~Thanks for being a wonderful Dad~
A father is a person who is forced to endure
childbirth without an anesthetic. He growls
when he feels good and laughs very loud when he
is scared half to death.
A father never feels entirely worthy of the
worship in a child's eyes. He is never quite
the hero his daughter thinks. Never quite the
man his son believes him to be. And this
worries him sometimes. So he works too hard to
try to smooth the rough places in the road of
those of his own who will follow him.
A father is a person who goes to war sometimes.
And would run the other way except that war is
part of his only important job in his life,
which is making the world better for his child
than it has been for him.
Fathers grow older faster than people, because
they, in other wars, have to stand at the train
station and wave goodbye to the uniform that
climbs onboard. And, while mothers cry where it
shows, fathers stand and beam outside and die
inside.
Fathers are men who give daughters away to
other men, who aren't nearly good enough, so
that they can have children that are smarter
than anybody's.
Fathers fight dragons almost daily. They hurry
away from the breakfast table, off to the arena
which is sometimes called an office or a
workshop. There, with callused hands, they
tackle the dragon with three heads; Weariness,
Works, and Monotony. And they never quite win
the fight, but they never give up. Knights in
shining armor; fathers in shiny trousers:
There's little difference as they
march away each workday.
I don't know where fathers go when they die,
but I've an idea that, after a good rest,
wherever it is, they won't just sit on a cloud
and wait for the girls they've loved and the
children they bore. They'll be busy there too.
Repairing the stars, oiling the gates,
improving the streets, smoothing the way.