How Life Goes … for a guy. Humans are gregarious, and being that social interactions are so important, a lot of growing up involves figuring out how to get along. By about the age of 12 the concern about what other people think, etc., intensifies. Thoughts about who we are, and how we fit in with others causes us to seek out a role to play. At about… 14: We have selected a path which is either athletic, academic, or delinquent. 15: Concerns about sexuality increase, and we have to get a girl because we want a girl, and also we want to prove we're not gay. Or otherwise, but sexuality now plays a more important part in our efforts for social acceptance. Aside from a girl, we really want a car. 17: We think we know what girls are, and know how to drive, and act like we know everything. We want to lift weights are something, and get big. 18: If we are lucky we realize real soon that we don't know everything, because suddenly the world has changed on us dramatically as we enter the world of being an adult. 20: We still might not have figured it out yet, and haven't made much progress with adult responsibilities, but we really think we got it down with the girls, and are good drivers. We might be in, or trying to get in, solid relationships, or even marriage. 23: Our auto insurance rates are still high, because young people are hazardous drivers, but we won't admit it. We are divorced already, or had relationships fall apart, but may still believe that we can dominate women. We may be aware of women plotting, or making sudden switches on us, but we are a long way from realizing how dangerous they can be. We might still have fantasies about loyalty, and want a girl to be our ‘mama’, but don't understand it will never happen; except temporarily. Nature lured us to women, but women like their babies the most, and nature also gave women a mind that can trick us completely. Men can appear dominant, but the women will still be in control. If we haven't surrendered, the women may take their babies somewhere else; that is, if we are unfortunate enough to have caused of baby to come about. We will be a slave to the baby, at the clever direction of the mother, or we will soon find out the horrors of child-support. 26:< We may start to notice the texture of our skin changing, and the muscles that we thought we were going to build turning to flab. We realize we’re getting older, but it's not all that bad yet. We may wish that we had gone to school longer, and carried a bunch of condoms, and not tried to get into lasting relationships. We may decide at the last minute to choose a direction in life that we should have pursued much earlier. Of course some of us by now, who did not get caught up in romance, are becoming doctors and lawyers. And others have established dysfunctional families, and might as well be convinced that they enjoy it, despite continuous conflict, because they'll never get out from under the burden. These are extremes, and everyone is different, but it’s all still very predictable. 35: Reality starts to set in, and you realize how much you don't know, and how much you blew it; unless you're one of the few people than does things right, and keeps out of trouble, stays in school, and doesn't let romance get the best of him. This may be the beginning of the period where you really try to get the car that you wish you had when you were a teenager; and dream about the girl you wish you had a got instead. Maybe your dick doesn't get as hard as it used to, but that's OK, because money was secretly always more important to women anyway; and it still gets hard enough. If you don't have money, you might think about that more seriously, and you will evaluate the mistakes you made, because you realize that you have entered another stage of life, and you're not only adult now, you're getting older. 45: They say life begins at 40, but by now half of men really need Viagra, and nobody ever told you your eyesight would fail either. You know you're getting older now, and you might not like it at all. Life better have began at 40, because you want to do things, and you clearly can't do things like you used to anymore. At least you really have knowledge now, but out of habit you may still be doing things wrong. You did the wrong kind of exercise. You ate the wrong kind of food. You hooked up with the wrong kind of women. You spent too much time doing others things that were wrong. And now you're old enough that it's harder than ever to change.
You notice people that are a little bit older, and they can hardly walk, or in some other way they are in real bad shape. Or you'll see people that are broke and lonely; and if younger people only knew, but it's pointless to tell them, because they know everything, or would dare to argue. But they'll find out; if you don't suffer when you're young, and avoid some of the things that you think you want; then you will really suffer when you're older. Youth is the time to learn; and the time to set goals, but unfortunately most people don't know how to do that anymore, or they get distracted too easy. WHAT PEOPLE WHO "DO IT" DO. A guy walks down the street, and falls into a hole. It takes a long time to get out. The guy walks down the same street, and tries to ignore the hole; but falls in. It takes a long time to get out. The guy walks down the street again; knows the hole is there, but falls in it anyway out of habit. He might have blamed something else before, but now he knows it's his own fault. The guy walks down the street, and this time when it comes to the hole he goes around it. The next time the guy walks down the street; he takes a different street.
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WHAT'S UP WITH POOR PEOPLE?
The problem with poor people is that they have no real business, and spend too much time getting into each others business. As a result they get conditioned to be concerned about what other people think (What other poor people think), and that keeps them stuck.
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