What is a Witch?
Contrary to many widely-held myths, witches are
quite normal, engaged in the sorts of activities
that are common to people in any culture or
civilization. We work in a variety of
professions, we live in all climates, we drive
cars, raise families, tell jokes, and in most ways
come across as perfectly normal people. This,
however, doesn't answer the question, so let's
approach it from a different angle:
Technically, witches are initiated members of a
(for example) Celtic-style nature religion. In
this sense (which is, strictly speaking, the
proper one), a witch is a person who has
demonstrated a firm understanding of the principles
of the Craft, has been trained in the meaning
and purpose of ritual and the performance of ritual,
and in all ways seeks to live a life that is in
harmony with Nature and the cycles of the
universe.
What are Warlocks, then?
The term 'warlock' specifically means
'oath-breaker'; it is used to describe one whose
word cannot be safely trusted. To call someone a
warlock is a serious matter in Pagan circles, as we
hold integrity and trustworthiness in very high
regard. Warlocks are generally outcasts, and may
be either male or female. Just so, the term
'witch' is correctly applied to both male and
female.
You've mentioned Paganism twice; I
thought Pagans were godless heathens!
'Pagan' comes from the Latin pagani, which means
'country-dweller'. During the Middle Ages, when the
Roman church began to consolidate its influence in
northern Europe (and specifically in the British
Isles), they concentrated their efforts around the
noble courts, which were generally centers of
population. As members of the court began to
accept the new Way of Christianity, others began to
see advantage in being on the newteam, and followed
those with money and power into the fold. The new
religion was not so popular among the common people,
who were more inclined to tend their flocks and
crops than to curry favor with the nobility in
town. The courtiers, educated by Latin-speaking
clergymen, referred to these un-Converted masses
as pagans, or 'hicks', as might be said today.
'Heathen', that all-purpose accusation, is just
the old English translation of 'pagan'; both
terms simply mean that the fashionable people of
the Dark Ages didn't think much of the arrogant
rubes who wanted to hang on to their own ways
rather than disbelieve the evidence of their lives
and experiences.
As far as 'godlessness' is concerned, only
repetition has given these words that connotation.
That doesn't tell me much about
Paganism.
Paganism is a broad group of traditions that
share a more-or-less common world-view, and in
that way is similar to Christianity. This
world-view is marked by several elements:
- Creation as an on-going process (as
distinct from an event);
- Time as an ever-repeating cycle or
spiral (no start or finish);
- Universe as an organism becoming
conscious (as distinct from a machine produced by a
celestial engineer);
- Love as the essential nature of the
Universal organism;
- Experience as the means by which the
Universe becomes conscious;
- Incarnation as the means by which
experience is forged into wisdom;
- 'God' as a description (as distinct
from a name or title).
Although there are differences between them,
Wicca, Shintoism, Hinduism, Polynesian Kahuna,
Taoism and American Indians are among those groups
who substantially share this world-view. Many of
these concepts are espoused as well by some 'New
Age' groups.
In essence, Pagans hold that spirituality and divinity are inherent in the Universe, that we live to experience, and through that experience we gain wisdom and increased awareness.
Do witches Believe in Jesus?
Some witches believe in a historical Jesus while
others believe in the symbolic or mythic Jesus;
others believe in neither, and for many, the
question of Jesus is irrelevant. I have heard many
of my brothers and sisters voice the opinion that
Jesus was a genuine Divine Being who taught a path
of love and service, and who in his role as the
Sacred King gave his life that the lives of the
people would be renewed. For these things we honor
him, yet we do not believe in messiahs, and I know
of no Witch who worships him as the 'only son of
god'.
Then how do Witches propose to Escape Hell and
Attain Salvation?
This dual question has no real meaning for us;
we see life as a school, not a lottery. In this
school, we learn from the mistakes we make as we
thread our ways through the world, and the lessons
we learn are of love, tolerance, humility,
understanding and joy. We believe that we learn
these lessons, in common with all life every-where,
through face-to-face interaction with the 'way
things are'; and we believe that, though these
lessons are often accompanied by feelings of sorrow
or loss, they are worth the learning.
On the subject of salvation, we believe that Hell
(so-called) is the result of becoming attached to
things and people (being 'of the world', as
Christians might say), taking the lessons of
life personally and perceiving them as troubles
and blaming ourselves and others for the problems
in our lives. On the same note, the closest we
get to an idea of Heaven is through accepting the
pains and frustrations of day-to-day life as
lessons, and learning how we have caused ourselves
and others pain through our errors, thereby
freeing us to go on with our lives stronger, wiser,
and more balanced.
