As stated by Webster's dictionary, a woman is an adult female person. This adult female person has certain needs and is often referred to as the beginning of human life. In the eyes of a sexist male, a woman is nothing more than a nice pair of breasts or a lovely round backside. Rather than tip my hat to those sexist males, I would rather give them a few blows to the body and a swift uppercut to get the blood flowing to the proper extremities. Underneath those breasts and that lovely backside there is a mind, spirit, and soul that needs to be loved, nurtured and cared for. For those of you who truly respect a woman and know how much she means to this society. I give you these few simple techniques on how to treat that special lady.
1) Flowers - Flowers can prove to be a valuable asset in a relationship or marriage. I know you send her flowers on every anniversary, birthday, and not to mention Valentine's Day. Why not try sending her flowers, "just because". There doesn't have to be any special occasion or special day. Nine times out of ten, she's not gonna ask you why you sent her flowers. She'll just flash that beautiful smile in your face,give you a big hug and say "thank you" (you might even get a little sumpin' sumpin', if ya know what i mean). For those of you who don't know exactly how to apply this technique, here are a few suggestions to get you started. The rose is a very traditional flower and is very popular among couples these days. Your pockets may become a bit dry when ordering by the dozens, so beware. Just one rose can say so much. Or instead of giving her a dozen roses all at once, why not try giving her a rose a day for twelve days. For those of you on a tight budget, the carnation is another popular flower and can say just as much as the rose, but for a little less money. Speaking of tight budgets, the next tip may prove to be the most inexpensive way of showing her how much you care.
2) Words & Actions - Whether written or expressed verbally, words can play crucial part in a relationship. Sometimes we tend to get ahead of ourselves when speaking to a woman. We almost never think about what we're gonna say before we say it. We need to choose our words carefully and place all verbs in their correct position. To make matters worse some of us don't know how to control our tone of voice or our hands when speaking to a woman. NEVER EVER EVER NEVER HIT A WOMAN!!!!!!!!! You will regret it someday, somehow. She will get her uncle Tiny that just got done serving time for manslaughter and they will hunt you down. Seriously, if you truly care about that female companion and would like to know how to overcome these obstacles, just try a few of these techniques. Saying "I love you" is not a crime, so don't be afraid to tell her how you feel. Several times a day would be sufficient so don't get carried away. She may begin to think that you're up to no good or that you're beggin' for that "sumpin' sumpin'" that I made reference to earlier. Or how about going to her place of employment and leaving a rose on her windshield. Or why not try putting some Hershey's kisses in the cereal box. There are many of you that know exactly what you want to say but have problems expressing yourself verbally. My only advice to you is to gather those thoughts and put them down on paper. I'm not asking you to write a best selling novel, just a brief memo that says you care. If you really want to get creative, why not try writing her a poem. Poetry is the key to a woman's heart. If you don't love your Black woman, somebody else will.
If any of these techniques has proven to be succesful, there is no need to thank me. It's all in a day's work. I am on a mission to put an end to that silly myth "A GOOD MAN IS HARD TO FIND". If we men would only give our Black women the respect they deserve, finding a good man would be a much easier task.
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West Indian Prints Inc.