Greenwood
veterinarian makes
unusual delivery: friends baby
July 13, 2006
By
JOANIE BAKER
Index-Journal staff writer
Shes delivered foals in a barn and puppies in an office.
But, this month, Kimberli Yonce-Timmerman made a delivery in her
friends bathroom that she never expected to make in her
veterinary career.
Somewhere between the sink and the bathtub, Yonce-Timmerman, of
Greenwood, handed friend Joanna Eubanks a 6-pound, 14-ounce
bundle that, after several seconds, did not bark or meow. Aidan
Eubanks cried.
We were really good friends before, but now were
really good friends, Joanna said of her sons
unexpected delivery.
A little early 6 p.m., July 3
Aidan was due July 12. So after a day of swimming with
Yonce-Timmerman, Joanna didnt think anything of some lower
back pain. After all, she had been carrying 15-month-old son
Jacob around all day, and, at nine months pregnant, that can be
difficult, even for a runner such as Joanna. But the mother said
the pain didnt stay in her back for long.
Its not time ... it is time 10 p.m.
Five minutes. Two minutes. Seven minutes. The contractions that
Joanna started having were so irregular and light that she
decided to lie down and rest. Her husband, Sam, called
Yonce-Timmerman to make sure his wife was OK. But after sitting
with Joanna for a while, the doctor decided the contractions were
just Braxton Hicks, the same pre-term contractions she
experienced for some time before delivering her own daughter,
Paige, only five months ago.
As soon as Yonce-Timmerman returned to her house, the phone rang.
The vet said she usually would think Sam, a kidder, wasnt
serious. But, this time when he asked her to come back, she knew
better.
I could just tell in his voice and I could hear Joanna
screaming in the background, said Yonce-Timmerman, who said
she can only remember quickly finding her shoes and, the next
thing she knew, she was back at the Eubankses home.
No sooner did I hang up the phone did Joanna say shed
had a contraction, Sam said.
Sam called 911 and was asked by the operator how far along his
wifes pregnancy was.
I said, Dont you think thats irrelevant;
hes coming out on our bathroom floor? he
recalled.
Changing roles 10:50 p.m.
While Jacob slept soundly in his bed, his mother screamed as his
new baby began to crown.
Pushing all her worries to the back of her mind, Yonce-Timmerman
quickly went from friend to doctor.
When something like that happens, I do what needs to be
done and dont think about it until afterwards, she
said. In my mind, I switched over to that emergency zone.
Ten minutes and one push later, Aidan, whose name means fiery,
was born on the bathroom floor.
Emergency Medical Service workers arrived and helped cut the
umbilical cord before taking Joanna and her new son to the
hospital.
Despite Yonce-Timmermans fears of Joanna bleeding and the
baby not being all right, Joanna said she hopes her next birth
goes the same way.
I wouldnt have it any other way, Joanna said.
It was fast and it was over with.
Sam still has a difficult time convincing people of his sons
unusual entry into the world.
But once people are convinced of Aidans arrival, Sam said
they only shake their heads.
They think its pretty par for the course because we
live pretty wild anyway, he said.
Area churches not likely to face gay clergy issue
July 13, 2006
By
BOBBY HARRELL
Index-Journal staff writer
For many mainline Christian leaders in the area, the prospect of
a gay clergy man or woman standing in the pulpit on Sunday is a
non-issue.
Decisions within the Presbyterian (U.S.A.) and Episcopal churches
making gay clergy more acceptable have stirred discussion among
people within different Christian denominations.
Ripples are evident from decisions made in June at the PCUSAs
General Assembly and the Episcopal National Convention.
PCUSA became more lenient toward gay clergy, in that decisions to
accept and ordain gay ministers could be left up to individual
churches and their presbyteries. The Episcopal church has had a
gay bishop since 2003.
Many issues, including gay clergy, are dividing mainstream
Protestantism in the United States, said Richard E. Burnett,
associate professor of systematic theology at Erskine Theological
Seminary.
Protestants are finding that they have more in common with
each other in other denominations than with people in their own
denomination, Burnett said.
The division in mainline Protestantism will continue to widen as
the years progress, he said.
Burnett, a PCUSA member, thinks the recent decisions regarding
gay clergy during the Presbyterian General Assembly undermined
the churchs constitution. While the church did not change
its constitution to allow gay clergy, it left the option open for
local churches to make their own decisions about the issue.
A dozen churches in the Abbeville Cluster discussed
the changes Tuesday night at the Abbeville Presbyterian Church,
Burnett said. Many people are upset about the changes in the
PCUSA church.
Burnett teaches many pastors who say members of their
congregations are moving to other churches because of the
Presbyterian churchs decision.
Several PCUSA churches have slipped away in the past few years,
said the Rev. Calvin Draffin, pastor of Due West Associated
Reformed Presbyterian Church.
PCUSA has been losing churches for the past 10-15 years. Some
have gone to the ARP church, Draffin said. ARP guidelines are
clear when it comes to homosexuality: its a sin, Draffin
said.