Where do you think you go when you die,
then?
We tell stories of a place we call Summerland, which
we think of as a place of welcome rest after the
rigors of life on Earth. We expect to be rejoined
with friends and loved ones who went before us, to
digest and understand the lessons we have
learned during our time 'incarnate'. From
there, we will return to life on Earth after a
time, to learn and teach until we achieve
perfect knowledge and understanding of this cycle
of existence. Honestly, we don't much occupy
ourselves with thoughts about afterlife, as we
believe there is nothing to fear.
I guess you don't believe the Bible is the
'word of god' then, do you?
No we don't; the ways it teaches are not our ways,
although we respect them as we respect all the many
ways that people use to 'touch the heart of God'.
What do you use, then, for a Bible?
The world is our 'bible' (Latin for 'book'), and all
that is on it, in it, and around it. For us, the
Earth is our mother, our teacher and our provider.
From her, we learn to survive, to sing, to create,
to rest and to believe. The Sun for us is a symbol
of the father, from whom we learn to dare, to
question, to heal, to dance and to dream. The
seasons teach about birth, death and rebirth, and
about the need to live in harmony and balance with
the rest of creation. For us, the Divine is all
about us, befriending us, teaching and guiding us.
Are Witches Pantheistic or
Polytheistic?
Both. Yet the truth is not reached by so simple an
answer. We are pantheist in the sense that, for
us, the gods are everywhere. This is essentially
what Judeo-Christianity refers to in speaking of
God as omnipresent. The gods are also within us
(the Kingdom of God within, as Christians would
say), because we contain the Divine Spark ('Holy
Spirit') in common with all that exists. Because
we perceive this ever-present spiritual
manifestation around us, we are also polytheistic,
meaning that the attributes or characteristics of
perfection and divinity take on many forms;
therefore, they can be understood in many
different senses and deepen our comprehension of
the Truth that is behind and beyond all Ways and all
religions. To put it another way, we are Polytheist
because (for us) the Absolute (which roughly equates
to the Christian concept of 'God') manifests as
male and female, and so we worship both God and
Goddess. We are Pantheist because this primary
dual manifestation is reflected throughout
creation and so, everything that is tells us about
some aspect of the Absolute (and is therefore holy).
Tell me something about the Gods you
worship.
Please click here, as this section is quite lengthy, I put it on a seperate page.
Do Witches worship the Devil?
NO! In fact, for many centuries, Wicca (as we call
the indigenous paganism of northern Europe) and
Christianity co-existed peacefully: the Christians
did not claim to be the sole access to God, and the
Wicca offered sincere reverence to Jesus as a great
Sacred King whose sacrifice touched everyone.
However, as the Roman church grew in power and
influence, it became jealous of the very large
number of Wiccans who, -though acknowledging the
divine role of Jesus and respectful of the Path
walked by those devoted exclusively to his message
- still steadfastly refused to render obedience,
wealth and land to Rome (and its emissaries); for
northern Europe was almost entirely inhabited by
those who held to the 'Old Religion'. This
jealousy was the beginning of the Roman church's
deliberate attempts to discredit the old ways.
These attempts included the creation of a 'devil'
that was deliberately designed as a caricature of
the Horned God worshipped (though not
exclusively) by the Old Religion; the attribution
of any and all natural calamities, and any source of
distress, to the practices of the Wicca, which,
it was claimed, invoked this 'Power of Evil' the
church had created; and by accusing women (who
lacked sufficient maleness to have been created in
'God's' image) of being inherently demonic
temptations, drawing men away from the church and
into the natural world of life and death.In this
light, it is hardly accidental that the whole-sale
persecution of the Old Religion began during the
time of the Black Death. This plague did much of
the church's work for it: by killing off one
fourth to one third of the population, the black
death eliminated an enormous number of adherents to
the Old Religion. That done, and the Wiccan
civilization still disorganized from the imperial
Roman extermination of the Druids years before (the
Druids were masters of history, ritual, poetry and
law), it became a simple matter to convince the
survivors that the natural world was their enemy,
and women the wanton agents of the 'Enemy'. The
stage had been set for the Inquisitions, whose
victims were overwhelmingly women and persons of
wealth and influence in the lives of the decimated
pagan community. Since those times, the Roman church
and it's successors (such as the 'PTL' and '700'
clubs) have used this manufactured association with
an artificial Arch-BadGuy as a means of
justifying the CONTINUED persecution and murder of
those who still follow the Wiccan Way.
