"A compliment is a gift, not to be thrown away carelessly, unless you want to hurt the giver." - Eleanor Hamilton

"Pray that your loneliness may spur you into finding something to live for, great enough to die for." - Dag Hammarskjold

"Treat the other man's faith gently; it is all he has to believe with.  His mind was created for his own thoughts, not yours or mine." - Henry S. Haskins

"You must lose a fly to catch a trout." - George Herbert

"Self-respect is the cornerstone of all virtue." - John Herschel

"Nothing, of course, begins at the time you think it did." - Lillian Hillman, An Unfinished Woman, 1969

"It is when power is wedded to chronic fear that it becomes formidable." - Eric Hoffer, The Passionate State of Mind, 1954

"Our greatest pretenses are built up not to hide the evil and the ugly in us, but our emptiness. The hardest thing to hide is something that is not there." - Eric Hoffer

"Don't flatter yourself that friendship authorizes you to say disagreeable things to your intimates. The nearer you come into relation with a person, the more necessary do tact and courtesy become.  Except in cases of necessity, which are rare, leave your friend to learn unpleasant things from his enemies; they are ready enough to tell them." - Oliver Wendell Holmes

"Drop the question what tomorrow may bring, and count as profit every day that fate allows you." - Horace

"When a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is any thing you can do.  Think up something appropriate and do it." - E. W. Howe

"To avoid criticism do nothing, say nothing, be nothing." - Elbert Hubbard

"There is nothing like dream to create the future.  Utopia today, flesh and blood tomorrow." - Victor Hugo, Les Miserables, 1862

"You cannot go around and keep score.  If you keep score on the good things and the bad things, you'll find out that you're a very miserable person.  God gave man the ability to forget, which is one of the greatest attributes you have.  Because if you remember everything that's happened to you, you generally remember that which is the most unfortunate." - Hubert H. Humphrey

"Get pleasure out of life...as much as you can. Nobody every died from pleasure." - Sol Hurok