Mastering the "art of seduction" is not easy, nor should it be. Nothing that is of true value ever comes easy. Learning how to seduce women is not something that a man can master in a short period of time. These skills are developed and honed to perfection only through experimentation and failure. Yes, I did say "failure". No two women are exactly alike, and therefore what seduction techniques works on one may fail completely with another. The best we, men, can hope for is a generalized list of "do's and don'ts" that will prevent us from shooting ourselves in the foot before our "dream woman" can see and come to appreciate us for all our good qualities.

Here are some basic "grass roots" tips on how to improve your odds of seducing women.

1. Dress to impress First impressions count in eyes of most women. Looking like a slob, especially on your first meeting will set your chances of seduction into a tail spin.

2. Mind your Manners Chivalry is NOT dead! Most women do appreciate well mannered men who do the simple things like hold a door open for the woman, demonstrates good table manners, and act pleasant in the company of others.

3. Be Sincere Don't through out trashy or meaningless compliments. Women can see through these very quickly. Avoid the sexual comments about her breasts and butt, and focus on things such as her hair, eyes, face, ear lobes or whatever.

4. Be Yourself Avoid trying to act the part of someone who you are not. This ALWAYS will catch up with you at some point in the relationship, usually with dire consequences.

5. Focus on Her Direct the conversation around what she likes, not what you think she should like. Avoid being a "know it all" and practice good listening skills rather than monopolizing the conversation.

6. Treat her with Respect Avoid using degrading language or slang terms towards her such as "booty", "hottie", "babe" etc. unless you are certain that she will not be offended by such terms. Don't make the promise of a lasting relationship if you are only interested in a "one nighter".

7. Eyes on Her Eye-balling every other attractive women in close proximity to your location is a definite 'no-no" and may end your relationship before it gets off the ground.

8. Be Patient Most women you just met will not allow you to seduce them into bed on a first date! That only happens in the movies or if you are dating "tramps". So move slowly, built a relationship beyond just physical attraction for each other. It will be well worth it in the end!

B.Tru's published work includes articles on dating and relationships among many others based on his counseling background. For additional tips, information, and support materials visit his new website "How To Meet And Seduce Women" CLICK HERE!