In "The Satanic Bible", it says that Witches ARE devil-worshippers but are ignorant of the fact. The Satanic Bible was written by a man who worships 'Satan', who is supposed to be the 'father of lies'. This suggests to me that his commitment to the truth may not be trustworthy. Essentially, by declaring his belief in the church's own image of their created Enemy, he has declared his acceptance of the medieval Christian character of the game they play; he has chosen the 'Party Line', and his place of the side of the imagined Adversary. We do not define the world in Christian terms, for we have essentially nothing to do with Christian beliefs and practices. (This is not to say that these is no common ground between Christianity and the Craft, for there is much that we share.) Not so the Satanists, whose every practice is either a perversion or a violation of some Christian form (e.g., the 'Black Mass', which Witches would still consider a foolish and irreverent waste of time and energy, even if it were otherwise harmless), or the more-or-less self-conscious pursuit of evil, which cannot be seriously defended.
Though we are not believers in 'Satan', we do
have a concept of evil, which I will attempt to
delineate:
most of the problems we experience
in life can be thought of as arising from the four
qualities of attachment, greed, fear, and ignorance.
These "qualities" cause us all great pain in life
as they warp our understanding of events and cause
us to respond in ways that hurt and confuse. This is
'sin' in it's original meaning of error and mistake,
and often it is quite innocent of any desire or
intent to hurt, mislead or abuse. Evil is the
result of adding a fifth quality to the others, that
of self- centeredness. When self-centeredness
enters the picture, then the seeds of evil truly
exist. Self-centeredness allows the self-centered
one to discount, or even ignore, the feelings, the
rights, and even the humanity of anyone outside
that narrow focus. It is just such
'object'-ifcation that allows truly horrendous
crimes to be committed, that creates characters
such as Jim Jones, Idi Amin, Josef Stalin,
Torquemada, Cromwell, and Hitler. The same
self-centeredness, moved from the individual self
to the group self, allows war, slavery, torture,
terrorism, profiteering, persecution and genocide.
(I ask you to remember that this is my formulation
of a Pagan concept of evil, and may not be agreed
to by others.) Regarding the idea that Witches are
ignorant of the focus of their spirituality, I can
only say that this is both false and flatly
insulting, much as it would be to state that
Christians do not worship Jesus, but a shoe
salesman from New Jersey who they think is Jesus.
What about these reports of Ritual
murder, Sacrifices, and Cannibalism?
These things have nothing to do with us, and we
have nothing to do with such practices. We find
the reports of such things disgusting and
horrifying, for we have and maintain a deep respect
and reverence for all life; the suggestion that we
are involved in such things causes us great pain,
for to be so involved would run counter to
everything we hold sacred. It would be, quite
literally, "against our religion". Episodes of such
anti-human, anti-life behavior are attributable to
derangement and insanity, or to Satanists, who make
no pretense of their worship of Christianity's
manufactured 'prince of darkness'.
So much the worse for us: because of the original program of opposition against Wiccan (and by that extension, all) Paganism, all Satanists are assumed to be Witches by definition.
It is interesting to note that, in the days when Christianity was new, the Romans accused them of many of the same vileness: blasphemy, killing and eating of children, trafficking with demonic spirits, ritual sacrifice. It is also interesting that in the hey-day of the Roman church, Jews were subjected to these appalling charges, which fuelled anti-Semitism right up to the Nazi exterminations. Indeed, such accusations seem almost to be a 'traditional' means of discrediting and destroying political/economic enemies (witness the naming of the USSR as "an evil empire"). Perhaps the day will come when peoples of different ways can live together without accusing each other of abominations.
Why do you call Wicca a Religion, rather than
a Cult?
