Outline of Sermon Shared at Bangsar Lutheran Church on 25th May 2003

(A very sweet and cheerful place of worship indeed, I wish only that I'd replace my 'office attire' with a t-shirt!)

John 15:9-17,

"Just as the Father has loved me, I have also loved you; remain in my love.  If you obey my commandments, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commandments and remain in his love.  I have told you these things so that my joy may be in you, and your joy may be complete. 

"My commandment is this - to love one another just as I have loved you. No one has greater love than this - that one lays down his life for his friends. 

"You are my friends if you do what I command you. I no longer call you slaves, because the slave does not understand what his master is doing. But I have called you friends, because I have revealed to you everything I heard from my Father. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit, fruit that remains,so that whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you. This I command you-to love one another.” 

v      Passage not just about loving each other, but the greatest way of doing so.

v      Love defined in and through action:

·         our statements about our beliefs really refer to our expressions/manifestations of said beliefs, when we say that “Sivin believes that his exam will be difficult”, we derive meaning from this by observing him, the amount of time he’s spending on his studies, his worrisome features, etc.  When we say that “Richard likes so-and-so”, again we infer this from his actions, his words, his shyness, his anxiety, etc.

·         Is there some metaphysical ‘entity’ or some spiritual ‘substance’ called love?  Can we ‘refer’ metaphysically to love the way we can regarding angels and demons?  There may or may not be – I don’t think the Bible needs to assume that there is!  What’s important is that the Bible doesn’t give any meaning to love in the abstract.

v      Jesus is the exemplar of self-giving, of the ‘laying down of one’s life; from Jesus’ ultimate Act of Surrender, we learn :

·         the meaning of love in its most powerful forms and dimensions

·         the practice of love in its most Supreme manner, by He Who embodied love

 

Our purpose now:

Understanding more about loving each other by way of examining the laying down of one’s life (particularly our Lord’s), and WHY this way is the ‘greatest love of all’.  WHY is self-giving the greatest kind of love?  Why is love the greatest when expressed in the laying down of one’s life?

1.       Laying down one’s life is the most courageous kind of love

·         I think it takes guts to love.  It takes guts to center ourselves on persons other than ourselves, to dispense with our pride and resources for the sake of others.  This is why it’s true that loving comes with maturity, it’s powerful, it’s strong. 

·         Love inspires courage, it spurs us to do what initially seems frightening, unfamiliar – the Incarnation?  Putting yourself in another person’s situation in all its complexity, vulnerability, uncertainty, in all its pain.  Gethsemane proves it wasn’t easy!

·         Jesus is God courageously defined in relation to us, our situation, our problems

·         Jesus laid aside His ‘equality with God’, Phil 2:6-7

 

2.       Laying down one’s life is the most costly kind of love

·         when we give our lives, we are not only giving something which belongs to us, we are also giving up our very capacity to give(!); after you’ve sacrificed yourself, you can’t give anything more…

·         the only thing worst than not giving our best, to give that which means nothing to us (R.Zacharias)

·         there is helplessness, even humiliation.  We can probably add to Paul’s statement, “Very rarely will a man die gloriously for another.  But God demonstrated His love for us by dying shamefully on the cross.” (Rom 5:7). 

·         The Cross was an intra-Trinitarian tragedy; on Golgotha, the Trinity of perfect love and communion was torn, ruptured with eternal consequences.

 

3.       Laying down one’s life is the most competent kind of love

·         It is the most effective, the most restorative kind – nothing heals a tense relationship better than self-giving

·         nothing REVERSE the cycle of evil better than sacrificial action; imagine your enemy suddenly giving up his rights/possessions for you, how can evil and hatred breathe in such a context?! 

·         Relationship theory of atonement compared to legal theory : God was RECONCILING the world to Him through Jesus Christ.  Did Jesus die to change God’s attitude towards us, or to change the OUR attitude towards God?!

·         The Cross defies our understanding this side of eternity; Scripture uses many metaphors top capture the aspects of atonement, but the full dynamic process will be in principle hidden from us until we see God ‘face to face’ (now we see but a poor reflection mirror).  Now we can barely understand the MORAL universe (a’la Job!), we can hardly understand the problem of evil – are we saying we understand perfectly the SOLUTION to evil?!

·         Question traditional ‘penal substitution’ theory of atonement via a transfer of penalty.

·         Jesus’ sacrifice did not put love into God’s heart where previously there was none

·         Jesus’ sacrifice was not the punishing of the Son by the Father who had to otherwise punish humanity!  “Oh I have to condemn somebody, it’s either you or Jesus.  Because I love you, I will take it out on Jesus!”??!!

·         Platoon analogy, the idea of Rescue (not unlike the Exodus)

 

4.       Laying down one’s life is the most credible kind of love

·         it’s a sad fact that criticism of others come very easily for us, doesn’t it?  The contents of your criticism could be valid but the act of it could have zero credibility.  God, I believe, is more concerned about you loving your fellow-person than telling him off. 

·         The Cross wasn’t only a victory over evil, it was a victory of love. 

·         How many of you believe that God experiences change??

·         And this love gives God the moral credibility to deal with our sin; AFTER the Cross God was more qualified than ever before to transform sinners. 

·         The Cross changed God, giving Him a kind of authority

·         Hebrews 5:8-9, “…Jesus learnt obedience from what He suffered and, once made PERFECT, became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey Him.”

  

5.       Laying down one’s life is the most conclusive kind of love

·         Giving one’s self constitutes the most certain, the most indisputable demonstration of love there is

·         you can’t say, “You don’t love me, Lord!”  I don’t think people who refuse the lordship of Jesus Christ have ever truly understood His actions and why He did them.  The fact that many people can make fun at the crucifixion of Christ proves to me that they don’t realise what He’s done; see what happened to the Centurion. 

·         Would you ever ever laugh in mockery at your friend if he put himself on the line for you?

·         “For God SO LOVED the world that He gave His Only Son that whosoever believe in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

 


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