I will begin with the personality I despise the most, me for them. I am me for them more than I am anyone else. Whenever I am at school, work, or around any group of people who's admiration I want, I am me for them. This me bases his actions on what he thinks will be acceptable, funny, normal, and "cool." I hate this me with a passion, but for some reason I can not vanquish him from my mind. The only bit of comfort I find in my being me for them is that I believe every person on Earth has a "me for them" somewhere inside him/her. A person develops this personality based on what they percieve as cool or admirable. Some even base their me for them on not being a me for them, meaning that they think it is an admirable trait to be an individual, they trick themselves into thinking that they are their own person, when in fact this in itself makes them a "me for them."
My second, and not so hated personality, is me for me. I am me for me when I am by myself, and very rarely I am me for me around my family or close friends. Me for me is the one writing this paper right now. He sees how pathetic and trivial the everyday social life of every individual on Earth is. He is disgusted with most of those around him and even himself, it is very hard to earn his respect because he examines every aspect of one's personality. The easiest way to earn his respect is by being "me for me" at all times. Once again I believe that all of us possess "me for me," but few people have the guts to actually be me for me in public. I would earn my own respect if I was me for me more often, but "me for them" won't let it out of its solitary confinement in my mind while my body is in the scrutiny of the public eye.
I have saved my best personality for last, me for her. I am me for her only in my mind, as of yet. It is the person I would like to be at all times. This personality is a very noble individual who lives his life to fulfill her every need. He places her wants and needs above those of everyone else, including those of himself. When I am him, I don't care what anyone thinks of me except her. I feel everyone has this personality at sometime in their life, at least I hope so, because I can not imagine a better feeling than that of which you feel when you know that you have made the one you love happy. My yearning to be me for her is squelched everyday by me for them and in turn buries it even further into my heart.. Unlike the other two me's, this one resides in my heart, not my mind because I don't think that my mind has the capacity to withold it.
These three me's are what make me tick on a daily basis. I would go insane if I only posessed me for them, so I believe that me for me and me for her balance my interbeing. The fact that I am not unique in anyway, has led me to the conclusion that every soul on Earth posesses a me for them, me for me, and a me for her. And before the end of my life I will assure you that me for them will no longer be the dominant personality portrayed by me on a daily basis.