Religions arise from principles and
understanding and teach a way of life; cults are
based upon charisma and fascination, and are
motivated by profit and ascendancy. Religions
thrive on independent conscious participation;
cults thrive on manipulation and obedience. Wicca
teaches a way of life based upon the perfection and
perfectibility of the spirit, closeness to the gods,
right action, the gaining of wisdom, and the Oneness
of all life. In token and celebration of this, we
come together at our appointed times to
worship and to share the love, joy and
'fellowship' that life holds for us, and to take
note of the lessons that the events of the seasons,
and of our lives, have to teach us.Our religion is
the wellspring of our joy; it is the sharing of the
knowledge that we are endlessly in the radiant
presence of all that is holy, all that is sweet and
uplifting. It warms us and fills us and makes us
whole, strengthens our minds and clears our
spirits. It is the knowledge of the love of our
Mother the Earth, who provides for us even in our
thoughtless and destructive ecological folly, and
who is more beautiful and more patient than praise
can express. It is the knowledge of the guidance of
our Father the Hunter, who quickens us, who teaches
us love and laughter, wisdom and prudence. It is
the awareness that we share this world, this life
with countless others; that each of us both deserves
the respect of, and owes respect to, the other
children of the Lord and the Lady.
Why does this Religion seem so strange to
us (Christians)?
It has been suggested that there are two
kinds of religion: Type One, which has been called
'primitive', believes in a cyclic, ever-renewing
concept of time, and a belief in reincarnation
frequently accompanies this view. This type
encourages a sense of appreciation and oneness
with Nature, and of personal responsibility both
practical and spiritual. Typically, a Type
One religion will have a dualistic and complementary
images of Godhead,representing polar aspects of
Creation as male and female. The Pagan religions are
Type One.
Type Two, which has been called 'revealed', believes in a literal beginning and ending of Creation- a linear concept of time, with life considered as a one-shot ordeal. Type two religions encourage a detachment from the world of Nature and a reliance on authority (beyond the initial choice of whether or not to follow orders); they will have a dualistic and antagonistic images of Godhead, representing polar aspects of Creation as good and evil. Monotheistic religions such as Christianity are Type Two religions. Type One and Type Two are so called because they are the first and second types, respectively and sequentially, to show themselves in human affairs. The typical American is raised Christian, has virtually no contact with members of Type One religions, and little meaningful inter-action with members of the other monotheisms (Judaism, Islam, Zoroastrianism). As a result, most opinions are formed based on the images that are provided by the culture, and today this means the images provided by movies and television. From the beginning, these images have been selected to amuse and shock, rather than to enlighten or inform. Truly, after nearly 2,000 years of exceptionally bad press, Pagans of any sort from the 'superstitious' Hindu to the 'savage' native American to the 'wicked' Witch, are notoriously easy targets for caricature. One can only say, 'Please don't believe everything you see and hear!'
Why do Witches go off into the woods at
night to worship?
First, we prefer to worship outdoors; as we are a
nature religion, we believe that no
building can give us the sense of contact we feel
when our bare feet rest upon the Mother Earth,
or the sense of blessing we feel when a breeze
caresses our skin. To worship is to enter the
presence of God or the Gods or Universe; so for us,
worshipping inside a building is more like leaving
the Divine Presence. Given that, the best place to
do this would be in a quiet spot, not frequented by
picnickers, traffic, or smog; a place remote enough
to minimize the distractions of the man-made world.
These days, there are few areas that offer much
along these lines, but there are still woods to be
found, and when we can, we worship there. The fact
that trees are important symbols for us only
enhances the appeal of the woods.
So, why at night?
There are several reasons: after dark, people go
indoors & get quiet - this enhances the
peacefulness (as almost everyone knows) and the
serenity of our outdoor communion, which is
important to us; also, the moon for us is a symbol
of the Goddess, and our rituals are synchronized
with the lunar phases - this makes nighttime
appropriate to us, for night is when the moon is
most prominent.
There is one more reason that those of us who can, hold the Circle (our worship) in the woods at night - in practice, the more isolated we are, the safer we are. Poeple who dont understand, or who are afraid, often start rumors, and this causes trouble, we prefer to stay isolated, so as not to have that kind of trouble.
If Witches are all the good things you
say, what are you afraid of?
We are afraid of ignorance and of the violence
that too often accompanies it. To draw an example
from history, the church-inspired inquisitions
caused the murder of 9,000,000 people. These people
met their ends through torture, starvation, burning,
drowning and hanging; their property was seized
by the church, and their families were scattered.
