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If there is one thing I cannot stand about people's girlfriends, it is how annoying they can get. My friend's (and housemate) girlfriend had been ringing the our house's landline like few times a day, EVERYDAY until recently when they made up. From what I saw, my friend was avoiding his girlfriend. I do not know why, it is really none of my business. Yesterday, all of a sudden she was knocking on my door. I do not know how on earth she got in the house hence I did not expect to open my room door to see her. She straight out asked me if I saw my friend that entire day or if he came home. All I said was I was in _my_ own room the entire day and would not have known if he was around. I really felt like telling her off. These series of events were not the only annoying thing she has ever done. She is very loud in most things she does. I can often hear her making whiny noises like a spoilt little girl would make when she wanted something she could not have. She also walks around the apartment dragging her feet and stomping on stairs, which is pretty much audible from the whole apartment even with my door closed. She also likes to close doors rather hard. She is a girl. I assume that girls would be gentler and more graceful in things that they do. About the walking heavily on stairs, I'll be honest. She's not slim, however I would think I am way fatter and/or heavier than her but yet I still manage to walk around the house and on the stairs rather silently.
Guys, make sure the girl you go after are mature to a certain level. You might think that a girl acting all cute and immature might be enjoyable at the courting stage but believe me, its there to stay and you will be stuck with it.
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Speaking of girl issues, a person from the past emerged again. She was somebody I did not really like for many level of reasons. She messaged me stating that it has been a long while since we communicated. I retorted by wondering why. She then suggested that we put our past behind us. I replied with 'ok'. That is exactly what I did.
I do not know if I can be labelled as a bitter person. The thing is, these people that I do not like to associate with, have this impression that I am angry with them like I hold a grudge or a spiteful feeling towards them. In truth I just do not want to know them or be known to deal with them not because I am angry/grudging/spiteful. It is because I just do not see any point interacting with these people that are of no significance to me. It is just like when a guy goes into a lavatory. He sees one guy at one end of a row of urinals. So he goes to the opposite far end of that row of urinals. He does not do it because he hates the guy who is already there. He does it because it is only natural that we would appreciate our own space.
You know what I hate though? People who want to make amends with me when I sense there are ulterior motives behind it. The motive I really hate the most is so that person can have less enemies. Less people that do not hate them. They will come up to me and go like "hey, lets forget what happened between us". Oh but I have, in fact I did better! I had forgotten all about you! Until you showed up. You know what is worse than that? People who want you to not hate them, so they can feel better about themselves especially if they use religion as their excuse. They want you to forgive them, in hopes their god would be pleased with them. Now I am not saying that it is a bad thing. However they way they ask is like asking people to sign autographs on their book, the more they autographs they get, the more popular they will be. They do not really care or give any thoughts to the people who sign it. All they know is the more they get, the more they will look impressive. This is exactly how those people that try to make amends with people that hate them are to me. They do not really care about what they did to me, nor what I feel. They just want me to forgive them and not hate them so they can feel holier about themselves.
If any of you reading this are like what I wrote, do yourself a favor and not consider me your 'friend' anymore. I take the meaning of a friend very seriously. If you say you have many friends, like friends whom some people have tens of thousands in places like friendster.com, I would like to see if those people actually be there for you when you are in deep trouble.