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(From The Interpreter : Copyright 1997, United Methodist Communications Inc. Vol. 42, No. 3.)



Have Mercy!

The older I get the more I get like that "church lady" on the old Saturday Night Live sketch. I'm there when the doors open, teach Sunday school, bring a dish for every potluck, sing in the choir, and I give the sweetest, most Christian-sounding but truly uncharitable tongue lashings you ever heard when someone or something offends my settled notions of what's appropriate for church.

Let a child crack chewing gum and my head snaps around, my eyes radiating waves of disapproval. Let a teen's skirt be too short and I have to fight back a sigh. A man wearing a hat indoors is enough to send me into fits. And people who don't believe as I believe? Well, try as I might, I'm prone toward the same love-it-or-leave-it self-righteousness about my church that I find so offensive in socio-economic and political arenas.

Congregations that grow, though, are those where the people never forget that grace alone has brought them this far. Where "church ladies" - and gentlemen - are reminded that it is God's boundless love - and not their award-winning tuna casseroles - that sustains the community of faith. Where a crying baby gets a smile, not a frown, where people are not shut out because of race, class, sexual orientation or clothing, but embraced. Where the folks remember that the Christian church is not any power group's own fiefdom. It is simply a place where guilty ones celebrate with other guilty ones the only One who can wash all our guilt away. Where we never forget the joy of shouting "Lord, have mercy on me!" and having God answer tenderly and earnestly.

Growing churches are those places where all God's children have a seat at the welcome table.

Take risks!

M. Garlinda Burton, Editor, INTERPRETER


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