Many of them were forced to watch loved ones
suffer agonies while they awaited their turns. The
only accused who survived were those who 'confessed'
to the most loathsome crimes and outrageous - even
nonsensical - acts, and recanted all their
'heresays' in detail untill the examinor was
satisfied and the person was made sufficently
'sorry' for their heinous behavior, and repented for
their 'sins'. Then, and only then were the 'lucky'
ones allowed to live, 'by the grace of God' the
others died.
Today in the 20th Century, members of the Craft have been fired from their jobs, have been beaten, harassed, and sometimes murdered. Some have lost their children in ugly legal battles, homes have been looted and burned, and perfectly wholesome people have been declared anti-social and a menace to the community. Yes, all these things do go on now, normally by "well-intentioned" Christians in a state of great fear and utter ignorance.
This is the reason for this writing: to bear a lamp in the darkness so that this holocaust may finally come to an end, and innocent people may go about their lives unafraid.
As an example of why we're afraid, the next question is pretty good:
The Bible says, "Thou shalt not suffer a
witch to live"; Why should we?
The 'King James Version', on which virtually all
English-language translations are based, was begun
and completed during the Burning Times (our term
for the anti-Pagan holocaust in Europe). Several
terms were rendered as "witch" in the final
version. These terms were, roughly, "evil-doer",
"poisoner", "one who works harm
in secret". We shall probably never know
whether this substitution was a matter of political
calculation or honest error. I think it likely
that there was a healthy portion of each at work.
Further, the context of this passage is significant.
At the time, the Israelites were preparing to
invade and conquer the land of Canaan. In this
light, it is highly possible that the original
warning was against Canaanite saboteurs and/or
infiltrators, partisans working against the Israeli
occupation. It would take a deliberate decision
to apply such a stricture against a different
people of another time in another land. It may be
interesting to note, in this context, that the
warning (often quoted) against soothsayers,
magicians, etc. was specifically aimed at foreign
practitioners. Jewish soothsayers, etc. were not
mentioned.
Are there any guidelines a Witch might be
expected to live by?
There are many
precepts that help us learn how to live in
harmony. One of the most important of these is
personal responsibility. We hold that each of us is
responsible for choosing any and all words, deeds,
opinions, thoughts, feelings and responses.
Another is called the 'Law of Three-fold Return'.
This teaches us that we directly experience the
results of our choices, deeds and behavior. It
works much like the 'golden rule'. From these two,
arises one that almost
might be called 'the Witch's Motto': An it harm
none, do what ye will. This one carries much of
the weight that the Ten Commandments carries for
Christians. It means that we are free to act as we
see fit, providing that no other person suffers
injury, pain, anguish, loss, or corruption, as a
result of our actions. Also, there are the 13
Wiccan Virtues, which also guide us in our growth
and spiritual
development. These virtues are Tolerance,
Charity, Humility, Devotion, Patience,
Kindliness, Forbearance, Sincerity, Courage,
Precision, Efficiency, Discrimination, and Wisdom.
These are taken to a rather highly developed
point in application, but not changed from the
qualities one would assume. I would like to point
out that 'discrimination' refers to the skill of
recognizing the fine points that make one
person/place/situation/ moment different and
unique from any other. It has nothing to do with
segregation, or with injustice.
What does the number 13 mean to Witches?
Simply, it represents the 13 lunar months
in a year; we celebrate the passage of these
months, or 'moons' in our rituals.
What are Wiccan rituals like?
In substance, they are no different from any other
religion's observances, though they do look
different.
We begin by preparing ourselves with prayer and meditation; we then 'cast the circle'. The Circle is our temple, and it is built and purified for each ritual; it usually has no overt form or structure, not even a chalk boundary, but is always circular in shape. Every participant must declare themselves free of malice, and ready to celebrate in a spirit of harmony and good-will before they can be allowed to enter the Circle. Once all have gathered, we use a group prayer (chanted by all, usually) to further unite us and elevate our hearts, and to turn our minds toward the gods. The priest and priestess (our clergy) then call upon the Lord and the Lady, asking them to be with us - to receive our love and blessings, and to share their love and blessings with us. We share lessons and moral exercises at this time, which serve to emphasize the spiritual focus and the significance of the occasion. Through chanting and exaltation, we internalize these lessons and this significance so that we may be in harmony with the unfoldment of the Divine Purpose. We then share bread and wine (or cakes and ale) as a sign that, as children of the Gods, we share in the bounty of nature and receive our nourishment from them. Thanksgiving is then offered to the Lord and Lady, and to the Creation in which we take part, and we receive their bene-diction. A ritual is frequently followed by food and fellowship.