The Rev. Barrett Alewine, of St. Mark United Methodist Church in
Greenwood, wants to leave the issue of homosexuality up to the
different denominations to decide.
Not all United Methodists are of one mind, Alewine
said.
The Rev. Jeff Lethco, pastor of North Side Baptist Church in
Greenwood, thinks the homosexual lifestyle isnt in keeping
with Gods best intentions for mankind.
Its not what is best for anybody, he said.
The church has the responsibility to love all people, but it
needs to become what God wants it to become, Lethco said. Those
who pursue an active homosexual lifestyle shouldnt be
qualified to preside over a congregation, he said.
The Rev. Dave Thompson, of Eastside Baptist Church in Greenwood,
refers to the Bible to answer the question of gay clergy in his
church. The Book of Timothy says that for the office of bishop,
the person would have to be the husband of one wife.
I believe we should all hold to what the Bible says,
Thompson said.
The Rev. Alice Ridgell is campus pastor at the Thornwell Home for
Children and pastor at the Hartness-Thornwell Presbyterian Church
in Clinton. She is deeply saddened by the acceptance of gay
clergy in the Presbyterian church. She thinks there are issues
just as important as gay clergy that havent been addressed
properly, such as social injustice, racial inequality and feeding
the hungry.
PCUSA members have been debating homosexuality for 25 years,
Burnett said.
This isnt going to go away, he said.
Opinion
Americas
goodness gives nation strength to last
July 13, 2006
The
words were spoken more than a century and a half ago, still they
are as appropriate today as they were then, maybe even more so.
When Dr. George Wilson spoke them again in a recent sermon at
Greenwoods First Presbyterian Church, they rang loud and
clear to a nation in flux.
They were included in a comprehensive analysis of America and its
people as seen by Alexis de Tocqueville, a French historian and
political philosopher. He spent time in 1831-32 studying
political and social institutions in the United States and became
famous for his book, Democracy in America.
HE HAD MANY OBSERVATIONS and predictions about
America. These words, though, fit the times better than others.
America is great, he said, because it is good.
When it ceases to be good, it will cease to be great.
Was this man prophetic? Is the goodness of America
being eroded by a variety of pressures on morality and religion?
Is it devouring itself from within?
Maybe! Maybe not! One things for sure. There is enough
evidence to give thinking people pause for a serious
retrospective look at changing values and the effects on the
good that de Tocqueville noted and Dr. Wilson
reiterated.
Obituaries
Clara Powell Grimes
CALHOUN
FALLS Mrs. Clara Powell Grimes, 94, widow of Col.
John L. Grimes, died July 11, 2006 at McCormick Health Care.
Born in Abbeville County, Mrs. Grimes was the daughter of the
late James William Powell and Lucinda Bowick Powell. She was a
longtime member of Northside Baptist Church in Calhoun Falls, and
also the American Legion Auxiliary and the Order of the Eastern
Star.
Survivors include 2 sons: Billy Ray Shaw and spouse Dean of
Tegacay, SC and Tolly M. Shaw and spouse Willie of Calhoun Falls;
5 grand-children; 12 great grand-children; 3 great great
grandchildren; and brother Herman Powell of Calhoun Falls.
Funeral services will be held on Friday, July 14 at 1:00 PM at
Northside Baptist Church in Calhoun Falls. Interment will follow
at Forest Lawn Memory Gardens in Abbeville. The family will
receive friends on Thursday, July 13 from 6-8 PM at Calhoun Falls
Funeral Home.
Calhoun Falls Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements for Clara
Powell Grimes.
PAID OBITUARY
Terry Tinsley
HODGES
James Terrell Terry Tinsley, 40, of
5626 Highway 178 N., died Wednesday, July 12, 2006 at the Hospice
House.
Born in Greenwood, he was a son of Ann Horne Havird and the late
Eldred S. Sonny Tinsley III. He was a graduate of
Greenwood High School and was formerly employed with J.C. Penney
in Augusta. He was a member of Harris Baptist Church.
Survivors include his mother of Hodges; two brothers, Chip
Tinsley and Tony Sleister, both of Hodges; a stepbrother, Jeff
Havird of Hodges.
A memorial service is 4 p.m. Friday at Harley Funeral Home,
officiated by the Rev. Jeff Lethco. Visitation is 2:30-4 Friday
at the funeral home.
The family is at the home of his mother, 5624 Highway 178 N.
Memorials may be made to HospiceCare of the Piedmont, 408 W.
Alexander Ave., Greenwood, SC 29646.
Harley Funeral Home is in charge.
Online condolences may be sent to the family at www.harleyfuneralhome.com
CORRECTION
For the obituary of Jimmy Davis, published June 27, there was an error in the information given to The Index-Journal. Memorials to the American Diabetes Association should be sent to 16-A Brozzini Court, Greenville, SC 29615.