? Is the answer is yes than I have to say go for guy 1. Guy 2 doesn't even know you so all he's interested in is your looks. Which is good for a start but. . . When faced with the option wouldn't you rather have someone like you for your mind? Tee ;) | Jessica Says WOW That prob sounds familar. Here's what I think you should do. Okay Close your eyes and imagine who you would rather be with. Like as a couple. Follow your heart you know who you want. Guy #1 is defintely showing an interest and you were interested in him before so the question is are you still interested. If you are than go for #1 but if when you close your eyes you see #2 than forget about #1 after all your only young once! Jessica ^0^ |
| Dear Jess and Tia
Hi Jess and Tia,this is my problem:
My so-called "Best Friend" was being mean to me for no reason. She would yell at
me in the halls, making her seem like a drama queen, would put evil notes in my
locker vents, and would pull tricks on me so I would miss basketball practice
(Sounds alot like Melissa, huh?). The gossip mill went around and now it is that her boyfriend broke up with her because he likes me. A week ago Her boyfriend asked me out and I suddenly had feeling for him, so I said yes. When she found out she started to be nice to me again. Then she finaly told me what she wants. She wants me to break up with him. Saying that it is too weird being friends with him and her. I was confused so I told him about it. He went ballistic telling me not to listen to her and stuff. My best friend is now telling everyone to call me "Evil". Just 'cause I won't listen to her. What do I do? I was just at the top of the popularity level and now she is pulling me back down! Please help me Tia and Jess!thanks ~Evil Friend |
| Tia Says Evil Friend. First off she is not your friend. It is not your fault that the guy likes you. If she tried to get you to break up with him tahn she is the one with problems not you! I understand why your guy got angry he probably thought you would listen to her. . . If you like this guy just be happy with him. I know it sounds stupid but your real friends will stand by you no matter what!! Tee ;) | Jessica Says Evil Friend, If you like this guy I wouldn't worry about your friend. Everyone will know that she is just being jealous of you. If what you feel for this guy is true I say go for it. Who cares what anyone says! Think of it this way At least you know now who your real friends are! Jessica ^0^ |
| Dear Tia and Jess,
I really like this guy but my mom hate him! she hates him because he's the kin
of guy that walks around town at night, smokes and gets in fights! My best
friend is totally obsessed with him and if i tell her i like him she and my mom
will freak! When he's around me he is so sincere (if thats how you spell it)and
every time i see him I like him more!
I really think he likes me too! I don't know how I can tell I just have that felling. we've been best friends scince 4th grade (i'm in 6th right now) and I'm totally obsessing over him! **mIxEd Up** |
| Tia Says mIxEd Up First off, At your age a lot of major crush will feel like love and right now your mom basically controls your world. If you really feel something special for this guy try to make your mom understand that this guy is his own person. It is not his fault what anyone else does. If your ma still doesn't get it than just keep on trying. Don't give up easily if you think what you have with this guy is real. Tee ;) | Jessica Says Mixed If you really like this guy you can still be friends with him. I think if he hasn't asked you out or anything there really isn't a problem right now. For now be friends maybe later something else will happen but why rush it. You have a lot of time left! I MEAN A LOT! Jessica ^0^ |