Most of our rituals are for worship, for spiritual focus and development, and to harmonize with the Divine Purpose ("the Path"). We also perform rites of passage and sanctification: namings (christening/baptism), handfastings (marriage), and memorials (funeral rites), among others.
What about Magic?
We do use magick for a variety of purposes (we
spell 'magick' with a 'k' to
distinguish what we do from stage magic, with its
connotations of illusion and trickery): healing,
behavior change (a witch only works on his or
her own behavior), and general self-improvement.
These are the primary aims of magick, as
practiced by a witch who knows what she's doing!
It is sometimes true that someone will say, "I am
a witch", and then do things that no witch would
do, just as some have claimed to follow Jesus, yet
have done things in his name that would never have
gained his approval. In this context, let me share
something with you: no true witch will employ
magick to harm another; or to manipulate or
influence another without the knowledge and
permission of the person to be affected.It is
standard to get a person's permission even before
attempting to heal that person. This means that
love spells, hexes, curses, and "the evil eye",
whatever that is, are specifically out of line and
out of the question for a true witch. (However, if
there would happen to be such a person who would
send out a 'hex' or 'curse' or what-not,(and
unfortunately there are those out there) it IS
acceptable to perform proctive magick, which
involves the 'negative magick' bouncing off of a
protective shield, and returning to whoever may have
sent it. )
Other uses of magick include seeking guidance, protection, finding lost persons or articles, to harmonize with the gods and with the natural life and cycles of the planet Earth.
Magick is a way of approaching situations that allows one to bring all one's abilities and internal resources into play. It is similar to Positive Thinking, combined with self-awareness and a clear understanding of exactly what one hopes to achieve. All this is done from within a focussed, prayerful attitude to ensure that the effort is in harmony with the Divine Purpose. Magick, done properly, does work; and harmlessness is a major part of doing it properly. It can be powerful, which is why no true witch will attempt to teach magick to a person who is unstable or immature (remember, we consider ourselves responsible for our acts and choices!); nor will any true witch use magick to impress others, nor to enrich herself or himself at another's expense.
How can I recognize a true Witch?
Witches are human, like anyone else; therefore,
they are not perfect. A true witch,
however, will be actively involved in becoming the
best, most complete and well-balanced person that
she or he can become. As a result, you should be
able to see all 13 of the Wiccan Virtues active
in the person, though you may not see them all at
once, and perhaps not in their perfect
expression. A true witch tends to be active,
good-humored, perceptive of her own faults, and
tolerant of faults in others. There may in fact be
no clear way of recognizing a witch as a witch.
On the off chance that I wanted to know
more, where could I look?
Larger cities sometime have a group or
two that are more or less "public". This may give
you a starting point if you actually want to talk
to someone. Try meeting with current and former
members, if possible. For those with a more
academic interest, there are several books one can
rea, please click here, for a suggetsed reading
list.
AFTERWORD
I have tried in this writing to give respect to religious faiths other than my own. Some of the historical facts regarding the relationship between the Craft and Christianity are not pleasant to relate, and they may not be flattering to hear; yet these things are matters of record, and they are crucial to an understanding of a Wiccan position, so I have included them. I have also, at times, used a 'voice' that is basic and direct, at the expense of formal correctness, in an effort to give as clear and unambiguous a picture of the Wiccan 'side' as possible. I have done so without malice, and I intend only real communication; if you find some of this offensive, therefore, I ask you to consider the 'gentleness' with which we have been treated over the centuries, and find it in your heart to forgive me.
*A Note from Mistkl..
I recieved this from a friend of mine quite awhile
ago, I do not know where it origionally came from,
but I think it is an EXCELLENT desciption of most of
the beleifs/practices of Witches, I say most,
because there are a few minor points I do not agree
with in here, but I left it intact as Im not going
to tear apart somone elses work and make it sound
like mine. The main thing to remember when learning
about Witches is that almost all of the diffrent
kinds you will come across have slightly diffrent
beliefs, there is NO one RIGHT way. Also, If you
are the author of this, and mind it being here,
please let me know and I will take it down
immediatley, or give you proper credit, whichever
you prefer. I intend to take credit for no work
that is not my own, and would like to see proper
credit given for this excellent peice of work:)
Blessed Be!