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the birds and the bees
SEX SEX SEX!!! Yeah, baby, now that's the stuff. It's what everyone wants to talk about. So now I'm gonna talk about it. Sex is a good thing. Sex is a happy thing. But most of all, sex is a love thing. I think sex is only right in love. So should a person only have sex with one other person? Well, that's kind of a trick question. A person should have sex with another person they love when they are both ready for it and ready to be together on another level. So if someone only loves one person and is ready for it with one person in their life, then yes... they should only have sex with that one person. But love isn't as singular as people make it out to be. Sex is for those you love on that level. It's not for those you "like" and it's not for everyone in a relationship. So now you're thinking, "If sex is for anyone you love, then what's true love all about? What's so special about that?" True love isn't signed through sex, it's signed through marriage. I think it's okay for people to have sex with more than one person in their life, but marriage should be limited to one person. 

It seems to me like a lot of people out there have it wrong in one way or another. Some people think sex is for pleasure and they should do it as much as possible. Some people think that sex is sacred and should only be with the one you marry. Some people think marriage is just another thing, and therefore we have people out there that are in their second and third marriages. I think sex can be a beautiful thing... but marriage is even more beautiful. And I guess I'll "get off" this subject now.