Labels are for cans not people

"The discovery is, of course, that man and woman
are fictions, caricatures, cultural constructs.
As models they are reductive, totalitarian, inappropriate to human becoming.
As roles they are static, demeaning to the female.
Dead-ended for male and female both. 

We are, clearly, a multi-sexed species which has its sexuality spread along a vast fluid continuum where the elements called male and female are not discrete...

Sex as the power dynamic between men and women, its primary form sadomasochism, is what we now know.

Sex as community between humans, our shared humanity, is the world we must build..."

(Andrea Dworkin)